I did find another doctor , I am seeing a specialist soon, and from what I read and our conversation on the phone, he seems like he is willing and able to help...I can get an erection without my girlfriend present, but it just takes longer than before..my desire/libido is down, but while Im with my girlfriend I still want to have sex...just not AS much...used to be able to 4-5 times a day, now 2 max....and I noticed I can't last as long as I used to...does that say anything?