Is she has an ass like the one on your avatar I'd be on the plane already. Post a pic and will decide.
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Is she has an ass like the one on your avatar I'd be on the plane already. Post a pic and will decide.
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I think unless one of you are willing to relocate then it's not worth wasting your time.
~VET~ Extraordinaire~
This is probably the best advice. I did the long distance thing it sucks. And we were in a relationship before the long distance move. Its a drain on you emotionally and financially if you see each other alot. She is still my best friend but neither was willing to relocate.Originally Posted by STYLE74
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I don't think I'd be too worried about how many people have hit THAT. *GRR*
Just strap a rubber on your jimmy and dive in. :-D
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Well bro I'm ready to settle down with some one but if your not then yes just strap it.....But I wouldn't settle with someone that gives it up easy....you know what I mean.....?
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I completely understand. I would love to settle down but I'm not going to stop having fun just because I haven't found that 1 person.
If she is right for you than you should go for it. Never have an regrets about not doing something that you could have done. BUT do be smart about the choices you make.
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Wait wait... So your gunna take your happy ass all the way up to Canada and you hope she doesn't put out?
Dude if you chick won't put out, just head to the nearest Mormon temple, you'll find a few... and it's probably a hell of a lot closer.
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thanks for the advice but this feel so right....Is crazy....I guess I will learnd by my mistakes...
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it feels so right because its NOT REAL yet.
i know a girl i work with who met a guy from myspace, was kinda in the same postition (she was 17 not sure how old you are)
she took a plane from NJ to your state actually.
I talked to her for a good hour or 2 about how the guy should at least be the one to take the risk and come here and to bring a can of mace with her just encase. (which she didnt)
next time i saw her i asked how it went, her exact words "it was fine"
aka: "i dont want to admit how akward it was and badly if f*^cking sucked because you told me thats what would happen and ill do anything to not give you the benifit of the doubt"
so i had to dig deeper of course
i asked her if she plans on seeing him again..
she said "i had him agree to a myspace relationship"
i heard the words again and again in my head
"MYSPACE RELATIONSHIP"
"MYSPACE RELATIONSHIP"
"RELATIONSHIP ON MYSPACE"
She had this tool agree to this?? Does she really think you can put the words MYSPACE and RELATIONSHIP together??!?!
So yeh your not her, but you fall into the category of people who have such a problem finding someone in thier backyard that they think its logical to reach half way across the world and take a peak.. all in the name of LOVE, over the computer that is
so i ask.. how can you feel this way about something you cant touch? something you cant see in real life? something in another country?? something you have to travel thousands of miles to be with???
because you exchanged some words over an instant messenger?!?!
just look bro, there are literally hundreds and hundreds of girls in TEXAS right now, some of which who are MUCH MUCH suitable for you.. you just dont put yourself out there in the real world. So you've found comfort over the computer. Its fine, but its not logical in no way shape or form. Not when you take a realistic look at whats around you and how you need to change yourself to notice it.
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Rofl
Retired "hall of famer/elite powerlifter"
dude, you are young, lotsof girls out there, go see this girl, hook up with her,feel it out, justdont jum into marriage, it is a huge mistake take at least 3years to know someone befor you even think of that
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I'm starting to really think about it.....?
Retired "hall of famer/elite powerlifter"
think long and hard!!! sure it is cool to meet new gils from new places and go meet up with tem see what they are like, but YOU dont have to MARRY them!!play the field, and enjoy, grab all the girls you could,get out there and whore it up all around, dont paint yourself in a corner and get married, do that later in life when you are old like me(hell i still wont get maried , my girlfriend pushes for it and i dodge her bullets), not when you re in the prime of your lifeI'm starting to really think about it.....?
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im tryn really hard here. this has NOTHING to do with some guys being "players" and other guys being "relationship" guys.I'm starting to really think about it.....?
this has everything to do with COMMON SENSE. Common sense is provided in two ways. You learn it from other people (which when people mistakenly say your born with it) or you learn it from yourself (which is when people say hes the type that has to learn for himself)
ie: some people learn from mistakes other people make in life, other people can only learn from thier own mistakes. very few people are centered between the two.
your the type of person who has to learn for himself thats fine. but never forget the old proverb.
a smart man learns from his mistakes, a wiseman learns from the mistakes of others.
is going to see her a mistake?? for me yeh, for you maybe not.
is thinking about marraige a mistake? (when you havent even met them yet)for you yeh, for me yeh, you every other godamn person in this in this world... YEH.
i blame this shit all on the media. the producer of Sleepless In Seattle needs to be shot.
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LMFAO
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whatever dude just go!!! If it doesn't work out with her then just go into town
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post a pic of her. I know she gave you one.
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No harm in meeting the girl, hell I have met people from online for the experience. However, thinking about marrying the girl because you get along well right now is a bad move bro. I moved in with my ex after 2 weeks of knowing her, we lived together for 3 solid years day in and day out, and all I heard was marriage marriage marriage...after I propose, a year later, 2 months before we were to get married, I was shafted!
Point being as Doc.Sust mentioned, take an ampule amount of time to get to know them. Every relationship starts off as roses bro.
Retired "hall of famer/elite powerlifter"
good story, see you need to know somone first before you get caught inthere web, just ease into it,dont jump in blindfolded
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Yes....very true...I'm not going to throw away my money just like that....I would not travel there untill I'm sure about her but is just that Things are just happenning too fast...I don't know if is normal or not...Feelings are growing and she feels the same way....She calls me from canada every day and for a long time.....I'm sure she knows what to spect about her phone bill...Some times she calls and we talk for about 3 hours.......I don't even know aht we talk about....is crazy...
If feels if I known her for at least 6 months and is only being about 3 weeks...
~ Vet~ I like Thai Girls
Dude you need to come over to Asia and let me take you to Bangkok for a week..hell a night, and I will get all of this stupid shit out of your head in no time
"king of free stuff" / Retired
I have lots of stupid shit in my head too, let me come!!!
I don't know why ppl are so down on the idea of this guy going to see a girl. The world would be a real boring place if no one ever took a chance. Maybe the girl will be ugly, maybe they will hate each other, or maybe just maybe they will have a great time and strike up a relationship. The point is he will never know unless he tries and if it goes wrong he can at least say he had a new experience and visited a different country.
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perfectbeast2001.....brutha I'm getting married, I know she's the one, I knew I was right..
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Oh sh*t, what happened? You're already getting married? Well congrats and best of luck.
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da 1? hell i found da 2 last night. ngga der is putty on every stret n u takkin crazy bout sellin yo rites to hittin it so u can hit 1 4 cuple yrs n den wat? get divorced 4 real? man suckka lik u is why i gots two ho waitin fo me in bed evry nite. tell u wat man. i mean no disispect bt ill tak da 2 or 3 hos u wood have if u wasnt marryd n u can hav dat 1. mariage is a lisense to nt get yo fvck on. explain dat to me.
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Be careful man. I was with a girl for nearly 2 years. We both thought we found the one for a long time. And now...we both think differently of each other.
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Sorry to hijack the thread but I have a date tonight with a girl I met on HOTorNOT.com to go to a movie! She looks hot, we'll see what happens
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update:
Major25 is getting married to her! yippie
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HAHA I haven't thought about that for a while! When the girl showed up she weighed like 230lbs - she had calves the size of my thighs (and no it wasn't muscle lol)Sorry to hijack the thread but I have a date tonight with a girl I met on HOTorNOT.com to go to a movie! She looks hot, we'll see what happens
"body piercing & body jewelry expert"
"body piercing & body jewelry expert"
run, don't look back
"king of free stuff" / Retired
congrats man. Glad it worked out.
"body piercing & body jewelry expert"
I guess she's not the oneI was in the same boat, but my ex was really wacked, hell she had her own sex page
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Was she one of your tanning girls?I guess she's not the one
"body piercing & body jewelry expert"
yeah, that's all I seeWas she one of your tanning girls?that chic was messed up in the head. Fake multiple rapings, fuk parties, fake people dying tragicely, etc.
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Doc.Sust that was so accurate... have you done it yourself lol
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