wish my wife would change

[gixxerboy1]

just an observation. And i hope it all works out for you. But you seem to mention alot about what and how she eats. You are into a healthy lifestyle and watching what you eat. I don't know your wife but maybe she isn't into it. She doesn't give a shit about what she eats. Like i said I'm not there but are you nagging the shit out of her all the time about food? Maybe she is just sick of hearing it all the time and is feed up.

I'm speaking from experience.

[Moe-mentum]

#1. Learn to use paragraphs dipshit.
#2. Yeah, thats pretty cool going to the gym with her, I think that will really strengthen your realtionship in a new way.
#3. The thing about women is they need to be nurtured.
Their not like us guys who need to be challenged.
Praise and affection.
You have to look at your wife and see what ever small flame of beauty is there and fan it. (Notice space)
When she says she feels fat, tell her how beautiful she looks.
This will build her confidence inspiring her to begin taking care of herself more and more like a snowball effect.
Don't just sugar coat it either.
Really mean it.
Praise her in all areas you want her to improve in.
Ya, I know it's wierd, but this is how women get and build their value.
Realtionships change when your not gaming her anymore.
If you were still in the process of attracting her you would say something like, "well then get your ass to the gym" in a playful manner and would be conducive to increasing your attraction to her.
(Notice space)
But you are nowin a realtionship with different dynamics.
You are in a relationship for eachother, with each other.
(Notice space)
You have to trust me on this.
Remember, you have to nurture her, and you can do this without sacrificing your own happiness.(yep, another space)
Because I'm sure from what you have said, that if her happiness were to increase, it would increase your own happiness as well.

I admire your actions and intentions towards the child and your wife.
Shows a lot of character.

Keep working on yourself and everything will fall into place.

Good luck.

If you know how to read you could check out a book called
"The Way of the Superior Man"
Great book and I'm sure you could relate to it.