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    Quote Originally Posted by 1victor
    She is 38 and on lexapro, valium,zanex and anything else she can get her hands on! lol
    Doc prescribed? Is she pre-menopausal? Has she been to a doctor?
    1. Once a cheat always a cheat!
    2. YES, SHE can get pregnant the first time!
    3. NO, PULLING out IS NOT a RELIABLE method of Birth Control. DAMMMMIT..... Wrap that shyte UP!!

    Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.

    For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage.

    What the mind can conceive....the body will achieve!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Commando_Barbi
    Dang Big...every time I see that pic I think of those muscle headz cartoons...

    Sorry didn't mean to jack the thread!!

    I'll take that as a complement, I think....

    Thanks CB

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    If she were a dog she would be a little ankle biter that barks all the time, shakes like a leaf when you pet her and piddles all over the place.

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    yes all prescribed

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    Quote Originally Posted by 1victor
    If she were a dog she would be a little ankle biter that barks all the time, shakes like a leaf when you pet her and piddles all over the place.

    I bet that makes a mess in the bed, when ever you are trying to be romantic....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bigen12
    I'll take that as a complement, I think....

    Thanks CB
    LOL.....you are massive....soooo **** wide!!! and it makes your head look small....

    How wide is your back?
    Last edited by Commando_Barbi; 02-21-2005 at 11:58 AM.
    1. Once a cheat always a cheat!
    2. YES, SHE can get pregnant the first time!
    3. NO, PULLING out IS NOT a RELIABLE method of Birth Control. DAMMMMIT..... Wrap that shyte UP!!

    Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.

    For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage.

    What the mind can conceive....the body will achieve!

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    1Vic, I have gone through a similar situation recently. All 3 kids are mine tho. I resigned myself to the fact that she was leaving and told myself that I would not fight anything. I didn't want to bury myself under legal fees etc... I calmly told her that if she wanted me to move out I would be more than happy too. I stated that it wasn't what I wanted but I am tired of fighting. Since then I have been calmer and less stressed. If she told people about AS I said fine, whatever I don't care! Basically I got to the point that I was perfectly OK with my lifestyle and with who I am. Since this discussion and me coming to terms of who I am, our lives have become better. Still a little rocky but better. Sometimes I think we put too much thought into what other people will think of us. SCREW THAT. There is a great deal of research about the decline in male testosterone and depression. I FEEL so much better when I am "on" and training. That's what matters to me, how I feel. My kids think it's cool that dad is in shape and big and strong. I am training for a comp later in the year and now my kids are my biggest supporters. Since I have a competition goal the wife is coming around also. I don't know if my rambling helps at all, but I hope it does. I have been there. If all goes to hhell for both of us, you can meve to so cal and we'll get an a batchelor pad on the strand............lol

    Good Luck Bro!

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    Thats real hard bro... your wife is supposed to be the lady you can trust with all your secrets...

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    BUT the reality is.......that isn't always the case. We have a couple bros that are living that nightmare right now.
    1. Once a cheat always a cheat!
    2. YES, SHE can get pregnant the first time!
    3. NO, PULLING out IS NOT a RELIABLE method of Birth Control. DAMMMMIT..... Wrap that shyte UP!!

    Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.

    For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage.

    What the mind can conceive....the body will achieve!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Commando_Barbi
    LOL.....you are massive....soooo **** wide!!! and it makes your head look small....

    How wide is your back?
    I'm not sure how to measure my back, but my chest measures 58"
    I've always been a big man, it just runs in my family

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    Quote Originally Posted by Commando_Barbi
    BUT the reality is.......that isn't always the case. We have a couple bros that are living that nightmare right now.

    right...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bigen12
    I'm not sure how to measure my back, but my chest measures 58"
    I've always been a big man, it just runs in my family
    All I can say is .....

    LOL Awesome Big
    1. Once a cheat always a cheat!
    2. YES, SHE can get pregnant the first time!
    3. NO, PULLING out IS NOT a RELIABLE method of Birth Control. DAMMMMIT..... Wrap that shyte UP!!

    Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.

    For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage.

    What the mind can conceive....the body will achieve!

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    Those pills might make her have those swings in mood where she doesn't know what she wants. I'm glad things are calming down, now tag it like you've never tagged it later today to seal the deal.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Benches505
    Those pills might make her have those swings in mood where she doesn't know what she wants. I'm glad things are calming down, now tag it like you've never tagged it later today to seal the deal.
    Yeah, that was the point that I was trying to make, when my ex left me for the first time, when she came back, I got her on meds, and it made all of the difference in the world,

    But once she quit taking her meds and left again, is when I had enough and filed for a divorce.

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    Thanks Mondo, Big, eastcoaster. I am at a loss ............she is insane. I feel better I think I will let her go if she wants to. If it comes to that, I will be a part of my sons life. If she wants to go f-it!

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