Thanks, Times Roman. I do appreciate that. It was years ago, and he will get what's coming to him, one way or the other. Maybe you can understand what I am wanting from my post above... maybe not.
I want to box, I want to do the iron man and all these 5k's and not worry about any of it. I want to look and feel great, and I want as much strength as I can get. I don't want to look like a mom of three, but be able to tote all three of them if I had to.