Testosterone Drops When Men Become Dads

[bobtail]

This explains why you go to the store, see some guy with a baby in a sling and he looks like your little sister!

Testosterone May Drop When Men Become Dads

[RedBeardedViking]

interesting read

[bigdil511]

This is pretty funny because my libido and energy completely died when I had my first child and I was 20 I went to an endocrinologist but they said I was normal but my level was 300 not really normal for 20 year old.

[InternalFire]

thats legit shit, last four year that is two lil kids for me and everything just turbo-slide downhill , libido energy and as of late low T

[bsh]

I believe it too... I've lived it, lol

[Facecrash]

My libido went down after my first child as well then my wife started going to gym and weirdly my libido came back 2 months later

[InternalFire]

My libido went down after my first child as well then my wife started going to gym and weirdly my libido came back 2 months later

lucky you my wife is afraid of the world and she's happy with the fat lump on her belly and hippo-hips after two kids and cares not how she appears physically and if I'd try to talk her in to going to exercise/healthy nutrition (at any form) it always turns out as an insult as I "cant love her the way she is?", and all I can say there's a short immature fuse in her brain... and this KILLS ME .. oh wait, "hey, honey, did you just look at that hoe right there?" ... yes I did!

[solit1ea]

So you're saying that having kids will kill my gains??? Welp, looks like I won't be having any for a while ;-)

Damn kids, they suck all your time, money, and now your testosterone! Damn moochers! lol

[RedBeardedViking]

I went from having a 315 T level and a year later after having our son dropped to 214.

[MrFreshmaker]

I went from having a 315 T level and a year later after having our son dropped to 214.

I have 4 kids,so it means my testosterone is zero!! Lol

[InternalFire]

I think its more of the general social ideology that there should be 1 and only woman, not because there IS 1 and only and you dont want to even think about another if it the true one, but as a matter of fact because you're DENIED to look at others by the "social norms" and you CANT have another (and maybe repeated this dogma over some time), not because you dont even want another most times, but just being told you CANT, you kinda want to get in a position where you CAN, just most because the other half is draining the last drop of patience out of you by nagging you with all this, and as many kids as you get in your life, realization of how much cost to raise them if you're in sub-par job/lifestyle is going to drag you down even further and you will get used to being miserable and fed up before you can bounce back, stuck with terrible routine you would never dream of at the moment of climax with your other half, just saying, may be far of the truth, although I believe it is truth

It takes major life-psychological breakdown sometimes for men to realize that kids are just extra people in our lives who should be taken care of more for than anybody else we know, but to know our own values, raise them and enjoy them, and knowing the worth of self, cherish it the way we used to before we got tied to one and the-only person, because once were not properly fuelled by our ambitions and goals, what's the pulling power behind us making world those around us better? Bitter truth, huh...?

Unless you make your life wonderful and well set up before having kids, you should agree to your other half that you should live your life like you used to live to at least 80-90% of the enjoyment and potential you always had, otherwise, yea life will suck and you will get stuck most likely however I think

You know how woman's be like? -
"Why do you need to keep this 2 seat viper any more, lets buy caravan or some Prius, hun...m...? "
"Why the **** are you dressing like this, are you seeing any hoe? "
"Why in the world would you buy this laptop 5k worth, do you know how much kids stuff you can buy for that? "
"You act different...You smile too much, why are you being so nice to these couples we met, are they not couples and you were looking at that girl there?"

Oh and like kids are needy greedy as much as you'd love them they'll ask and need for more every time on and on and on... but its kinda the way world is, get used to it, or work around it, dodge the system some how, make it fit, make it work


I believe human anatomy is alike the black widow spiders, men are meant to be consumed/eaten alive after we team up with the one and only, unless there is both side understanding of self worth and the reason of life enjoying your life and making everyone around you life better place, rather than sacrify your life to make someone better... that's true for the major part and I think it sucks.


just my 02cent

[Jamesmuscle]

interesting

[Simon1972]

i thought most knew about this.... test drops in reponse to any kind of love- not lust , love.

its there to protect the child from violence/lashing out as they can become demanding with crying etc. my test dropped and i noticed it, you will come back- just takes 5 years when you first meet their new primary school teacher.

[22-250]

This happened to me too.

[Thc Sargon]

This happened to me as well, when I was 21. I didn't know it back then but looking back at it and now having low t. I know i had low T. damn it!!!

[APIs]

IDK, you'd think Test might increase in order to help protect your newborn...?

[22-250]

IDK, you'd think Test might increase in order to help protect your newborn...?

Based on my experience, that's what happens to the mom.

[SEOINAGE]

I think its more of the general social ideology that there should be 1 and only woman, not because there IS 1 and only and you dont want to even think about another if it the true one, but as a matter of fact because you're DENIED to look at others by the "social norms" and you CANT have another (and maybe repeated this dogma over some time), not because you dont even want another most times, but just being told you CANT, you kinda want to get in a position where you CAN, just most because the other half is draining the last drop of patience out of you by nagging you with all this, and as many kids as you get in your life, realization of how much cost to raise them if you're in sub-par job/lifestyle is going to drag you down even further and you will get used to being miserable and fed up before you can bounce back, stuck with terrible routine you would never dream of at the moment of climax with your other half, just saying, may be far of the truth, although I believe it is truth It takes major life-psychological breakdown sometimes for men to realize that kids are just extra people in our lives who should be taken care of more for than anybody else we know, but to know our own values, raise them and enjoy them, and knowing the worth of self, cherish it the way we used to before we got tied to one and the-only person, because once were not properly fuelled by our ambitions and goals, what's the pulling power behind us making world those around us better? Bitter truth, huh...? Unless you make your life wonderful and well set up before having kids, you should agree to your other half that you should live your life like you used to live to at least 80-90% of the enjoyment and potential you always had, otherwise, yea life will suck and you will get stuck most likely however I think You know how woman's be like? - "Why do you need to keep this 2 seat viper any more, lets buy caravan or some Prius, hun...m...? " "Why the **** are you dressing like this, are you seeing any hoe? " "Why in the world would you buy this laptop 5k worth, do you know how much kids stuff you can buy for that? " "You act different...You smile too much, why are you being so nice to these couples we met, are they not couples and you were looking at that girl there?" Oh and like kids are needy greedy as much as you'd love them they'll ask and need for more every time on and on and on... but its kinda the way world is, get used to it, or work around it, dodge the system some how, make it fit, make it work I believe human anatomy is alike the black widow spiders, men are meant to be consumed/eaten alive after we team up with the one and only, unless there is both side understanding of self worth and the reason of life enjoying your life and making everyone around you life better place, rather than sacrify your life to make someone better... that's true for the major part and I think it sucks. just my 02cent

Sad truth but at the same time extremely hard to make everyone happy. When I feel down I think of all the things I would change to be happy, but don't know how to make it work and keep the others who depend on me happy.

And the original thread is very true, I looked my worst after my first kid, two months and couldn't believe it. Won't ever happen again, trt and blasting for life.

[davidtheman100]

brb voting for pro choice president brb never having kids

[davidtheman100]

This is pretty funny because my libido and energy completely died when I had my first child and I was 20 I went to an endocrinologist but they said I was normal but my level was 300 not really normal for 20 year old.

Yeah but did they take it into consideration that you have aids and got it from your gay lover?

[bigdil511]

Yeah but did they take it into consideration that you have aids and got it from your gay lover?

Really don't know how to respond. If it's sarcasm I don't care but other than that what's your fvcking problem.

[davidtheman100]

Really don't know how to respond. If it's sarcasm I don't care but other than that what's your fvcking problem.

I'm messing with you

[bigdil511]

I'm messing with you

Figured as much hard to tell without speech if it's definitely sarcasm.

[KOArtist]

Just had my first child last Tuesday...already noticing a drop in libido and erection quality. Bullshit!!!

[PksGolfer]

Just hang in there. If you stay fit, it all comes back once they go to college. Wife and I have been having a blast since the kid left. It's like we're in college again.

[Literal]

Hahah i told mine outright, you gain weight and turn into a hippo then be prepared to be single.. we're both trainers and that lifestyle is not acceptable for me.. she took it on the chin haha maybe im just an asshole ;-)