extreme jealous girlfriend...

[fastwardo]

There is no fixing another person, bro. She is the one with the problem, not you. She is trying to make it your problem and you are letting her by staying with her. IT WILL NOT CHANGE!!!! Only get worse. You do not have any power over this situation, except the power to walk the f*ck away.

[fastwardo]

Oh, and the last girl I was with would go through my phone to and read my messages and scroll through my contacts, then ask me who so and so was. It pissed me off, but in her completely f*cked up mind she was completely justified in doing this. How else would she know whether or not she could trust me, right?? LOL. I never cheated on her and never gave her any reason to not trust me. It was 100% her problem, and it became mine. Week broke up 3 weeks ago, and 2 days later I found out she had given me the clap. Had to take antibiotics to get rid of it. No fun. It could have been a lot worse than the clap though...

[calgarian]

Thats why I dont like dating......just fvck them all

[Towel]

either she has an insanely guilty conscience or else she has been hurt really bad in the recent past. I say bail bru.

ow you dont want to know...Her past is really dramatic

Does she have a sister? I love crazy bitches!!! Best lays EVER!!!

yes she has but they are jailbait.

Yeah dsm she was totally making a big deal for no reason

Seriously though most relationships cant work out without trust and she doesn't seem to be the trusting type. you need to gain a bit of control back in the relationship Bro or its not going to last much longer imo, on the flipside it shows she cares about you alot, try building some sort of trust with her

Goodluck

she says she trust me, but she doesnt trust other people.

Been there done that. She may be bi polar also. Either everything is the best or the worst, at least mine way. Jealousy is the worst. I use to even laugh it off or make a joke about it but it almost always ended in diasaster and of course was my fault.

Get rid of her, that's one she is perfect EXCEPT for this one LITTLE thing. That is a BIG thing and will only get worse.

PS
Get your balls back when you dump her.

yes she is bi polar.

Oh, and the last girl I was with would go through my phone to and read my messages and scroll through my contacts, then ask me who so and so was. It pissed me off, but in her completely f*cked up mind she was completely justified in doing this. How else would she know whether or not she could trust me, right?? LOL. I never cheated on her and never gave her any reason to not trust me. It was 100% her problem, and it became mine. Week broke up 3 weeks ago, and 2 days later I found out she had given me the clap. Had to take antibiotics to get rid of it. No fun. It could have been a lot worse than the clap though...

thats messed up, sorry to hear that bro.


OK so i talked to her. She admitted i was right. Then she started crying for like 2 hrs and said that she loves me and only acts this way because she doesnt want to loose me and cares about me. And she promised me to change. Well we shall see. I actualy confronted her with this several times before. Usualy she says ok and then a week later it starts again. I hope the speech this time was taken a bit more seriously.

anyway thanks for the comments bro's. I hope everything turns ok in the end.

towel

[lovbyts]

ow you dont want to know...Her past is really dramatic



yes she has but they are jailbait.
HOW jail bait? They all turn 18 sometime and in some states it's still 16 lol


she says she trust me, but she doesnt trust other people.



yes she is bi polar.dude, trust me get out NOW!!!! Mine treid to commit suicide when we where married 2x. She succeeded a few years after our divorce.



thats messed up, sorry to hear that bro.


OK so i talked to her. She admitted i was right. Then she started crying for like 2 hrs and said that she loves me and only acts this way because she doesnt want to loose me and cares about me. And she promised me to change. Well we shall see. I actualy confronted her with this several times before. Usualy she says ok and then a week later it starts again. I hope the speech this time was taken a bit more seriously.

anyway thanks for the comments bro's. I hope everything turns ok in the end.

towel

Above in bold.
Sounds all to familiar dude. We you decide to get smart and get out try what I did. I started acting like I dont care and she decided SHE wanted out of the relationship. It was 100% easier that way. If it was my idea she wanted to die. if it's her idea it's all good.

[fastwardo]

OK so i talked to her. She admitted i was right. Then she started crying for like 2 hrs and said that she loves me and only acts this way because she doesnt want to loose me and cares about me. And she promised me to change. Well we shall see. I actualy confronted her with this several times before. Usualy she says ok and then a week later it starts again. I hope the speech this time was taken a bit more seriously.

anyway thanks for the comments bro's. I hope everything turns ok in the end.

towel[/QUOTE]

Dude, you don't have that kind of power (to change a person with a few words). It's like telling a drug addict or alcoholic that they need to stop using/drinking, and thinking that they will actually listen to you lol. People have been trying this method since the beginning of time, and no one has yet to succeed lol. It is silly to think that you will be the first. I've been in so many f*cked up relationships EXACTLY like yours bro. Now, with the first warning sign of this sh*t I'm outta there!

[Kratos]

dump her, you can't fix crazy

[Mooseman33]

the sky is blue, water is wet, and bi-polar chicks are the devil...

they will never change, move on bro, move on

[Deltasaurus]

I met this girl about 8 months ago, i totaly love her and she is so perfect except for one thing. She is so f*** jealous. She is overreacting so bad everytime I have some sort of contact with girls (not that i have much these days really, not at all). The only social contact i have with other girls are the once from my class because of her and even with them she is making such a drama out of it. For example a girl in my project class text me about our project and she totally gets jealous and starts a fight.

seriously let's sum it all up what I did because of her behavier:
- i deleted all the girls from my phone
- i deleted all the girls from my messenger
- i deleted my facebook profile because she totally freaked out if a friend msg'ed me.
- she has all my passwords and logins to everything i have on internet
- I dont go out with friends
- I dont hang out with girls or have contact with them outside school.

But no it's not enough. She expects me to sit around somewhere alone at school eating my cold chicken, pancakes, rice and all the other food that needs to be warmedup first. So that my classmates think i am some kind of onsocialized morron with mental problems.

I am really getting tired with this bullsh*t. I give her so much room, she checks everything i have, mail, phone, messenger. I spent so much time with her. I don't even have time for my friends and this is what i get back...

really what should I do with her?

1 dude your a straight ***** whooped extremely bad. U need to stand up fro your self

2, usually when people are this jealous there is a reason, maybe she herself is hiding stuff from you, whether it be she is talking to men behind your back or feels u may cheat on her because she has done something wrong to u. i dont know, but keep that in mind.

All in all you dont want to live your life like this, trust me you dont.

U need to sit her down and tell her this isnt going to work out between us.

cuz i dont think women like that have the ability to change im sorry but this is my complete and honest opinion.

im sorry but i really feel thats all you can do

[Deltasaurus]

lol you sound like the character Stu from the movie hangover

wow thats what i pictured in my head

[paulzane]

There is no way in the world that I would go with a girl like that...... EVER!