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[Honkey_Kong]

357 rolling again.
The problem here on the forum is that most of us contributing members (I would be at great pains to classify myself in that category.) BELIEVE that we are relationship counselors; myself included...

When I am in my counselor mode my typical advice, for a tranquil, happy relationship most commonly runs like this: Just look at what I have done, in the vast majority of my relationships, do the exact opposite, and you will be fine.

Most actual relationship counselors are totally useless. They never give you an actual solution to fix problems. If they did, nobody would need to come back to them for follow-up sessions since their relationship would be fixed. Instead, they just talk about "feelings" and give cliffhangers for the next session but never actually work on fixing the causes of the problems. And they'll keep doing that until the relationship fails so they can bilk every penny they can out of it.

You'll probably get more sound advice from random strangers, since most people alive have positive and negative experiences and can use those to guide others with.

[XnavyHMCS]

most actual relationship counselors are totally useless. They never give you an actual solution to fix problems. If they did, nobody would need to come back to them for follow-up sessions since their relationship would be fixed. Instead, they just talk about "feelings" and give cliffhangers for the next session but never actually work on fixing the causes of the problems. And they'll keep doing that until the relationship fails so they can bilk every penny they can out of it.

You'll probably get more sound advice from random strangers, since most people alive have positive and negative experiences and can use those to guide others with.

totally agree...!!!