Originally Posted by
TexasFitnessGirl
I hate all the ****ing games but here it goes. You have to act to her like you are not affected either way. Dont give it time and wait and see, you show her now that you are moving on, having fun and could care less. She asked for space give her all the G-D space she needs. Swole said it, have a party invite all your friends. Dont answer the phone when she calls everytime. When you answer make it short but SWEET. Look I am busy can I call you later. Call her a day or two later. Now the most important thing...When she shows signs of wanting to come back and is starting to be interested dont jump on that chance. Tell her you have to think about some things first, that you forgot how much you were missing out on. Spend a little time with her but dont act like you are too miserable without here, that you can take it or leave it.
Now like I said, I hate these games but I have taken psychology classes and this is what works. Human nature always prefers to have what it can't.
I am more the "See it" Want it" "Have to Have It" "Go After It" kind of girl.
I don't see the need for ****ing around with it, but like I said this is the tragedy of life - it is a game so if you want her bad enough and I can see you do, all the posts that say get rid of her, forget about her, you deserve better, aren't going to do a thing until you are ready to do that. I can see that you aren't so try this and go from there. You will find a much more appreciative recipient when you turn the tables on her.
"People take for granted that which they have in the palm of their hand, but become absolutley frantic wth desire over that which they already posess but are in danger of losing"!!
Good luck to you.
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