
Originally Posted by
Fluidic Kimbo
Imagine you're going for a weekend away with your wife, and that you have plenty of money to spend for the occasion. You can choose a homely bed and breakfast, or a swanky five star hotel.
When a person is in fancy surroundings, they feel that they themselves need to be fancy too. When a person is in homely surroundings, they feel they can relax and just be themselves.
So if a person shows up at a church wearing a suit, and is surrounded by people wearing suits, will their frame of mind be 'fancy' instead of just chilling out? Will the air of formality and respect detract from having a more sincere eye-to-eye encounter with their fellow churchgoer? This is what I'm probing.
Why are you worried about the potential interaction/thought patterns of the others as long as you're wearing decent jeans, shirt, etc.
Ask yourself this: Whom did Christ spend the vast majority of his times ministering to. Well to do fancy high rollers in the local hierarchy, or the sick, less, fortunate, etc.
Like Lovbyts pointed out the time of the service has some effect, however in the churches that have two morning services, the earlier session is typically more laidback in my part of the country.
Why not to an little legwork, and see for yourself. Sit outside and see what the crowds are wearing into church?
There are 3 loves in my life: my wife, my English mastiffs, and my weightlifting....Man, my wife gets really pissed when I get the 3 confused...
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