I've tried numerous times trying to break him and my mother up...My mom is miserable. I've even tried getting her on AR! But shes, "So scared to start over." and shes afraid that no one will like her...Shes nearly 40, and she looks beautiful, about 33 IMO. Shes always scared that shes getting uglier by the day. I tell her how wonderful she looks. The guy shes with now is nearly 54..and he's worthless. The only thing I respect about him is he enlisted after graduation from highschool and served in Nam. Other then that, the man just needs to get out..My moms just afraid of being alone I guess..