Please help me make a decision on leaving wife or not **long, pls, read**

[Granovich]

do you have any kids ?

[BluPhin]

How can he have kids? He refuses to finish in her vag.

[jdog55]

I can do better also which is why I want to talk to her tonight... I can stop leaving my clothes on the bathroom floor and the towels on the floor. I will improve a lot if the sex life improves.

[LGM]

I can do better also which is why I want to talk to her tonight... I can stop leaving my clothes on the bathroom floor and the towels on the floor. I will improve a lot if the sex life improves.

That's NOT how it works. You do NOTHING for her, sexually, emotionally. You aren't a man to her. You're a roommate. You're her bitch. Try being a man - pay bills, do things around the house, talk to her, show interest in her and her life/hobbies. Concentrate on pleasing her during sex, not worrying whether or not she'll let you blow your load down her throat.

What you're telling everyone is that you're immature, and shouldn't have gotten married in the first place. Grow up, be a man, and take care of the house like a man would. Maybe then she'll look at you as a partner, a lover, and a friend. Not just some schlub who sits in the bedroom playing call of duty with a 14 year old all damn day, after you give her your rent check on the first of the month.