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    I never left a tag on any of my Xs sayin property of.I really couldnt give a rats ash who any of them dated.

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    Quote Originally Posted by songdog
    I never left a tag on any of my Xs sayin property of.I really couldnt give a rats ash who any of them dated.
    I don't know you personally but I'm going to call bullshit. You're telling me you wouldn't care at all if after a girl leaves you and someone who you trusted as a friend, maybe even confided to about your failing relationship. I don't care how tough you are or how much you hate that girl now, that would sting.

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    Quote Originally Posted by red_hulk View Post
    I don't know you personally but I'm going to call bullshit. You're telling me you wouldn't care at all if after a girl leaves you and someone who you trusted as a friend, maybe even confided to about your failing relationship. I don't care how tough you are or how much you hate that girl now, that would sting.
    for me, there was always some kind of residual feelings post relationship. But I'm a softie, and maybe Song isn't that way.

    At a minimum, I would have OP at least talk to his best friend and explain what his intentions are. It isnt' the act of sleeping with his ex, it's the lying and covering up that will ruin the BF relationship.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Times Roman

    for me, there was always some kind of residual feelings post relationship. But I'm a softie, and maybe Song isn't that way.
    I'm the same way that's why I couldn't imagine just shrugging it off like its nothing. I didn't mean any disrespect either song, I'm just saying I don't think that's how you feel if that actually happened

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    Do what your dik tells you to

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherrydrpepper View Post
    Do what your dik tells you to
    That's the worst advice ever

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shsm View Post
    That's the worst advice ever
    obviously you don't know CDP yet.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Times Roman View Post
    obviously you don't know CDP yet.

    Funny as hell, with bad advice (sometimes).....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shsm View Post
    That's the worst advice ever
    God gave us tinklers not just so we could shoot our pee 180 degrees but also so we could make accident babies with our best friends ex

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    If one of my "friends" slept with one of my ex's I'd get the chainsaw and the can of paraffin out (not petrol burns too fast for this).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Swifto View Post
    If one of my "friends" slept with one of my ex's I'd get the chainsaw and the can of paraffin out (not petrol burns too fast for this).
    Are u on tren?

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    Quote Originally Posted by baseline_9 View Post
    Are u on tren?
    no bro

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    Quote Originally Posted by Swifto View Post
    no bro
    Just one crazy mother fuker

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    Post some pics of her to see if it's worth it or not.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hoggage_54 View Post
    Post some pics of her to see if it's worth it or not.
    I second this....

    U gotta know what ur going to buy b4 u spend ur money

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    Alright, my bottom line from this thread is I'm gonna bring it up to him. See what he says and go from there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ReX357 View Post
    Alright, my bottom line from this thread is I'm gonna bring it up to him. See what he says and go from there.
    I have pals that are going out with other pals ex's right now, but they never really get "accepted" by the group again if you see what I mean. Yeah, they might both be happy, but he's always labelled a "dog" and a slippery mother****er.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ReX357 View Post
    Alright, my bottom line from this thread is I'm gonna bring it up to him. See what he says and go from there.
    The fact that you are even bring it up makes you a @#$@. Who does this? Like the world is running short on women to bang.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DSM4Life View Post
    The fact that you are even bring it up makes you a @#$@. Who does this? Like the world is running short on women to bang.
    Although a lot of men out there are very jealous, I am not of that type. My last girlfriend was allowed to do pretty much whatever she wanted. I trusted her to do the right thing and I have no reasons to believe she cheated on me or did anything wrong. I don't believe in restraining someone or having a 'tag' on them as it was put earlier in the thread. However, there is a strong possibility that my friend is of that mentality.

    As for the shortage of women comment, I live in a 50,000 people town in northern Alberta that has a high male to female ratio. It is an oilfield based town and most people coming here are men working. The amount of female and the percentage of them that are up to my standards is quite limited believe it or not.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ReX357 View Post
    As for the shortage of women comment, I live in a 50,000 people town in northern Alberta that has a high male to female ratio. It is an oilfield based town and most people coming here are men working. The amount of female and the percentage of them that are up to my standards is quite limited believe it or not.
    well at 50000 people lets say 75% of them are men. this would leave 12500 females. if only 5% of those 12500 qualify to ur standards it still leaves 625 women for u to peruse.. (or in light of the circumstances maybe i should say 624)

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    Quote Originally Posted by --->>405<<---

    well at 50000 people lets say 75% of them are men. this would leave 12500 females. if only 5% of those 12500 qualify to ur standards it still leaves 625 women for u to peruse.. (or in light of the circumstances maybe i should say 624)
    You can't argue the math! Haha

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    Quote Originally Posted by --->>405<<--- View Post
    well at 50000 people lets say 75% of them are men. this would leave 12500 females. if only 5% of those 12500 qualify to ur standards it still leaves 625 women for u to peruse.. (or in light of the circumstances maybe i should say 624)
    First, as a general observation I would say it's more along the lines of 1% in this town. I come from a big city where females are very attractive. My standards are quite high. And next, out of that one percent, you gotta remove the ones that have boyfriends / husbands. And I can assure you that with the amount of male attention women get in this town, it ends up being very slim pickings for everyone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ReX357 View Post
    Although a lot of men out there are very jealous, I am not of that type. My last girlfriend was allowed to do pretty much whatever she wanted. I trusted her to do the right thing and I have no reasons to believe she cheated on me or did anything wrong. I don't believe in restraining someone or having a 'tag' on them as it was put earlier in the thread. However, there is a strong possibility that my friend is of that mentality.

    As for the shortage of women comment, I live in a 50,000 people town in northern Alberta that has a high male to female ratio. It is an oilfield based town and most people coming here are men working. The amount of female and the percentage of them that are up to my standards is quite limited believe it or not.
    Grande Prairie?

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    Quote Originally Posted by S&S_ShovelHead View Post
    Grande Prairie?
    Yup!

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    My m8 broke up with his GF some time ago and about 2 months after she started seeing his other m8...

    My m8 ended up chining him at a pub, broke his jaw and cracked his head off the floor.... Just one punch.... He was fuked up big time and in hospital for some time...

    The lad took him to court and won, my m8 had a suspended sentence and the dumb fuker ended up breaching the conditions and when to prison for 6 months.....


    This is what can happen I suppose.....

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    It has been two years if your friend has a problem with it he has a vagina in between his legs and you should buy him some tampons.

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    Maybe we could make a better call if you posted a pic.

    Just sayin..

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    Quote Originally Posted by boxa06 View Post
    Maybe we could make a better call if you posted a pic.

    Just sayin..
    pervert.....
    just saying......

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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    pervert.....
    just saying......
    I bet I wasn't the only one think it hahaha

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    Quote Originally Posted by boxa06 View Post
    I bet I wasn't the only one think it hahaha
    This thread is old as **** and I'm hoping for pics too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ReX357 View Post
    Alright, FACTS:

    - He's in my top 5 friends.
    - He was with her for 2 years.
    - They broke up 2 years ago.
    - He's been with a new girl for 2 years now.

    - Pretty sure she broke it off after him getting caught cheating on her multiple times.
    - I've known her for longer than I've known him.
    - She's hot as shit and I've been wanting to **** her since before I even knew him.
    - She hates him.
    - He hinted at sleeping with one of my exes years ago but this is not confirmed.

    Options:

    - Sleep with her, don't tell.
    - Ask for his blessing before going ahead.
    - Sleep with her, then ask for forgiveness cause it's easier than asking for permission.

    You answered your own question.
    He hinted at sleeping with one of my exes years ago but this is not confirmed.
    as far banging her fgoes chose this option
    Sleep with her, don't tell.
    some ppl will hate me saying this but i speak my mind

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    It simple. Go tug one off. The moment you ur done, i mean the very moment, think about her. During that second of thought, do you still want to have sex with her? If you the answer is no then u are just going to regret it as soon as you do it. If the answer is yes then you must because you will think about doing it with her forever. Remember, its only that one second window that you can have this thought. Any longer and you are thinking with the wrong head again. Lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by capetown View Post
    It simple. Go tug one off. The moment you ur done, i mean the very moment, think about her. During that second of thought, do you still want to have sex with her? If you the answer is no then u are just going to regret it as soon as you do it. If the answer is yes then you must because you will think about doing it with her forever. Remember, its only that one second window that you can have this thought. Any longer and you are thinking with the wrong head again. Lol
    Good idea richard knows best after all

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    I'm writing off the whole thing right now. I know I could that's good enough for me I guess. My friendship is more important.

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    Funny story..we had a close group of friends and my buddy and his gf broke up. All 4 of us ended up banging her. End of story.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Buddyguy View Post
    Funny story..we had a close group of friends and my buddy and his gf broke up. All 4 of us ended up banging her. End of story.
    Man this is messed up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Megalodon6 View Post
    Man this is messed up.
    Yea it was 2 years after they broke up though. And I didn't know she was fooling around with all of us lol. She's one of those unsuspecting hoes

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    I'd never sleep with a friends ex. I'm no saint but I'm more loyal to my friend than some bird.

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    Since you've been thinking about her for so long, you're probably not going to be able to just turn it off.

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    Go hard or go home man, based on the facts I wouldn't hesitate.

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