Thank you for all the support and replies as always. THought I should update the thread.
2020, what a year for all of us!
I finally got a CT scan and hopefully what was found is the reason for the high PSA, frequency and urgency of urination...A 1.25cm bladder stone!
I do have a history of kidney stones and it's possible/likely that one made it's way into the bladder and with prostate being enlarged, 65 grams? and perhaps with not drinking enough water or who knows what, either a small kidney stone turned into a bladder stone or it just started on it's own.
I have a laser outpatient surgery set up for January 4th.
No guarantees of how much this will improve things but the doctor did say it's not small and while some men have stones that size and larger with no symptoms, the stone, if not causing the issues is at least likely to be making them worse.
I nervously asked him about TRT, as the original idiot doctor wanted me off TRT, for no reason whatsoever.. He said, well that would mean we dont want to give you drugs to reduce prostate as it causes loss of libido, energy, etc..I forgot the name of the drug.
Well, in summary for this long story, I guess it's all the best outcome. Not cancer, treatable in outpatient, almost zero recovery time and no stent.
My only concern is prostate size of 65 grams, which might be one of the causes of the bladder stone.
I clearly do not want to stop TRT but am concerned about prostate size but he didn't suggest stopping but I am making an educated guess the other new urologist might very well suggest stopping TRT due to this concern..
Hope everyone has a happy holiday and New Year!