Personally..... I like to go out and drink at a club. I don't get smashed off my ass..... just carry a nice buzz.
One thing I've noticed..... women don't like a tight-ass with a water bottle. I've done it before..... i've been asked why i'm not drinking...... doesn't really matter what answer you give...... you're "the guy who's not partying" - now this is fine...... theres nothing wrong with it if you don't mind it. Me, on the other hand, I like the buzz..... and i'm not there to meet a wife...... i'm there to lay some pipe.
Point is..... you aren't any cooler or better because you choose not to drink. It's your personal choice...... if it works for you - great. Women at these places (where i'm from) are of shallow nature..... just how I like em

so I go out and have a good time because i'm every bit as shallow as they are ahahaha
~Haz~