umm and she is so unused to a gym or the functioning of equipment that she frequantly slams the top of her hand on stuff ? lol a okOriginally Posted by gixxerboy1
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umm and she is so unused to a gym or the functioning of equipment that she frequantly slams the top of her hand on stuff ? lol a ok
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probably not. but it could happen going to grab a dumbbell. She wears it everyplace else so im not really worried. I rather her leave it at home then fvck it up. It only takes one hit to ruin it.umm and she is so unused to a gym or the functioning of equipment that she frequantly slams the top of her hand on stuff ? lol a ok
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this is pretty much her settingumm and she is so unused to a gym or the functioning of equipment that she frequantly slams the top of her hand on stuff ? lol a ok
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I rarely wear my ring, never when lifting, and never to work. I wouldn't expect my wife to handle a knurled barbell with her wedding ring on, scratches the ring.
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are you a surgan or something and frequantly putting on latex gloves, (even though nurces can manage that daily while wearing a ring lol) sorry but seems all strange an lazy excuses to me... what is the point of having a ring if you never wear it? lol and truely can people not manage every day life with out working around a quarter inch pedbble on TOP of the left hand 2nd too pinkey finger? lol esp a guy... you dont even have a stone with prongs to catch in your hair or on fabrics..
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thats a pretty legit reason to not wear a ring. Iv had rings and the only time id take it off was when i was lifting because it will bend or scratch the metal...
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All jokes aside I will advise against it. There is a man code out there your intentions are to break it up with her boyfriend even if she didnt you become friends with her you will always be in the "friend that want to **** me" list and also then she will run coming to you for emotional support and then you will tell her everything that benefits you...I wouldnt go that route.
What if you loose interest after getting into her pants? she is screwed cause she cant go back to him and you dont want to keep her cause ur intentions are fulfilled. the thing that you have mentioned "checking you out" she most likely be thinking "thats the creep who keep eye fvcking me when I am alone" and honestly I am not trying to be funny. So i wouldnt go there also there are plenty of single girls out there.....dont screw something up for anybody.
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hahaha soo true
I hear girl friends complaining about this all the time
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Better make sure you can handle the guy before you try to steal his girl... If you didn't know she was taken, that's 1 thing. But to try to line her up while her bf was there.. not smart. Not to mention she's probably said something to him already n if not, he's probably noticed...
Do what you will.. I can't be hypocritical n tell you to not do it, but be sure before you make your move.
You never know what he's capable of or who his friends are..
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i agree. i never went after a girl that i knew was in a relationship but if they were down so was i. One girls bf was about 6'4 and 330lbs. If he ever caught me i would have been dead. And i used to hang out with her in their house. She would cook us dinner and leave him the left overs.
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There isn't too much that would burn me up enough to kill someone..... but if I walked in and my girl was cooking another man dinner in MY house..... I'd be in jail. ESPECIALLY if I found out it's been going on repeatedly.
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Ditto
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oh and i would have deserved it.
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Some stories i here from friends etc, and situations ive been in myself with girls doing just horrible horrible things like this. I havnt done even a fraction of things some of these girls would. its so surprising, But if they are not going to treat them selfs with respect no one else will.
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This....
...is completely different than this.
congratulations, you have just shown everyone reading this thread what a complete douchebag you are. seriously dude, if i was the bf and i saw you eye ****ing my girl while im there with her...and then when i'm not there she tells me you approached her to hit on her...i'd kick your teeth in. not because im jealous, but because i can't stand arrogant douchebags like you that think they can simply disrespect ANYONE who they feel like. if that's you in your avy, you better take up karate or kung foo because you gonna get your ass kicked severely by the bf if he has even a once of self worth in him.
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Ok its starting to make sense why you carry your balls in a wheelbarrow
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bigger balls then brains most times.
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Respect your fellow Man.
It might be me. Did I do something not to deserve your respect?
Move on!
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hahaha that poor guy.. not only did he get your dinner leftovers, when they were goin at it later that night he'd get your "leftovers" again.. hahaha
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OP, just don't do it. It's disrespectful. I don't care if they're about to break up. Just don't get involved. If a guy tried to hit on me at the gym after knowing that I'm there with my man, I'd get really annoyed. Doesn't matter if they're hot or not, I'd tell my guy about it. And that would be awkward for you. And just because she looks at you doesn't mean she's interested. I look at men and women at the gym, just to see what their form is when they work out (And snicker if they have terrible form lol I know it's mean but whatever) so don't read into it.
Schmidty, I have to respectfully disagree with you on the ring thing. Just because a woman isn't married doesn't mean she's going to be impressed with some guy hitting on her. Why would anyone want someone else's girlfriend?? (Or boyfriend) I'm not married yet, but I feel extremely awkward if a guy hits on me.
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But you're not trying to interact with her as a friend! You're trying to become something more, am I correct?
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I personally think that's a pretty shity move, you know how many other hot brunettes there are in the world and single? Find your own tail out there cause its karma, if she's willing to trade in her bf what's to stop her from trading you in for a new piece at the bar etc etc
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My wife wore her ring to the gym until I saw what it looked like and amde her stop wearing it. Knurled bars ruin the ring..... she never thought about this. Scratched the hell out of it......
Also.... my wife worked in a hospital, with surgical instrumentation, and according to state law.... she was not allowed to wear her ring or even have long nails. So for her.... the ring was off more. I also rarely wore my ring..... I too work in healthcare (the operating room to be exact) and I also lift very heavy so I saw little need to fvck it up.
We exchanged rings and said vows..... our rings were always home and we both preferrred it that way. The ring is a pain in the ass anyways..... I wear NO jewlery..... EVER. So it's a nuisance for me to have it on..... feels like when you have something caught between your toes lol.
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Just friends eh?
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guess I just dont get the whole ring being damaged thing... I was married fifteen years and never had it damaged beyond normal maintaince/cleaning/buffing (more than I can say for the cr@ptacular marriage lmao) as far as the med field all I can say is from my personal experiance, my family is all nurses/charge/er/and I was an lpn, never mention or saw rings off/nails cut short ~ maybe its a NH thang lol ...I could def be wrong (wouldnt be the 1st time lol) but all still sounds under the cuff to me
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I also never wear my ring while lifting. Same reason dont want to scratch it to hell. Mine is tungsten so cant be buffed so even worse
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NJ state law..... When Jcaho or the state would come in..... they hand out fines. Rings can get caught in the clansing machines in sterile processing (where my wife worked) and that was an OSHA violation. If your ring snags up on one of the baskets and that cleansing arm swings around..... goodbye finger. Wearing the ring just isn't worth it lol. In the operating room the rings and nails harbor bacteria. Doctors and nurses are required to scrub their hands AND under their nails with a pic to ensure there's no debris. I thought it was common practice across the nation but I guess I'm wrong. Hell.... I wouldn't want a doctor wearing his wedding band durring a surgery on me. If his glove gets cut there could be bacteria on that thing that can give you a staff infection. It's just poor practice IMO and i'm particularly happy my state enforces that.
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nobody is trying to be a keyboard ninja, we're just answering your question honestly. and this is "honestly" what i would do. i admit, i have the neanderthal gene and have fought all my life. and this is clearly something i feel pretty strong about. but good luck to ya..seriously - i hope you smarten up and realize what you're planning on doing is messed up and totally offside and deserve a beating. that's my .02.
im out.
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I'm with Hazard on this one, just don't like to wear jewelry for one.
And Sexy4mysweetheart I work at a coal mine, I have an office, but spend 1/4 or so of my time underground, and some above ground doing dirty work. Wife doesn't like that i rarely wear my ring, but she's getting over it finally.
Sergio if you talk to her and her bf that's cool, never hurts to make friends. Just don't make it obvious you want her to ride you if he's there.
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Hmmm mabey its my gf? haha you dont live in canada do you? my gf is porchagese, dark hair, tan, athletic build and she gets hit on alot....we workout together all the time but the odd time she on her own.
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If the girl does have a bf and she cheats on him you really think you want to be with her?? she will do the same to you! Iv see it a million times! I have a budy who was sleeping with this girl that was cheating on her bf of like 5 years, the gf left her bf to be with my budy and they were super happy for a few months but in the end she ended up cheating on him too....history helps you tell the future!
Do what you want but you will find another girl whos makes you feel the same way a few months from now....women comes and go! If you do end up with her the infatuation will only last so long and you might not even like her as much as you once thought! I have dated women who I was head over heals for only to be disappointed and annoyed in the end!
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My wife doesn't wear her ring to the gym either. Hell, I haven't worn a wedding ring in almost a year because my fingers got thicker when I started TRT. It is titanium and cannot be sized.
Whether you get her or not, you may not be able to go to that gym any more.
You haven't talked to her yet? Then you have no idea if she is your dream girl. Being hot is not the thing required for a relationship. Compatibility is. You don't even know if you can sit across from this girl for an entire meal...and you want to try and steal her from another guy?
My point of view is that it is poor form to wait until a man isn't around so you can hit on his girlfriend. Find your own girl.
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You have to try, trust me if you do nothing you will regret it the rest of your life.
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Not sure how she's the girl of your dreams if you've never spoken to her before. That point aside, I think it's a pretty low down thing to do. She knows that you're aware she's in a relationship. A girl with any self respect will take that as a turn off.
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For some reason, this thread reminded me of some show I saw recently, where they recapped this serial killer chick in the 30's and her BF or husband (not sure). Anyways, she'd play all drunk, get into a fight with her "significant other", then there was always some dude there thinking he could pickup on a easy piece of ass. Of course, she'd lure him back to a hotel or somewhere, then her and her old man would rob and kill the guy.
Staying on topic ... As mentioned above, it's just about karma and having a clear conscience. As a guy, I can obviously see the dynamics of an attractive female, whether at the gym, store, anywhere ... But knowing she has something going with another guy would just leave me very unsettled. Even if she came to me and said she was breaking it off because she now discovered me, I wouldn't want to have that on me, looking over my shoulder wondering if something is heading my way. Being a 5x MMA winner is a great accomplishment, but unfortunately the smallest guy in the gym can end that streak real quick depending on what he carries in his gym bag. Just not a place I want to be ... Peace of mind is a great thing! Just my .02
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OP at the gym...
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^^ hahahaha. Is that guy sporting a woodrow or is it just an optical illusion?
Not gonna lie, I've been caught staring once or twice in the gym. Mostly when I do cardio on the back row of treadmills
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