
Originally Posted by
WEBB
i hear ya hotstuff, but all the other forms are not 100%, not even close. there is always huan error with the other forms, with the vasectomy it removes that human error. i know it is nott 100% either but it is a lot better than the other options. and it can be reversed in a certain time frame.
Hotstuff it would take a long time to list all my reasons why i dont want kids and why i know i wont change my mind, but here is the jist of it.
1) i dont want to continue my legacy, there are some bad habits from my dads side that i wanna stop.
2) like i said i am selfish and want to have everything to myself and my girl.
3) i didnt have brothers or sisters or even cousins when i was younger so i am just not a kid person. i have always been around older people and was forced to grow up early.
hope you can kinda see my point of view a little and i appreciate you not jumping on my back and telling me to wait and i'll change my mind adn being like a few people i have told about this. all they do is get angry and tell me i am stupid and i will regret it.