The jealousy and/or negative attitudes towards you from being big and muscular?

[Dukkit]

1. No one fukks with me. So I have no problems.

2. GBrice you need to learn to pose better cuz your avy makes me think youre pooping

3. Damien... youre a cute chubby irish bastard <3


But Real Talk... it doesnt always come down to how big you are... it comes down to when we get bigger or in shape.. we are more confident (or portray that, or ppl read us that way)... other more MENTALLY weaker men cannot take that. Jealousy comes into play and they attack us for the things they do not have. (Confidence, charisma, personality, muscles, sexiness)

As they say.. ppl hate what they do not have.

[Dukkit]

Now to take it on from the other aspect; being put in a "category," or judged based on first impressions.

Then yes... I get that alot... Im bigger then average, taller then average, have a good amount of tattoos, I hold my head high and speak my mind.

Not only that; I have been to jail, I have been in many violent situtations, I have been involved in drugs and other illegal activities....

Now while Im not that person anymore..

sometimes my old reputation still lingers and Im judged due to that. But those reactions and judgements are never brought to my face. Usually cuz those reactions involve fear. lol

But I do feel like I have to prove myself sometimes to a select few that I need to know that Im not like the "old dukkit" and have actually changed for the better.

It can be a lost cause on some though.

[Hazard]

I find that I get more "nasty looks" from other big guys......

Last time I was out I had one person tell me I don't look like someone to fvck with...... then another said he's on my side if shit goes down..... LMFAO! I was like.... uh okay? Both of those guys were in average shape.....

The guys who give me problems are the guys who are close to my size or bigger. They must feel like they have something to prove..... or they hate to see someone who looks as good or better than them. I'm very friendly when I go out..... I'll talk to anyone. On memorial day I was out drinking and there was a "clique" of guidos hanging out together. They all looked good.... pretty big guys. I was pretty lean and about 250lbs at the time and I came walking out of the bathroom when I noticed one of them tap another guy and point to me. He then said something to the rest of the clique and then they all looked at me. Idunno if it was malicious or not..... it gave me a bad vibe. I just kept walking and went back to my friends who were nearby.

Theres not enough time in life to hate on others...... just fvcking mind your own business or help someone..... Don't start trouble.

~Haz~

[dec11]

what gets me is these type of morons associate size with being able to handle yourself, thats BS, size means nothing, ive done doors with guys 20kgs lighter who'd massacre me no prob, and size is more likely to hinder you in a confrontation. you take a decent amateur 75kg boxer and put him up against a 100kg weightlifting brawler and the lighter man will crucify him, ive seen more than enough big guys get crunched outside clubs cos they were too slow and awkward

[DCI]

3. Damien... youre a cute chubby irish bastard <3


But Real Talk... it doesnt always come down to how big you are... it comes down to when we get bigger or in shape.. we are more confident (or portray that, or ppl read us that way)... other more MENTALLY weaker men cannot take that. Jealousy comes into play and they attack us for the things they do not have. (Confidence, charisma, personality, muscles, sexiness)

As they say.. ppl hate what they do not have.

How dare you I am not fat at all you jealous bastard But agreed on the other half, except for the sexiness part you sir are about as attractive as week old road kill.

[DCI]

what gets me is these type of morons associate size with being able to handle yourself, thats BS, size means nothing, ive done doors with guys 20kgs lighter who'd massacre me no prob, and size is more likely to hinder you in a confrontation. you take a decent amateur 75kg boxer and put him up against a 100kg weightlifting brawler and the lighter man will crucify him, ive seen more than enough big guys get crunched outside clubs cos they were too slow and awkward

Agreed, come to Cork for a weekend and you will see it everywere weekend a big guy getting clattered to the floor. But a buddy of mine is big but for some reason he can move like a person half his weight I've never seen a chap move and knock so many people out so fast lol.

[Hazard]

what gets me is these type of morons associate size with being able to handle yourself, thats BS, size means nothing, ive done doors with guys 20kgs lighter who'd massacre me no prob, and size is more likely to hinder you in a confrontation. you take a decent amateur 75kg boxer and put him up against a 100kg weightlifting brawler and the lighter man will crucify him, ive seen more than enough big guys get crunched outside clubs cos they were too slow and awkward

yep ^^^^

Except i've got a couple years of muay thai and jiu jitsu training I'm not saying i'm a great fighter by any means but i've got SOME skill that would hopefully come of use......

~Haz~

[dec11]

yep ^^^^

Except i've got a couple years of muay thai and jiu jitsu training I'm not saying i'm a great fighter by any means but i've got SOME skill that would hopefully come of use......

~Haz~

ive just started that myself and for sure anyone effective at it would kill all round 'em!! i was meaning more of a bar room brawler type with no proper fight training

[Hazard]

ive just started that myself and for sure anyone effective at it would kill all round 'em!! i was meaning more of a bar room brawler type with no proper fight training

that shits tough isn't it? burn a ton of calories and sweat like a pig..... I was in the best shape of my life then.....

~Haz~

[gbrice75]

GBrice you need to learn to pose better cuz your avy makes me think youre pooping

Lmao! If one more person fvcks with me over my posing (I hesitate to call it that), i'm gonna........ cry!!!

Stay tuned... I got somethin' in the back pocket in the works.

[dec11]

that shits tough isn't it? burn a ton of calories and sweat like a pig..... I was in the best shape of my life then.....

~Haz~

haha, tough is not the word for it!!