I would start looking for a new girl, if you have to lie about silly littel things she might not know for sure but she'll still know...they always do!
Hell maybe she will think a lil white lie is ok like taking it by the neighbor.
Many options. Tell her the truth, Tell her a lie, Stop, Refuse to discuss the topic with her when she brings it up. If she asks, simply reply with "Do you think I am?" And let it get no further than that. Etc.
If you were taking shots before you met her, you can either have her decide to accept what you do, or not to accept it.
It's you're call. It's all you.
Everybody suspects I am on now due to the size I have recently put on. I just deny it.
Hiding it from the wife is difficult, but I think she actually knows anyway and is simply choosing to ignore it.
I am hiding it from my wife this time. I was on when we first met and told her all about it, it was either that or come up with a way to explain the bacne. She enjoyed popping it anyways. 4 years and 2 kids later I decided to keep it to myself. She knows I do B12 injections, so when I go to shoot, or have a bandaid on my quad, that is all she thinks it is. If I get bacne this time around, I can blame it on A) football (semi pro, no testing) or B) the fact that I workout in an old school with no AC, sweat like crazy, and CANNOT reach my back anymore. Now the aggression in the bedroom, not sure what I am going to do about that, but she is still young so it doesn't bother her so far.
Im with TKO and GYMfu. Honesty is really important with a serious mate. how would you like it if she was lying about her hormone use(birthcontrol). could be a disaster. Like it or not... AAS use and the lifestyle it takes to do it well is not hideable. My wife does not like the fact that I use illegal drugs and putting my health in a more risky situation. I also dont think she likes the sweating and the sometimes out of control sex drive. but she does like a muscular man, she likes a larger penis and she likes that I feel better on the stuff. But what I think she likes the most is the openness and honestly. And I get to not live in anxiety that she is going to find an syringe wrapper in the trash and pack up and leave.
Wow, good point here. Openess and honesty are hard to come by in a relationship. I dunno. I usually always check with a chick when I see things are getting serious how she feels about steroids. I dont tell her I'm on them yet, I just ask what she knows and what her feelings are. Then I usually go through and explain all the benefits of taking 'em (increased bone density, capilary expansion, white and red blood count, injury recovery, energy, and overall increased sense of well being) and then explain that most of the sides come from either long term use or improper PCT. Most girls seem to understand after I put it into perspective. If they still don't then I start lookin for my next gf.
I should say my current girl is all for it. She likes me being ripped and huge and she wants to shag all the time so she looks forward to when i'm on cycle and we spend whole days in bed. She also loves to cook so my lifestyle fits her enjoyment of cooking for someone. Does your woman cook for you and send you with your meals for the day? If she isnt for your lifestyle find one that is, there are a lot to choose from.
Last edited by Neevor; 08-10-2010 at 05:47 PM.
all bitches are whores and don't think logically about anything. No point in telling them you juice
All of them except my wife and my mother.
In a serious relationship there should be no secrets. If she can't deal them maybe it just isn't meant to be. Otherwise she may just need to accept that this is one of those things she isn't going to change, and may not like, but needs to just live with. Honestly if this is her only complaint then I don't think she really has much to complain about. I would flip the script and remind her of all the things you do for her, and just say that this is one thing that you do for yourself. That usually works with damn near anything. The kicker is that you have to actually do things for her...
hahaha yea I don't trust women in general which is why I refuse to get into relationships with them until I am looking to settle down. For now, I like to pick them up and enjoy their "company" until either I get tired of them or they get tired of me. Just the way I roll brochacho!
good shit in here
Plenty of good advice in here....Knock the bitch out if she opens her mouth again??
LOL, "Beat your wife everyday. If you dont know why, then she does."
Just kidding, but really, I dont like the idea of telling ANYONE about a cycle. People talk to other people, its what we do and I dont trust anyone to keep my secrets. Relationships go bad sometimes, lose friends, break up with a girl, get in a fight with a family member and its very common for them to try and hurt you in some way, dropping a dime on you and letting the police know where you keep your stash is a really f-ed up thing to do but it happens all the time.
[QUOTE=supe3;5351060]LOL, "Beat your wife everyday. If you dont know why, then she does."QUOTE]
That is the funniest thing I have read yet. I was having a shitty day but this turned it around. Someone ask me why I am having a shitty day.........because of my ****ing woman!
Anyway, that was funny.
this is good... learn how to hide AAS from the wife/gf thank you guys
Hide it for as long as possible. Most girls just think if you use AAS you are going to be mean or have mood swings etc. If you have been using for years while yall have been together and she ever finds out, you can be like see I didnt have any mood swings or treat you badly. If they love you they will support you anyway. Just try to avoid the topic, dont go for open lies. Never bring it up. What Im saying is, lies are bad for relationships, but they shouldnt ever know eitherBut hell, depends on the girl. I messed around with a girl that said I should do AAS because thats hot. hahah
WOW, who would have thought this was such a popular topic. I always thought that it was more of an unspoken thing. But hey, there is enough advice her to combat both sides. As I was reading I was thinking of telling you to be honest and go with the guys comments about not losing the girl, but all in all, I will probably be hiding my next cycle from my old lady too.
I know from experience that you can try to educate all you want but at the end of the day if I woman is NOT for something, she never will be. I am sober from a lot of things and the gym is my sanctuary and a love of mine but my woman, for whatever reason wants me to stay on the skinnier side, which she prefers, but I dont.![]()
I honestly do not care if my girlfriend finds out. She sits around her ass getting fat, eating popcorn and feeling sorry for herself. It only got worse when I started lifting and getting in shape; she resents me for that. It doesn't matter anymore since I am ditching her at the end of the month when my apartment becomes available. Haha.
I have always catered to the demands and expectations of my relationships. After completely transforming my body, attitude and confidence I soon realized I did not have to live like that.
So, whomever I wind up with, they are going to have to understand that I will occasionally cycle and maintain a healthy and strict diet. If they can't handle that, peace out.
The fact that she dis-likes it is most likely because of her complete ignorance about AAS. Show her "Bigger, Stronger,Faster", not that it is the gosphel but good for the basic understanding.
People are so brainwashed today about the subject you can't blame her. If she is not insecure and is intelligent she would understand.
Dude use interchangeable pins. Draw it out with the fattie and plug it in slowly with an insulin point.
I would just educate her and show her there is really no reason to be worried. And that all the "horror storys" about steroids are from idiots who don't take the time to even know what PCT stand for.
Tell her what you plan on doing and stress the fact on how much your test. injections will make her orgasm.
I have hid all of my cycles from my wife, since we got married. I once told her about a cycle I did while dating after it was finished and she got all bitchy and said so that’s why you were such an ass. I felt I didn’t have bad sides at all that cycle. So to test it out a few month latter, I told her I had just finished another cycle "when In fact I was still In recovery and never touched anything accept protean createn and glute and she pulled the same shit on me.... Point being; Some people are set in their ways due to what they hear and don’t want to change their views or opinion no matter what you tell or show them. For me it’s just easier to not tell her.
Tell her its P90X
Yea, practice the old creatine/workout/diet bullsh!t on ya coworkers too.. Its the only way
I would try to inform her and involve her in the research that you are doing or have done. I'm having the same problem with my girlfriend. We got into a couple of huge fights because of my want to cycle. I'm showing her that all the bad things that are heard about AAS use is because of irresponsible users and ignorance. She is slowly coming around. Although I just recently decided not to cycle because I dont think Im completely ready. But I will use that time to help her understand the reasons I want to and that it isn't what the media cracks it up to be. I wouldn't lie though dude, if she means anything to you you wont lie. If she loves u and is open minded she'll come around. It might take a while but it will be worth it in the end.
the problem with this is most women can't be talked into reasoning. When their minds are made up, they often can't be changed by words unless it is something they want to believe. It's a huge stretch to think his gf would think about it with an open mind, rather than the general public's perception
^^^^ The words of a man who's been around the block a few times!
My wife WILL NOT consider letting me use anything..... not even test. She's ok with hgh and thats it..... and thats only because she wants to use it. There are underlying issues tho..... she doesn't want me getting bigger. I think shes insecure and she's using her insecurities to keep me from looking better. She's admitted it in other words before.....
Unless you are married..... there no fvckin reason to tell your significant other. Even if you are married..... I wouldn't say a word unless I knew she was going to be cool with it. Women have big mouths..... you'll tell her one night and by 7am the next morning..... your whole familly will know, all your friends, and probably all your coworkers lol
~Haz~
Also..... saying "If you can't even be honest with eachother then what's the point of being with her?" is stupid..... Relationships are based on trust to an extent but EVERYONE has skeletons in their closet and if you think for one minute that she's told or is telling you EVERYTHING...... your dumber than a box of rocks.
So I guess I should divorce my wife because she doesn't want me using an illegal substance? No..... I don't agree with her way of thinking but i'm not going to leave her for it lol.
~Haz~
lol very funny post...but def some good advice mixed in...
You hide this habbit she might start to hide her habbit of fukcing other guys..
Trust first...
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