yes i love being single ,get to do my own thing and spend my own money,ok so i dont get to dip my meat in the sauce every nite but sure.
yes i love being single ,get to do my own thing and spend my own money,ok so i dont get to dip my meat in the sauce every nite but sure.
true that, I love young girls now. B4 all I use to date was like girls 3-4 years older than me, now all i date is girls 3-4years younger than me. Its the best, when I gotta go i just say PEACEOriginally Posted by 1819
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Well vic I'm back in the same situation as U. I was wondering the same thing. I am miserable being married and scared sh1tless of being single at 40!. I was lucky to get married. If not I'd be dead or in prison. So I relate to BDTR and you on that issue as well. THIS SUCKS. Very confusing.
phyisical joy is alot more satifying than emotional joy
I don't know.....When you get older things change. The emotional contact becomes more important. At least for me.
It really does suck....there is no other way to say it. I am far from perfect but I am 10x the man I was when we met and she still isn't happy. How much is enough? I will tell you this I will dive head into my faith and not come up for air until I feel safe that's for sure.
Yes it is weird how it flips. Getting laid is great but I need to have feelings for her, it has no purpose otherwise. I'd rather spank it than shag a bimbo.
Yeah, if you woulda told me I'd be sayin that when I was in my 20's I woulda slapped you upside the head!Originally Posted by 1victor
I too am far better now. I don't drink, I don't drug, and my temper is way under control.....Go figure....
In the end it aint worth it
I'd honestly rather sleep with the same girl over and over,then some random girl I don't know every weekend. It's just a lot of crap you are going to face either way.
gotta be honest. i'd marry the chick in irish bulldog's avatar. dont know for how long, but i'd give it a shot.
No offense to the playas..................this is a roundabout compliment. I wish I was stone cold like you guys.
This is the crux of the problem. When I am single this is how I act! Not good for me or anyone around me!Originally Posted by 1victor
I'm enjoying being single right now for sure..spent too much time in long-term relationships when I was younger, now I can get my own stuff done. I can be selfish, for a while at least. I always say this for a while then get sucked back into another one though...best gains ever when I'm single, whether it be training, school, work.
I'm enjoying being on my own......but I do miss the companionship and intimacy of having someone in my life.....
Cutie
no, i am not. especially here at college, i didnt make many friends here. everything was focused on school and lifting, but when im bored and depressed it would be nice to know someone.
i dont like being single for a long time, when i come out of a relationship.. its nice for awhile, but then i get the itchin for a relationship
I enjoy it 98% of the time.. I am not ever lonely cause I am never alone.. Wel lalmost never. Whats is it about the guys who think they cant be intimate or friends with the opposite sex without being their boyfriend? I have fun I meet lots of woman and enjoy them all (as often as I can ) and not put pressure upon us with labeling it my gf or w/e I dont even date (conventionally) Its all in what you make of it.. If its in your mind that you cant function like a normal adult without your girlfriend.. It sounds more like your girlfriend/wife is your babysitter
i'll be enjoying single life shortly. but for the time being i have to deal with the girlfriend and her constant nagging. she's so attached i'm afraid she might tell the parents about my roid habit when i get rid of her. it's a touchy situation.
As I am now the ripe age of 22, I sometimes consider gettin a girl so shes there when you just wanna chill on the couch and watch tv all night and get ass whenever you want too...
But then I see my friends and the crazy bitches that run their lives... and I tell them, man you fckin 20-22, you have your whole life for love and you have this fckin female run your life and your miserable... But its those people that need the security and familiarity of a women, whether they are compitable or not...
Ill stay single... No one yellin at me for wanting to go out on a friday with my guys after a long week of school and work
Being single is nice it has its perks, but nothing like a good women.
I have never liked being alone. Now at 34, I am married, have 3 kids, work 2 jobs so she can stay home to take care of them. She bitches about EVERYTHING, I get puked on at least once a day, can't even get alone time enough to fart, can't ever spend a quite night with the wife, and cant remember the last time I had a night of uninterrupted sleep.
I wouldnt trade any of that for anything. Sometimes I think that I would give anything to get a moment of peace, but then I wouldnt hear 3 kids all screaming daddy at the same time.
on a side note, BDTR, sounds like you have yourself a quality woman on your hands. Any plans for marriage??
I prefer having one hot woman and have the best sex of my life then run around like a hoe and have not so good sex.
man I never even had a chick for more than 6 months, I get tired of chicks too fast. at first i like em alot, then I get to know them I hate them more and more. does this make me gay? also is weird because the sluts that will jump on my buddys lap just to make me jealous is the ones im crazy for, yes I know I sound retarded. also the ones I cant have make me go crazy.
that's how i am too. i've been with the one i'm with now for longer than six months but i've been on cycle for quite some time now and i don't like having to go looking for a$s when i have it waiting at home. it's horrible when i can't get any when i'm on cycle. come pct time it'll be back to the single life. i guess i should have saved my self some effort and just found myself a cycle whore.Originally Posted by jordanfanatic23
Originally Posted by jordanfanatic23
Wow, you could have your own Montel Williams show.
I love being single. The first three months of any relationship are the most fun and EASIEST. Of course, the emotional bond that forms after that offers a certain gratification, but to me it's not worth all the crap that comes with a full-on monogamous girlfriend. I'm sure I'll feel different when I'm closer to 40, only 30 now.
it's not that I need to go on the montel williams show, its just the girls I seem to get are the good girls but they are so f@#$^%#$% boring! the ones that I can't have are the ones i want. I don't get it.Originally Posted by SMYL_GR8
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I just got out of a 9 year relationship last year. I got with her in my low to mid 20's now im early 30's. Its been very hard getting over not having someone in all aspects sex, companionship and everything that goes with that. So far I'm not to in tune with being single. I've been trying to get in better shape, get my mind right and change professions. Its been rough, but I'm slowly doing it all and hope to be back in the swing of things soon. Just need to get my game back and stop being such a nice freaking guy. Its true nice guys do finish last, always.
Basilus good luck Bro, I may be right behind you at age 39.3754121![]()
It would be nice if you could lease a woman of your choice for 90 days!
that'd be great! just an extended test drive with the option to buy when your lease is up. that just made my day.Originally Posted by 1victor
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Bro, that's basically what I'm doing except I'm not paying and my I've got several rides to choose from.Originally Posted by 1victor
"I don't know what ya heard about me. . . ."
I think in the Wicca religion you can have what's called a "handfasting" which lasts for 12 months . . . it's roughly equilavalent to a one year marriage. But if a woman becomes pregnant along the way, well, some other rules apply, dunno what they are . . .Originally Posted by 1victor
Subgeniuses (www.subgenius.com) have a "Short Duration Marriage License" which lasts for 48 hours . . . come to think of it, I think Muslims have something similar; some sort of arrangement that sanctions short-term intimate relationships . . .
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Well, after 16 years I will be apartment hunting this weekend. Talk about some weird sh1t. Never figured I would be in this position............40 single and in an Apt.!!!
Life is a trip!
Mondo Pm me!
I like being single cuz i can pretty much do whatever i want, and who ever i want
but at the same time it sucks cuz theres no1 waiting for u when u get home. I like that feeling
Hate it hate it hate it!
1. Once a cheat always a cheat!
2. YES, SHE can get pregnant the first time!
3. NO, PULLING out IS NOT a RELIABLE method of Birth Control. DAMMMMIT..... Wrap that shyte UP!!
Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.
For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage.
What the mind can conceive....the body will achieve!
hey baby lets hook upOriginally Posted by Commando_Barbi
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HmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmOriginally Posted by farrebarre
Let me think about it.....
Hmmmmm
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1. Once a cheat always a cheat!
2. YES, SHE can get pregnant the first time!
3. NO, PULLING out IS NOT a RELIABLE method of Birth Control. DAMMMMIT..... Wrap that shyte UP!!
Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.
For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage.
What the mind can conceive....the body will achieve!
how come everygirl i talk to say thatOriginally Posted by Commando_Barbi
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