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  1. 02-16-2005, 10:47 AM #1
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    CB if it is meant to be it will happen and if not then the world will offer you other opportunities in love… That is just how it works. Either way you will find what your are looking for in a relationship just remember you are worth more than second best and you will except nothing less than a quality relationship…long distance relationship are tough. I think I would have to ask myself if I were in your shoes why did I get involved in a relationship with an absent partner and really reflect who I am and what do I really want. Good luck CB and remember it will all work out…it always does.
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  2. 02-16-2005, 12:01 PM #2
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    Sooo many men.......so little time!
    1. Once a cheat always a cheat!
    2. YES, SHE can get pregnant the first time!
    3. NO, PULLING out IS NOT a RELIABLE method of Birth Control. DAMMMMIT..... Wrap that shyte UP!!

    Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.

    For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage.

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    Sounds like a bad deal all the way around hun.

    No card....no call....adult female student......I smell something foul.
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    Yep......Im feeling the same way. Only time will tell. It's a same really because initially things were awesome and I thought I had found the right man.
    1. Once a cheat always a cheat!
    2. YES, SHE can get pregnant the first time!
    3. NO, PULLING out IS NOT a RELIABLE method of Birth Control. DAMMMMIT..... Wrap that shyte UP!!

    Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.

    For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Commando_Barbi
    Yep......Im feeling the same way. Only time will tell. It's a same really because initially things were awesome and I thought I had found the right man.
    Things are always awesome at the beginning........then time wears on and people begin to show their true colors.

    Sorry hun, you deserve better.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Commando_Barbi
    Here's the deal....the guy in LA is starting to feel the pressure of the long distance relationship....partially because he doesn't have a phone now and our comms are limited to me calling him at work during the day OR him finding a pay phone to call me.

    SO......Monday he tells me he was thinking over the weekend....some good some bad....and wants to talk but not at work so after he gets done with his class and drops his students off......he will call me. This means about 10pm. I didn't get much sleep the night before but ok...I'll wait up for the call. 11 pm rolls around and NO call.

    Today I get him at work and he tells me that after class one of his adult female students had an issue in her personal life so she wanted to talk to him. So I got pushed to the back burner.

    This on top of the fact that he opted to reschedule his trip that was supposed to happen this last weekend because he forgot he had promised to take a couple of his young students to a karate tourney. That I can deal with .... but the two together leads me to believe that I am not his first priority......or even close.

    Am I wrong to feel that he should have told this female student that he had an important call that he had to make and that he would talk to her another day?

    Oh and did I mention.....I didn't even get a freaking Valentines day Card????

    this man has one foot in the grave and the other is dragging dirt in behind him.

    These are RED FLAGS from hell, i sincerly hope you detach your emotions from this siutation because this guy is a piece of ****, why is he a piece of ****? Well when one knows they have an issue with their "supposed" significant other that needs to be dealt with, a truly caring partner would make this #1 priority, yet this SOB made a "adult female" student's supposed troubled life a priority over you.


    That says it all, nothing more needs to be said. I would not be suprised if this woman is not his true GF.

    Cut off all communication CB, your better than this Kindergarten ****.
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    You already have my input Barb.....and it's in line with Diesel.....**** if that's not scary to admit. hahahaha
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    Quote Originally Posted by Juggernaut
    You already have my input Barb.....and it's in line with Diesel.....**** if that's not scary to admit. hahahaha

    I need to go to the doctor.....I'm feeling ill.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Diesel
    I need to go to the doctor.....I'm feeling ill.
    If you say he's name is Santiago then I know you're stalking me. hahahahaha
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    Thanks guys. I have detached my emotions from this...for a few reasons. The writing is on the wall....it's a matter of time. Im not rushing to a decision now....but will make one next weekend...that's the time frame I have set for myself.
    1. Once a cheat always a cheat!
    2. YES, SHE can get pregnant the first time!
    3. NO, PULLING out IS NOT a RELIABLE method of Birth Control. DAMMMMIT..... Wrap that shyte UP!!

    Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.

    For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage.

    What the mind can conceive....the body will achieve!
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  11. 02-16-2005, 01:01 PM #11
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    Not trying to sound like Im blind to what may be obvious, but I really don't believe there is someone else. I think he is just 1) young and 2) not used to having to consider anyone's feelings, needs, schedule, expectations....but his own.

    I am easy to make happy.....A card here and there....I would have been happy with a single rose or SOMETHING on V day. But NOTHING. ... that's not acceptable.
    1. Once a cheat always a cheat!
    2. YES, SHE can get pregnant the first time!
    3. NO, PULLING out IS NOT a RELIABLE method of Birth Control. DAMMMMIT..... Wrap that shyte UP!!

    Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.

    For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage.

    What the mind can conceive....the body will achieve!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Commando_Barbi
    Not trying to sound like Im blind to what may be obvious, but I really don't believe there is someone else. I think he is just 1) young and 2) not used to having to consider anyone's feelings, needs, schedule, expectations....but his own.

    I am easy to make happy.....A card here and there....I would have been happy with a single rose or SOMETHING on V day. But NOTHING. ... that's not acceptable.
    Yea I argee.. not cool not getting anything
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    Oh, yeah, forgot to mention, she is older than me. Similarities are scary...
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    Well........we are in different states so it isn't like he has to schedule me in on a daily basis. BUT when you tell me you are gonna call ..... and you know I'm waiting up for that call....you **** well BETTER call. And the reason for NOT calling better NOT be anything other than a major car accident, carjacking or a death in the family.

    It's supposed to be a committed relationship. He gets mad when he can't reach me...but it's ok for him to call when he gets around to it. Screw that.

    Anyway........there are a few more problems than this...so it's probably on the chopping block. Maybe in a few years when I can retire and move and if he's moved out of the hood, slowed his life down a bit and Im not with someone else...we will try again.

    As much as I like this guy.....I've done a good job of keeping my emotions in check on this one....because I didn't want to get hurt AGAIN. I'm not hurt now...I'm annoyed. That's almost worse...cause I will get rid of you faster for annoying me than hurting me....which is probably pretty silly!
    1. Once a cheat always a cheat!
    2. YES, SHE can get pregnant the first time!
    3. NO, PULLING out IS NOT a RELIABLE method of Birth Control. DAMMMMIT..... Wrap that shyte UP!!

    Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.

    For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage.

    What the mind can conceive....the body will achieve!
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    You're a tough chick... you'll be fine. Sorry this guy is turning out to be non-commital. He just sounds either immature or he's playing you very well. Sometimes that happens when there's distance involved.

    By the way, visited your yahoo profile site and saw your pics in your folder. Nice selection from the Olympia. Did you take those pics?
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    Well.......I think it's done. Throwing dirt on the coffin NOW
    1. Once a cheat always a cheat!
    2. YES, SHE can get pregnant the first time!
    3. NO, PULLING out IS NOT a RELIABLE method of Birth Control. DAMMMMIT..... Wrap that shyte UP!!

    Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.

    For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage.

    What the mind can conceive....the body will achieve!
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    ill come move in with ya CB, Ill get me a job at Hy-vee and carry out groceries and buy you every rose in the hy-vee flower shop!
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    LOL Thanks Barlow. I appreciate the offer.
    1. Once a cheat always a cheat!
    2. YES, SHE can get pregnant the first time!
    3. NO, PULLING out IS NOT a RELIABLE method of Birth Control. DAMMMMIT..... Wrap that shyte UP!!

    Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.

    For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage.

    What the mind can conceive....the body will achieve!
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    settle for nothing less than complete happiness...
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