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[bigsiv]

I dont blame you on your decision on leaving beacuse of the kids.I had the same thing once and I have no regrets and dont care wat people think.Beacuse when someone steals or distroys anything of mine.I just lose it so I had her leave.

Not that I disapprove because I don't know your exact situation but for me it's never the kids fault it's the way they are brought up IMO being a father myself my sons attitude and manners are a reflection on his up bringing. If kids go the wrong way it's up to the parents to reel them back in.

OP I am glad you have sorted your life, my rant yesterday was purely because some if the comments you made hit a nerve, purely personal, so for that reason I do apologise

[swm1972]

Not that I disapprove because I don't know your exact situation but for me it's never the kids fault it's the way they are brought up IMO being a father myself my sons attitude and manners are a reflection on his up bringing. If kids go the wrong way it's up to the parents to reel them back in.

OP I am glad you have sorted your life, my rant yesterday was purely because some if the comments you made hit a nerve, purely personal, so for that reason I do apologise

But when they aren't your children and they have another parent outside the home influencing their behavior your best intentions and efforts can fall horribly short. Been there. Done that. Left the bitch.