woman r hartless

[frank13]

every time I'm in a relationship it only last a couple of months its like I'm that guy who makes woman feel good about them self's makes them feel good after a break up gives them every thing they want I'm always being told you the nicest guy Ive ever meet but then when there self esteem is all build up they roll my friends say just be a ass get what u want and roll out but I want to be a nice and treat woman with respect and dignity I guess its true nice guys do finish last what the fvck am I doing wrong

[canadian-bacon]

After a breakup. You owe them nothing.

[Gaspari1255]

It's not your fault, the same things happen to me. I've said it before a thousand times on this site, and I'll say it again, women this generation are a bunch of no good fvcking pigs. I made a count today, I believe the last 8 women I went out of my way for and put effort into ended up fvcking me over. Now, people will say, well stop dating "these" types of women. That's not the case here. I've dated all types of women- successful, unsuccessful, extremely hot, not so good looking, older, younger, etc- and it's the same scenario every time. Before a women enters a relationship or starts "talking" to a guy, she thinks "How can I benefit from this and how am I gonna come out on top". They don't give a shit about our feelings, and take what they need, get a self esteem raise, and move on to the next sucker.

The Godfather made an excellent point in a post a couple months ago. He said that he's tried to date quite a few women that he was much higher then on the "todem pole" of life - looks, success, money, education, etc...He was explaining how it blew his mind how some of these women that we would view as really desperate and pathetic wouldn't jump at the opportunity to date him. This has happened to me time and time again as well. The bottom line is women do not see things for what they are. Some times they need to date straight fvcking losers or scumbags to make themselves feel/look better. I was the best thing to ever enter my ex's life (She bartended twice a week, had no day job, had no education, and slept, drank, and popped Molly every other day). She ended up leaving me for a 23 year old white aspiring "rapper" who lives in his mothers basements, doesn't have a GED, has no job, and is a recovering drug addict. Why would this woman do such a thing? Because when a pile of shit dates an even bigger pile of shit, the original pile of shit has a greater sense of self worth.

Just something to think about..

We need to stop kissing their asses and start putting them in their place. When they look a little thick, tell them to go do some fvkcin crunches. If their skin isn't looking too good, call them a pasty looking ghoul. A woman's ego is as big as the world, but it's thin like glass; one little crack and it's all over.

[GetItHot]

A woman's ego is as big as the world, but it's thin like glass; one little crack and it's all over.

I like that. Im going to have to file that one.

Women want assholes not pussies. The assholes are the ones that bang them, the pussies are the ones they cry to about the assholes.
Ya'll mf'ers need to listen to Leykis 101. www.blowmeuptom.com

[frank13]

I like that. Im going to have to file that one.

Women want assholes not pussies. The assholes are the ones that bang them, the pussies are the ones they cry to about the assholes.
Ya'll mf'ers need to listen to Leykis 101. www.blowmeuptom.com

your right woman for what ever reason like assholes but I'm no pvssy i bang her real good unless she was faking it

[GetItHot]

So move on and bang something hotter. Problem solved.

[gixxerboy1]

I like that. Im going to have to file that one.

Women want assholes not pussies. The assholes are the ones that bang them, the pussies are the ones they cry to about the assholes.
Ya'll mf'ers need to listen to Leykis 101. www.blowmeuptom.com

you dont have to be an asshole not to be a pvssy. I treat my girls great but i dont let them walk over me either.

[lovbyts]

you dont have to be an asshole not to be a pvssy. I treat my girls great but i dont let them walk over me either.

Exactly. Being a NICE guy is great but being a *****, nice guy 24/7 letting women get a way with shit you would never do to them or your best friend and they will keep it up until they get bored and dump you for some guy who is an ass to them.

My finding is you have to be STRONG with them, Dont be afraid to treat them like a 3yr old and scold them when they do something wrong, praise them when they do something right. Dont EVER let them walk on you or it's all over. Nicely let them know when they are doing this, try to be nice, dont get upset but if she is not listening continue being firm and not backing down even if it blows up.

I think it's especially true with Asians (my case) where they like to know you are in charge and if they are trying to take advantage of you that you will not put up with it to the point of walking away, dumping them and not wanting anything to do with them. I cant count the number of times my girl and I have gotten into it usually over something little, stupid but she just wanted to flex her muscles and see how much she could get away with until it reached unimaginable proportions (HUGE FIGHT) and once I said Fine, I'm Done, get out of my site that's when the light switch turns on and she is all over me, apologizing and can see where she was wrong but until then it's 100% emotional with her.

I have helped saved a couple guys marriage who are married to Asian by convincing them to take a stand. Not simply argue but telling them they are wrong, explaining why and making sure they will loose face. You will let their friends and family know how they failed as a wife/mate. That is the worst thing that can happen to an Asian female is to loose face.

Women love to hang onto the nice guy as a friend after she dumps him so she has some male support or a shoulder to cry on when she needs it although she will always run back to the ass hole who treats her like crap because it makes her feel alive like she has a purpose in life.

If you broke up then forget her, dont return calls or txt, move on and find someone else. That will crush her more than anything else if you want revenge. lol

[SexySweetheart]

Exactly. Being a NICE guy is great but being a *****, nice guy 24/7 letting women get a way with shit you would never do to them or your best friend and they will keep it up until they get bored and dump you for some guy who is an ass to them.

My finding is you have to be STRONG with them, Dont be afraid to treat them like a 3yr old and scold them when they do something wrong, praise them when they do something right. Dont EVER let them walk on you or it's all over. Nicely let them know when they are doing this, try to be nice, dont get upset but if she is not listening continue being firm and not backing down even if it blows up.

I think it's especially true with Asians (my case) where they like to know you are in charge and if they are trying to take advantage of you that you will not put up with it to the point of walking away, dumping them and not wanting anything to do with them. I cant count the number of times my girl and I have gotten into it usually over something little, stupid but she just wanted to flex her muscles and see how much she could get away with until it reached unimaginable proportions (HUGE FIGHT) and once I said Fine, I'm Done, get out of my site that's when the light switch turns on and she is all over me, apologizing and can see where she was wrong but until then it's 100% emotional with her.

I have helped saved a couple guys marriage who are married to Asian by convincing them to take a stand. Not simply argue but telling them they are wrong, explaining why and making sure they will loose face. You will let their friends and family know how they failed as a wife/mate. That is the worst thing that can happen to an Asian female is to loose face.

Women love to hang onto the nice guy as a friend after she dumps him so she has some male support or a shoulder to cry on when she needs it although she will always run back to the ass hole who treats her like crap because it makes her feel alive like she has a purpose in life.

If you broke up then forget her, dont return calls or txt, move on and find someone else. That will crush her more than anything else if you want revenge. lol

expected from you, lol ~ yet still I do a double take when I read this stuff from you.


ahhh yes be sure to embarrass your lover in front of their friends n family by bullet pointing each other their faults (in your eyes) to all available friends and family each time they " they flex" their muscles (i.e. voice) ~ awesome! Baaahahaha
i can’t even begin to imagine all the biatching on these boards by the men if this was a role reversal

[frank13]

It's not your fault, the same things happen to me. I've said it before a thousand times on this site, and I'll say it again, women this generation are a bunch of no good fvcking pigs. I made a count today, I believe the last 8 women I went out of my way for and put effort into ended up fvcking me over. Now, people will say, well stop dating "these" types of women. That's not the case here. I've dated all types of women- successful, unsuccessful, extremely hot, not so good looking, older, younger, etc- and it's the same scenario every time. Before a women enters a relationship or starts "talking" to a guy, she thinks "How can I benefit from this and how am I gonna come out on top". They don't give a shit about our feelings, and take what they need, get a self esteem raise, and move on to the next sucker.

The Godfather made an excellent point in a post a couple months ago. He said that he's tried to date quite a few women that he was much higher then on the "todem pole" of life - looks, success, money, education, etc...He was explaining how it blew his mind how some of these women that we would view as really desperate and pathetic wouldn't jump at the opportunity to date him. This has happened to me time and time again as well. The bottom line is women do not see things for what they are. Some times they need to date straight fvcking losers or scumbags to make themselves feel/look better. I was the best thing to ever enter my ex's life (She bartended twice a week, had no day job, had no education, and slept, drank, and popped Molly every other day). She ended up leaving me for a 23 year old white aspiring "rapper" who lives in his mothers basements, doesn't have a GED, has no job, and is a recovering drug addict. Why would this woman do such a thing? Because when a pile of shit dates an even bigger pile of shit, the original pile of shit has a greater sense of self worth.

Just something to think about..

We need to stop kissing their asses and start putting them in their place. When they look a little thick, tell them to go do some fvkcin crunches. If their skin isn't looking too good, call them a pasty looking ghoul. A woman's ego is as big as the world, but it's thin like glass; one little crack and it's all over.

Bronzer your the man

[frank13]

thanks that does make me feel a little better this girl just left me to date her old boyfriend who she couldn't stop telling me how much of a pile of shit he was to her and how good I made her feel and no one has ever made her feel so good but then she rolls out to get back with him it just bothers me that i can be discarded so easily and no one cares about anyone else feelings

[gixxerboy1]

There are good and bad out there. But most people are out for themselves.

And when i first read your title i thought it said woman r hairless

[frank13]

There are good and bad out there. But most people are out for themselves.

And when i first read your title i thought it said woman r hairless

Sorry

[gixxerboy1]

Sorry

nothing to be sorry for. I missread it and thought it was funny.

[canadian-bacon]

Best way to get over the last one is to get on the next one.

[gixxerboy1]

Best way to get over the last one is to get on the next one.

preferably her sister

[canadian-bacon]

preferably her sister

Or hot mother. But sisters are always a good time too.

[songdog]

Holy sh7t not another guy whining about being dumped.Quit wearing your feelings on your sleeve and dont put everything into someone you just met.

[DSM4Life]

preferably her sister

Or brother.

[Shol'va]

Or brother.

Or both.

[spywizard]

alot of times women don't feel that they are good enough, that you could do better than them...

people come and go in your life, take what you learn from each of them..

In your case you look for women that are easy marks, low self esteem and what not.. then they become a project for you to fix.. oops did i stumble onto something??

You need a woman to need you when she doesn't what happens?? she rolls?? or do you push her away?? can't say, but in the end, are you looking for a wife, or a companion..

Find a woman and accept her for her faults, don't "fix" her, she doesn't need fixing, she is who she is at that moment..

Good advice?? get a vasectomy.. they are reversible..

[SexySweetheart]

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didnt work out...wrong chick for you
if finding a great partner was easy ~ it wouldnt be so cherished once found
move on and find that gal who is for you <3 dont let the one's that are not for you, make you so jadded that you mistreat or mis see how good a good gal is when she does come along

[JD250]

I'll never understand why you guys don't take my advice on women.....grab the boobies and dry hump her, chicks dig it ....oh well (sigh)

[wmaousley]

I have known guys to tell me the exact same thing in your original post only to find out they werent really nice guys, they were more like narcisistic assholes who think because they do one nice thing they are the sweetist guy ever. I am in no way saying your the narcisist. Just stating facts about those who have no idea who they are.

[rj2k10]

I'm a nice guy, but don't let people walk all over you... Be nice, treat people with respect, but every now & again put people in their place... At the end of the day, bitches gonna bitch!

[JohnnyVegas]

My advice: date girls that read books.

[Gaspari1255]

My advice: date girls that read books.

co signed

[Times Roman]

every time I'm in a relationship it only last a couple of months its like I'm that guy who makes woman feel good about them self's makes them feel good after a break up gives them every thing they want I'm always being told you the nicest guy Ive ever meet but then when there self esteem is all build up they roll my friends say just be a ass get what u want and roll out but I want to be a nice and treat woman with respect and dignity I guess its true nice guys do finish last what the fvck am I doing wrong

funny. when i was in the dating scene, it seemed a long term relationship was the eventual outcome of going on a date. I didn't date a ton of women, but when i did find one that was interesting, it usually worked out.

So let me spin this around on you....

...what do YOU think you are doing wrong?

[frank13]

funny. when i was in the dating scene, it seemed a long term relationship was the eventual outcome of going on a date. I didn't date a ton of women, but when i did find one that was interesting, it usually worked out.

So let me spin this around on you....

...what do YOU think you are doing wrong?

I really starting to think that maybe I'm so nice the relationship becomes maybe boring being that theirs no controversy i cant figure it out or i wouldn't be here I do wear my hart on my sleeve and maybe that's a mistake perhaps i should take thing slower next time but i was working on this girl for a min that's why it sucks so much maybe its not a good sigh when all u do is have sex and don't do much of anything else

[Times Roman]

I really starting to think that maybe I'm so nice the relationship becomes maybe boring being that theirs no controversy i cant figure it out or i wouldn't be here I do wear my hart on my sleeve and maybe that's a mistake perhaps i should take thing slower next time but i was working on this girl for a min that's why it sucks so much maybe its not a good sigh when all u do is have sex and don't do much of anything else

in the psychological tug of war game with women and dating, when they pull, you need to pull right back. if there is no resistance, there is no challange. Forget about being "a nice guy" and instead try being "a real guy". If you are always a nice guy, then it could be that the woman starts to think that you feel she is too good for you? To a certain extent, dating is like a negotiation process, and to be a successful negotiator, you need to be able to walk away. Being a nice guy, after awhile, makes the lady feel like they can do almost anything and get away with it. For you to have value to her, she has to feel there is a risk of loss, so that she can take steps and try to protect what she has. If she doesn't feel there is a risk of loss, then what value is it?

To a certain extent, a relationship needs to be dynamic, with ups and downs. You need the down so that when it is up, you can appreciate it.

[Gaspari1255]

funny. when i was in the dating scene, it seemed a long term relationship was the eventual outcome of going on a date. I didn't date a ton of women, but when i did find one that was interesting, it usually worked out.

So let me spin this around on you....

...what do YOU think you are doing wrong?

It's a shame that's not how it is any more. Now, it's an excuse for a broad to get a free meal, and some drinks, and also a hell of ego boost because an attractive, caring guy asked her out. After that, she's on to the next one.

It's very likely the OP isn't doing anything wrong. TR - I like your posts and you have a lot of insight on various topics, but I don't think you know what's going on in the dating scene in this day and age. 99% of women are filth. I am 100% done going on "dates" and going out of my way for hewas. The only time I'll ask a woman on a date is when its 12 o'clock at night, I'll invite her over to watch a movie- that's it, not wasting any more of my time or $ on these hewas.

[redz]

Once you get locked down you'll probably want out anyways. Women live to make mens lives terrible.

[canadian-bacon]

Location has something to do with too. Going from big cities to small towns. Their attitudes are different. Girls from small towns are not scared to go out and get dirty unlike most high class skanks from cities. (not saying there isn't any in small towns). But the small town girl seems to appreciate things more.

[JohnnyVegas]

You will know you have found someone compatible when all the things listed higher in the thread don't happen. You will push an amount she likes and you will not mind the things she does in return.

To further that example, you will actually like the things that she does that many would consider weaknesses. For example, she knows she is sorta geeky...but you think that is the cutest thing ever. You will like that one crooked tooth she has. You honestly won't mind that she throws her clothes on the floor next to the bed or her sink is jam packed with bottles, sprays, clips, hair holders and makeup.

Fight over stupid stuff = incompatible.

Love her "weaknesses" as much as her strengths = compatible.

[gixxerboy1]

[canadian-bacon]

[SnaX]

You're not doing anything wrong. In fact, you're ahead of the game by not being an immature asshole. Take time to yourself and be a "complete circle" on your own. Be complete and be happy living your life.

If you act in a way that is not you (being an asshole), then you're not being true to yourself. Any WOMAN (not a GIRL, which a lot of people encounter more than WOMEN) worth keeping will respect that. Never let a GIRL cause you to second guess yourself.
Do the things that YOU are wired to do. I assure you, there is at least one out there who is looking for you.
The fact that you bring up such a topic means your head is in the right place. Be you, and you'll find that one when you least expect it.

[awms]

EASY BOYS! easy! There is a misconception that women want an ass hole this is not true at all! What women want is an "alpha male" and since "ass holes" come off as being alpha women tend to stick with men like this....If you learn how to be a dominant male and also learn how women think you can treat a women well keep her around for more then a couple months. The problem is that men think with a different part of the brain then women and so what makes sens to you does not make sens to them. For example lets say a women is mad at you and so you think in your head "what would I like if I was mad? I KNOW!! I will buy her flowers and tell her how much a i love her" to a man this makes total sens! but to a women it makes no sens and in fact makes you look weak and "beta". The only time you should "reward" a women is when she does something you like or is acting how you want her to act....this does not mean treat her like shiitt but if you don't put your foot down once a while you will be walked all over and looked at as a beta male....it goes back to our ancestors! women have evolved to domesticate, raise children and find a mate who will protect, provide, and lead, Men evolved to hunt, and re create life...back in the day if you were weak you didn't get a mate and you died off....so our brains have been evolving to do two very different things so we look for different things in a partner.

First thing you need to learn is never listen to a women about what a women wants! they will always say "a nice guy" what they really is a man who makes decisions, stays calm and "alpha" in all situations (like when shes freaking out), and calls her on her bull shit without being an diick. There is so much info out there about how women think, how to pick women up, how to be more alpha ect ect ect! books, internet groups!

I was a "pick up artist" before I met my gf and got to a point were I could have just about any women I wanted. Before I got into pickup I was an average chump who thought that kissing a girls ass was the way to her heart but never could get a girl! then like most guys here I thought "girls like ass holes" well its not true! once I taught my self how women think and what signs to look for when a women is testing you ect ect! I started having major success with women! I mean 99% of the women I talked to I could at least get a date....and my relationships were amazing! I knew the right strings to pull in order to have keep a women interested....in fact my current gf who is beautiful tested the shiitt out of me when we first started dating! and if I didn't know what I do now we wouldn't be together because she was a head case when we first met! now we have an amazing relationship and she respects me 100%!