Quote Originally Posted by tigerspawn View Post
Several of my friends are cheating on their wives because they have higher libido than their wives. They state that they constantly have high sex drive but their wives hardly ever want to have sex. They also state that their wives are boring in bed and very predictable. They state that they are happy in their marriage and love their wives but have been cheating for years. I have spent a lot of time with them and their families. I have grown to like and respect their wives and I consider them friends. I’m having hard time with this. I could not handle being in relationship where I would have to hide things from them and lie to them constantly. I use to go to church and have supper couple times a week with my one buddy’s family. I don’t anymore and he wonders why I don’t want to spend time with his family. I can’t tell their wives because it’s against the code but I don’t want to lie to their families either.
This would have been a good book to have them read IF it could have been done prior to infidelity...not many can come back from that