Well... we tried having a sit down talk today and it went to sh!t pretty quickly. She started in on the financial issues we have together, her focusing on some bad choices she made since I found out about the guy, how her choices are affecting her daughter negatively and zero remorse for her being with this guy. I told her all the bad things happening right now have one thing in common and that's her. It was all orbiting her pretty much during the whole talk, how she's not doing good and stuff like that. I asked her if she ever thought of what its doing to me? She couldn't answer that, so I told her bluntly.

I think it'd be best to deal with the financial things and just cut all ties with her and the kids. How can I ever trust her again? I came close to spitting in her face today, but held back and it took quite a bit of effort. I think in the end karma will look after her and this guy.