Question about dating for our older members

[SlimmerMe]

Your grandmother was probably a virgin bride and if not? only to your Granddaddy.

Your mom? probably not a virgin bride since she is product of the 60's/70's feminism with access to the pill which by the way changed female behavior completely and more than likely forever. Girls did a 180. Free love. Free love. Free love.

Then Title 9 comes along.

And then you come along perhaps in the wrong generation?

But! and there is hope! There are many girls out there who are still more traditional in the sense that they would like find a true gentleman. Are you a Gentleman? This is crucial. First and foremost you must be a Gentleman to attract a sincere Lady.

Trust me, there are many girls out there who want to be treated like a lady. Many. You've got to put on your Gentleman game face to attract one. And then if and when you do find one? You've gotta remain a Gentleman so she will continue to respect you. After all, respect is what you want more than anything else other than the chemical attraction I would assume.

So the real question is this: Are you ready to be Gentleman?

Ideally a Lady in the parlor and a ***** in the bed? Every mans dream girl.
And for us this equates to: Happy wife/Happy Life.

[Cyclez]

I generally equate a mans attitude towards the women he dates to be a respresentation of how he got along with his mother or what type of woman she was. Call me crazy but just look around.
Like me, my mother is 68 now. Has always been old fashioned. Love that to death about her (especially when I got older and started looking for it in other women and saw how rare it was). She worked for 38yrs and had a plate of food ready for my father every night and they are still together. She went for my dad cause he opened doors, had a great sense of humor, and was overall a very respectful, chilvarious man.

I have 2 brothers including myself that all went for old fashioned values in the women they met. Then I have friends the same age, with much younger parents, who are already divorced. Not saying it always leads to this but I just believe it has a lot to do with it.

[crazy_rocks]

Your grandmother was probably a virgin bride and if not? only to your Granddaddy.

Your mom? probably not a virgin bride since she is product of the 60's/70's feminism with access to the pill which by the way changed female behavior completely and more than likely forever. Girls did a 180. Free love. Free love. Free love.

Then Title 9 comes along.

And then you come along perhaps in the wrong generation?

But! and there is hope! There are many girls out there who are still more traditional in the sense that they would like find a true gentleman. Are you a Gentleman? This is crucial. First and foremost you must be a Gentleman to attract a sincere Lady.

Trust me, there are many girls out there who want to be treated like a lady. Many. You've got to put on your Gentleman game face to attract one. And then if and when you do find one? You've gotta remain a Gentleman so she will continue to respect you. After all, respect is what you want more than anything else other than the chemical attraction I would assume.

So the real question is this: Are you ready to be Gentleman?

Ideally a Lady in the parlor and a ***** in the bed? Every mans dream girl.
And for us this equates to: Happy wife/Happy Life.

yup you nailed it

[Gaspari1255]

Your grandmother was probably a virgin bride and if not? only to your Granddaddy.

Your mom? probably not a virgin bride since she is product of the 60's/70's feminism with access to the pill which by the way changed female behavior completely and more than likely forever. Girls did a 180. Free love. Free love. Free love.

Then Title 9 comes along.

And then you come along perhaps in the wrong generation?

But! and there is hope! There are many girls out there who are still more traditional in the sense that they would like find a true gentleman. Are you a Gentleman? This is crucial. First and foremost you must be a Gentleman to attract a sincere Lady.

Trust me, there are many girls out there who want to be treated like a lady. Many. You've got to put on your Gentleman game face to attract one. And then if and when you do find one? You've gotta remain a Gentleman so she will continue to respect you. After all, respect is what you want more than anything else other than the chemical attraction I would assume.

So the real question is this: Are you ready to be Gentleman?

Ideally a Lady in the parlor and a ***** in the bed? Every mans dream girl.
And for us this equates to: Happy wife/Happy Life.

Yes I am a gentlemen and very mature for my age. I think that may be some of the problem here, maybe I am too mature for my age? I always treat any woman I am seeing (even its a first date) with up most respect, kindness, and generosity. And you know what? All younger women mistaken KINDNESS for WEAKNESS. I have been on 6 dates this summer, and they've all been a nightmare. I was dating someone at the begginning of summer who loved fvcking with my mind, leading me on, while she was seeing her ex boyfriend at the same time. (Who happens to be an $11/hr making loser, high school drop out, treats her like complete shit, didn't get her a gift on her birthday, and left her sitting home on her 21st) But she fvcked me over to get back with him? I will never understand such a thing like that. This is still REALLY bothering me. I cared about this girl a lot, went out of my way for her numerous times, and she took advantage of me. It's been almost three months, and it's the first thing I think about when I wake up in the morning, and the last thing I think about before bed. Maybe I'll get my wish, and she'll get hit back a truck and drop dead. Another example was this porn star I went on one date with. She was an ex-junkie, came from a screwed up family, and got used by every guy shes ever "been with." After I treated her like a gentlemen and made her feel like a princess for once in her life, my reward was her ignoring me ever since. That is just two examples out of the 6 that took place THIS summer.

I find myself attractive, confident, and mature for my age. I am successful and have a career waiting for me in a few months. However, younger women do not want that. They just want some asshole whose gonna give them temporary attention, doesn't matter what kind of person this guy is, then they move on to the next one and seek more attention. From my personal experience, I find it very hard to believe that any women or should I say "girl" under the age of 26 has any morals, or essentially isn't a mind-game playing fvcking jerk off.

[crazy_rocks]

Yes I am a gentlemen and very mature for my age. I think that may be some of the problem here, maybe I am too mature for my age? I always treat any woman I am seeing (even its a first date) with up most respect, kindness, and generosity. And you know what? All younger women mistaken KINDNESS for WEAKNESS. I have been on 6 dates this summer, and they've all been a nightmare. I was dating someone at the begginning of summer who loved fvcking with my mind, leading me on, while she was seeing her ex boyfriend at the same time. (Who happens to be an $11/hr making loser, high school drop out, treats her like complete shit, didn't get her a gift on her birthday, and left her sitting home on her 21st) But she fvcked me over to get back with him? I will never understand such a thing like that. This is still REALLY bothering me. I cared about this girl a lot, went out of my way for her numerous times, and she took advantage of me. It's been almost three months, and it's the first thing I think about when I wake up in the morning, and the last thing I think about before bed. Maybe I'll get my wish, and she'll get hit back a truck and drop dead. Another example was this porn star I went on one date with. She was an ex-junkie, came from a screwed up family, and got used by every guy shes ever "been with." After I treated her like a gentlemen and made her feel like a princess for once in her life, my reward was her ignoring me ever since. That is just two examples out of the 6 that took place THIS summer.

I find myself attractive, confident, and mature for my age. I am successful and have a career waiting for me in a few months. However, younger women do not want that. They just want some asshole whose gonna give them temporary attention, doesn't matter what kind of person this guy is, then they move on to the next one and seek more attention. From my personal experience, I find it very hard to believe that any women or should I say "girl" under the age of 26 has any morals, or essentially isn't a mind-game playing fvcking jerk off.

terrible about that first girl. i know how you feel man. ive been lead on to then she went with a dude who looked like a horse. not sure why girls go with dudes who treat em like shit. idk maybe try n find something that all these girls had in common or situations in which you met them and find a pattern so you dont keep choosing the same type. maybe that sounds dumb idk. dont date porn stars though...unless your just messing around. many of them have issues.

how old are you man?

[Gaspari1255]

terrible about that first girl. i know how you feel man. ive been lead on to then she went with a dude who looked like a horse. not sure why girls go with dudes who treat em like shit. idk maybe try n find something that all these girls had in common or situations in which you met them and find a pattern so you dont keep choosing the same type. maybe that sounds dumb idk. dont date porn stars though...unless your just messing around. many of them have issues.

how old are you man?

that is a whole other thread brotha!

[calgarian]

that is a whole other thread brotha!

i agree I get more attention when I am on cycle and arrogant bastard (before some says I know I am already but it gets worse). So I asked one of my friends and she said "girls like bad boys" .....

[RaginCajun]

Yes I am a gentlemen and very mature for my age. I think that may be some of the problem here, maybe I am too mature for my age? I always treat any woman I am seeing (even its a first date) with up most respect, kindness, and generosity. And you know what? All younger women mistaken KINDNESS for WEAKNESS. I have been on 6 dates this summer, and they've all been a nightmare. I was dating someone at the begginning of summer who loved fvcking with my mind, leading me on, while she was seeing her ex boyfriend at the same time. (Who happens to be an $11/hr making loser, high school drop out, treats her like complete shit, didn't get her a gift on her birthday, and left her sitting home on her 21st) But she fvcked me over to get back with him? I will never understand such a thing like that. This is still REALLY bothering me. I cared about this girl a lot, went out of my way for her numerous times, and she took advantage of me. It's been almost three months, and it's the first thing I think about when I wake up in the morning, and the last thing I think about before bed. Maybe I'll get my wish, and she'll get hit back a truck and drop dead. Another example was this porn star I went on one date with. She was an ex-junkie, came from a screwed up family, and got used by every guy shes ever "been with." After I treated her like a gentlemen and made her feel like a princess for once in her life, my reward was her ignoring me ever since. That is just two examples out of the 6 that took place THIS summer.

I find myself attractive, confident, and mature for my age. I am successful and have a career waiting for me in a few months. However, younger women do not want that. They just want some asshole whose gonna give them temporary attention, doesn't matter what kind of person this guy is, then they move on to the next one and seek more attention. From my personal experience, I find it very hard to believe that any women or should I say "girl" under the age of 26 has any morals, or essentially isn't a mind-game playing fvcking jerk off.

i have experienced some of those same things. i am in the same boat and i am 29!

[Twist]

You can at least get to know the girls before you date them. And in the meantime they pay you! Not everyone will be a winner but I have met some great girls of all ages as a trainer, met some really crazy ones too. Those ones don't have my personal number so it's all good.

[powerliftmike]

You can at least get to know the girls before you date them. And in the meantime they pay you! Not everyone will be a winner but I have met some great girls of all ages as a trainer, met some really crazy ones too. Those ones don't have my personal number so it's all good.

I mean I can see merit in the model. Charge the fatties extra and give the hot ones discounts if they blow you. That would be a ****ing awesome job for sure.

[bjpennnn]

I hate to say it bro but your 22...not a lot of people that age are thinking about having serious relationships. your probably dating a lot of chicks trying to find the rite one...enjoy it bro. You should bang as many 5-6-7s as possible...just ever turn down *****. Bang as many chicks as you can so that one day when you do find the one you will not be tempted because you have been there and done that. if you always wanted to bang an asian and have not find yourself an Asian and hit a ****en home run haha. it is jut the natural thing these day young girls are ****en drama drama drama.

use this time to focus on school advancing in a job, personal growth and not looking for the rite one. You will be a lot happier in the long run. When you start working on you and focusing on you, a "good" girl will see the true you and be attracted to that and bingo.

[dec11]

I hate to say it bro but your 22...not a lot of people that age are thinking about having serious relationships. your probably dating a lot of chicks trying to find the rite one...enjoy it bro. You should bang as many 5-6-7s as possible...just ever turn down *****. Bang as many chicks as you can so that one day when you do find the one you will not be tempted because you have been there and done that. if you always wanted to bang an asian and have not find yourself an Asian and hit a ****en home run haha. it is jut the natural thing these day young girls are ****en drama drama drama.

use this time to focus on school advancing in a job, personal growth and not looking for the rite one. You will be a lot happier in the long run. When you start working on you and focusing on you, a "good" girl will see the true you and be attracted to that and bingo.

good advice

[gixxerboy1]

alot of 22 year old don't want a serious relationship. Thats the whole thing you are looking for one and most aren't.

[calgarian]

I am 22 years old, and I am looking for some responses from some guys 15+ years older than me. Was dating this fvcked up back in the day? Were women this evil, immature, indecisive, and insecure? I have a hard time believing that women acted like such hewas years ago. I think its because of our generation, and the media, that it is now acceptable for women to act like complete trash with no morals or integrity. The dating scene is BAD. The only thing younger women want now is attention, and thats all they are concerned with. If it requires them to sleep with a guy on the first date, and then move on to the next one, then they still follow through. So back to my question, was the dating scene like this years ago and did women act like such slobs?

I am 37 but the answer is yes. Depend what did you want when you first met her....one night stands will mostly be like that and dont think that one night stands will turn into something else cause if you did that she will be like what you have described. There is a reason she was into one night stand scene to begin with.
As long as getting attention......dont we all love to be center of attention? if not then we have low self esteem? (i know I am loosing this term loosely)

[Shol'va]

So at what age does the old manhood start acting up and needing viagra and does it get so bad you have to combine it with cialis as well. Has anyone ever had to use a crane to get it up with? Just wanting to know when to expect junior to go on the fritz....So far he's never let me down.. Knock on my wood..

[gixxerboy1]

So at what age does the old manhood start acting up and needing viagra and does it get so bad you have to combine it with cialis as well. Has anyone ever had to use a crane to get it up with? Just wanting to know when to expect junior to go on the fritz....So far he's never let me down.. Knock on my wood..

tape a popsicle stick underneath it

[brad1986]

Young girls are wierd bro. One time this chick was being such a snobby bitch to every guy in this party and i walked up I straight up said "who the **** do you think you are b!itch"? "Your not even that hot" immedialy she grabed my hand and took me to the hot tub where i sealed the deal with this broad. She told me that she hates when guys let her walk on them and when i stood up and called her a dumb ho she jocked that much harder. My other buddy has gotten laid countelss times by walking up to a girl and sayin "what up bitch"? and ends up hittin skins that night! I dont get it bro but just roll with the punches lol

[Shol'va]

Young girls are wierd bro. One time this chick was being such a snobby bitch to every guy in this party and i walked up I straight up said "who the **** do you think you are b!itch"? "Your not even that hot" immedialy she grabed my hand and took me to the hot tub where i sealed the deal with this broad. She told me that she hates when guys let her walk on them and when i stood up and called her a dumb ho she jocked that much harder. My other buddy has gotten laid countelss times by walking up to a girl and sayin "what up bitch"? and ends up hittin skins that night! I dont get it bro but just roll with the punches lol

Do ya think that routine will work with guys? I can see it now hey dude wat up hoe. Dude you aint all dat, you aint jack squat, get over your lame azz self biatch and while I pick myself up off the floor and pick up what's left of my teeth I stagger on home.

[brad1986]

Do ya think that routine will work with guys? I can see it now hey dude wat up hoe. Dude you aint all dat, you aint jack squat, get over your lame azz self biatch and while I pick myself up off the floor and pick up what's left of my teeth I stagger on home.

haha well I havnt tried that one yet lol. Try it out and let me know how it pans out for ya? haha Tell him "hey you wanna come home with me and clean my damn dishes"?......bitch". "come at me bro" your mirnin?

[alexISthrowed]

No offence man but you seem like the kind of guy that just needs a relationship and would jump into anything. Your not going to find a great girl by dating porn stars.

[scorpion62]

Treat them mean keep them keen that was the old saying, and at 22 you should be out sh4gging like a demon and bollocks to serious live life to the max at this age it only happens one time so live it up,serious around 35 by that time you should be ready to find your perfect woman

[SlimmerMe]

Oh...one thing and I am not trying to be facetious here. Your brain does not fully develop until about 25 so any decisions you make now are still in a brain which has not fully grown. This is something to keep in mind. ( was that a pun?)

[crazy_rocks]

Oh...one thing and I am not trying to be facetious here. Your brain does not fully develop until about 25 so any decisions you make now are still in a brain which has not fully grown. This is something to keep in mind. ( was that a pun?)

no shit? i thought it was 21. i know endocrine is about 25.

[bjpennnn]

naw its around 25 drug use will stunt the maturing process, it will resume after a year or so of sobriety.

[Flagg]

Most girls under the age of 25 are immature as fvck and are just that, girls.

This can probably be applied to men and women, but in my experience, most women above 25 aren't likely to piss you around or act like attention starved drama brats.

[bjpennnn]

^lol!

[Times Roman]

all i have to say is treat your woman how you want her to treat you, then x2. Why? She couldn't give a fuk if you go to the store and get her a six pack. Am I right?