Love, while one of the most important aspects is only one part of a relationship. If you give up, what you perceive as a dream, there is simply no way that you will be happy. Fights about why you need to move all the time, blaming will start to happen and it will all start falling apart.

When I got married I knew and was willing to give up what I knew was coming. My wife is a hard core scientist and I knew we had to move for her career. I have had no problem with that as we have been doing that for 15+ years now. We are now in a stable place with no move for the next 10+ years which makes me happy but if I had to move tomorrow, I would simply adjust. Just who I am. Since you seem to be the opposite, there is no way you will accept constant moves and you will be miserable.

Just my 2c.