Originally Posted by anadrol devourer
easy there hossy poo! and i thought my emotions were runnin wild!
hey, understand that he is young, and his mind and body are going through a transitional stage.....His body is changing and...just kidding hossy
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easy there hossy poo! and i thought my emotions were runnin wild!
hey, understand that he is young, and his mind and body are going through a transitional stage.....His body is changing and...
And I thought girls had all the drama!!!
Dont make me send you boys to 2 different boring threads asking "if you can drink winny" and make you think about what you have done...... HE HE I make myself laugh....I'll be a great parent one day!!!!!
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good idea
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this whole thing by abstrak just seems like a whole 'attention/let me post something diferent' deal. who is gonna really base such a desicion on what is said here??? i know someone said something along these lines, and i just wanted to second it.
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Guilty to that...I asked for advice, I wouldn't base my decision on the thoughts of others though..Not about this kind of thing.
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whatever retard, When did I ever say that i need one of these threads to make my final decison on what my relationship staus will be?? I know I have poor ass english grammar but for chistos sake i though you would actually read what i was expressing in my life?? I guess not..
Get attention?? You're RIGHT! i need all the attention in the world especially from you! After this i am going to make a thread to the whole A.R. community and say that I dont feel wanted and Abstrack is not going to post any more because i dont feel wanted and not many members are paying attention to meWill you please make sure you say something in my thread because i need the extra bit of attention. PLEEEEASE!!!!!
i aked for opinion on a sitution and advice on a situation and some gave it and some didnt but thats the way the ball bounces. Sometimes you need the extra people in your life to get you to think about the stuff that is so clouded in confusion. Well someone like you with such intelligence and compassion probably doesnt need to ask for advice like a inferior human such as myself.
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am fuking tired of this sheet!! i dont drink, I dont cheat on her, i take her out when I can, and I do tell her how much i care but this girl is a fooking basketcase right now. i dont understand why i have to say **** every day to reassure her of how I feel. She told me she has low self esteme and that why she needs reassurance but damm it! Do I look like Dr. Phil for fuks sake!
Should I bounce or what? I feel I need to bounce and just take care of my own ****. I shouldn't have to worry about her all them time when I have **** of my own to worry about.
Sorry for all my forward remarks and such. Maybe you just posted your concerns in the wrong way. To all of us, it seemed as though you were asking for an answer to the question of should you leave or not.
It didnt seem like you just wanted to talk to us about it rather than hearing our opinions and advice.
It seems that you dont handle advice and opinions well that differ from the ones that you want to hear. This thread got negative real quick based on the opinion that you dont handle criticism well.
Just my observation.
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no no no, i can take critism with the best of them. Ther is a politically correct way of addressing someone and there is another way of addressing somone. Your first post starts off with this is so LAME. If it is lame to you than pass it by with out further remarks.
Your other post wher you told me of you breaking up with your girl ona raining night. Whole different story there, lots of great advice coming from you there! You really made me think along with some of the things CB, TT, SPY and the other bros had to say.
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whatever retard, When did I ever say that i need one of these threads to make my final decison on what my relationship staus will be?? I know I have poor ass english grammar but for chistos sake i though you would actually read what i was expressing in my life?? I guess not..
Get attention?? You're RIGHT! i need all the attention in the world especially from you! After this i am going to make a thread to the whole A.R. community and say that I dont feel wanted and Abstrack is not going to post any more because i dont feel wanted and not many members are paying attention to me
i aked for opinion on a sitution and advice on a situation and some gave it and some didnt but thats the way the ball bounces. Sometimes you need the extra people in your life to get you to think about the stuff that is so clouded in confusion. Well someone like you with such intelligence and compassion probably doesnt need to ask for advice like a inferior human such as myself.
well well, touchy touchy...is sum one on PCT???on you.
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Honey-nutted bunny bangers,....thats all i got to say...
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Ok this is the dumbest thing I have ever heard. I would trade telling my girlfriend "I loved her" which I alredy do, to have a girl that was really clingy and consumed. Don't "bounce" if she is sooooo good don't be an idiot. If this thing she is telling you about getting married is so bad then just tell her you don't want to hear it anymore and tell her you will start affirming your feelings by telling her how you feel. COMPROMISE IT'S HOW RELATIONSHIPS WORK
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Hoss...abstrack has been here alot longer then you and i get upset when you call him asshole and tell him to go to hell. He has done more for this board then you have, stay out of the thread if you have a issue with him.
Abstrack, thats really annyoing imo, her having to hear the words "i love you" every single day, but if you do love her they arent that hard to say are they? It´s not something you brake up with a girl for.
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I agree with you bro, however I didn't have a problem with him until he brought my girl into the issue.
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you know what brotha, I have no problem what so ever in saying I love you to her. I say it but she has some insecurity issues which are getting in the way. She told me she needs to her it more? I am just not one to say it every single day and every hr. on the hr. I am goingto sit down and try to have another conversation with her on the issues we are experiencing.
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Well, I gave you my opinion. Tell her you'll say you love her every 5 minutes as long as she supports your "supplements" and does your shots.
Or you can tell her she's fat. Just tell her that's your way of showing affection.
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good point...but i wouldnt trust my gf with a needle near my body...she might decide to go loco on my ass
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Mine says if you love me you won't do it.
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should i tell her she's fat before of after i ask for injections and supps??Well, I gave you my opinion. Tell her you'll say you love her every 5 minutes as long as she supports your "supplements" and does your shots.
Or you can tell her she's fat. Just tell her that's your way of showing affection.
By the way she is not fat..........
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You know I'm joking. I'm sure she's beautiful or you wouldn't put up with her ****. I just have a feeling you're in 2 different places and she wants more than you can give. OR you're afraid of expressing your emotions and afraid of commitment.
OK, now you owe me money. I don't give advice for free. $150 and hour, 1 hour minimum. Please mail cashiers check to....
Last edited by Carlos_E; 02-11-2004 at 09:03 PM.
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So then why would you ask if you should break up with her? We gave you advice and now you are telling us it has not come down to that.
Now you want to sit down and have a conversation with her. Kinda extreme turn from breaking up to talking about certain issues.
Or do you just want us to pat you on the back and help by telling you everything will be ok.
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OK follow the caps and I am not yelling..
YOU'RE RIGHT, A PAT ON THE BACK IS ALL I NEEDED. THANKS!
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LOL. You just should have said that needed hug due to relationship problems. Ya know the shake the hand and pat the guy on the back at the same time sorta hug.
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I agree with Spy and TT. If you feel it...say it. If you need the relationship to go slow, tell her. If her talk of babies and marriage make you uncomfortable, tell her. Communication and honesty....soooo important.
As for Hoss and that whole fight.....stop hyjacking his thread, take your chit to PM's. Sheesh.
1. Once a cheat always a cheat!
2. YES, SHE can get pregnant the first time!
3. NO, PULLING out IS NOT a RELIABLE method of Birth Control. DAMMMMIT..... Wrap that shyte UP!!
Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.
For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage.
What the mind can conceive....the body will achieve!
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You kow it is not that i have a hard time saying I love you because I do, I do email her, i do alot of other things but it all doesnt seem enough.
As far as marrige and children are concerned, I am not scared to discuss it but it has only been 3 months with this girls and she is way off the wagon with this stuff. I told her last night that right now marrige and kids are not on my agenda. In the future? YES but now NO.
I have no problem talking to her about it or expressing myself to her in various forms of love but I alway get the impression that it is not enough.
i tried that ditto thing because she says it so much and she gets all pissy if I do that.
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Then once again, if you do all of those things like you say, your girl is being insecure.You kow it is not that i have a hard time saying I love you because I do, I do email her, i do alot of other things but it all doesnt seem enough.
As far as marrige and children are concerned, I am not scared to discuss it but it has only been 3 months with this girls and she is way off the wagon with this stuff. I told her last night that right now marrige and kids are not on my agenda. In the future? YES but now NO.
I have no problem talking to her about it or expressing myself to her in various forms of love but I alway get the impression that it is not enough.
i tried that ditto thing because she says it so much and she gets all pissy if I do that.
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3 months........................
Some people are just more needy....... not a bad thing.. but you are correct...
there seems to be alot of insecurity on her part...
Good luck... but she learned that behavior from her mom....
Barbi said it right too... communication.....
love is work, and so is a relationship... but does it have to be so hard all the time???
You kow it is not that i have a hard time saying I love you because I do, I do email her, i do alot of other things but it all doesnt seem enough.
As far as marrige and children are concerned, I am not scared to discuss it but it has only been 3 months with this girls and she is way off the wagon with this stuff. I told her last night that right now marrige and kids are not on my agenda. In the future? YES but now NO.
I have no problem talking to her about it or expressing myself to her in various forms of love but I alway get the impression that it is not enough.
i tried that ditto thing because she says it so much and she gets all pissy if I do that.
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Well...not to sound harsh....but maybe you just have to put it on the line and tell her...
I love you
I want to see what the future holds with you
The future means a LONG way down the road
I think I more than express to you my feelings
This is me....don't expect me to change....I'm not hurting you, abusing you or disrespecting you.
I respect our relationship, I don't cheat.
Take me as I am, accept that even if I don't tell you every min of every day that I love you.....every action I take every day to respect you and what we have together should more than demonstrate to you how I feel.
If you can't accept this....I understand and if you feel you need to find a man that meets your needs I will miss you but I won't hold you back.
Of course there are two sides to every story....some where in the middle is the truth. I think there's always room to improve...on both sides.
Good luck abstrack.
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You kow it is not that i have a hard time saying I love you because I do, I do email her, i do alot of other things but it all doesnt seem enough.
As far as marrige and children are concerned, I am not scared to discuss it but it has only been 3 months with this girls and she is way off the wagon with this stuff. I told her last night that right now marrige and kids are not on my agenda. In the future? YES but now NO.
I have no problem talking to her about it or expressing myself to her in various forms of love but I alway get the impression that it is not enough.
i tried that ditto thing because she says it so much and she gets all pissy if I do that.
1. Once a cheat always a cheat!
2. YES, SHE can get pregnant the first time!
3. NO, PULLING out IS NOT a RELIABLE method of Birth Control. DAMMMMIT..... Wrap that shyte UP!!
Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.
For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage.
What the mind can conceive....the body will achieve!
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Amen!
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Amen!
i think you should just do the banana dance for her once and a while, and call it even
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Bro she sounds like a great girl.. Unless you want someone who is Bitc*y
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Alright Ab. Here is my advice and I know it will just bounce right off you but it is the best I can do.
She is not your type and you are not her type. Sure you guys get along and you love her and love the things she does for you. Sure she loves you unconditionally and will always be there for you when you need her and even when you dont need her. BUT....
Now here is where I give the information that you will not deal with which is why I stated my first post.
The point is: You two are TWO DIFFERENT people and you are not (at this time) capable of giving her what she needs. She needs ABSOLUTE attention. Anything short of that will cause her to dive even deeper down into self depression.
You are (in her mind) the only thing that keeps her afloat. She is not trying to swim for herself because she is clinging to you and relying on you SOLELY.
You are not ready to keep two people afloat. You do not have the energy or the time. You might have the aspiration and heart to try but you are not that person.
As much as you dont want it to be true, you two are not made for each other.
You love her but she needs someone else who is like her
She needs someone who is also self conscious and SOLELY dependant on another. Someone else who needs reassurance of love through words and closeness.
Let her go now. It is gonna hurt and she will cling to you for at least a year, but you need to start now.
Sure you can see yourself marrying her but if you have doubts about physically being able to give her what she needs then it is absolute. When in doubt, there is no doubt.
I dont give advice I would not follow. I had the same type of girlfriend for three years off and on. I loved her and she gave me everything I needed (except self freedom)
I broke it off with her one night and it was raining. She curled up in her driveway in a fetal position in pouring rain for an hour. I stayed there for awhile but I knew this was the beginning and she needed to hurt by herself. I left her in the driveway. She was capable of getting up and going inside by herself. It would hurt but it had to happen so she could start over and I could as well.
So Dr Ruth my ass. When you can leave your girlfriend in the driveway in the pouring rain cause that is the RIGHT thing to do then you come and let me know. I doubt you can do that. You might tell her you need time away but she will start crying and you will stay the night and hold her. That is the WRONG thing to do.
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If you could have just said things like this in the beginning, was that so hard for you to do? I read through your whole thread and took your words in. Thank you for your reply Bermich
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As i read this the 1st thing that comes into my mind is "GUYS NEED SPACE"...its ok for girls to be clingy if were in the mood, or to say i love you alot if we feel like hearing it and saying it back....but their are lots of time were guys need reassurance that we are still men and not pussy whipped for 5 fukkin minutes....my gf used to get mad when i would want to do this, maybe hang withthe boys or even just set on the other couch...but its all about space...
Ab...i get the feeling that you need some space...some breathing room...it can be smoothering...i know, but its a very fine line to cross and not pis off the woman
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Thank you hoss for s hitting all over this thread.
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only one thing comes to my mind...BOOBS!!! no im just kiddin but spywizard hit it right on the head
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No kidding if anyone insulted my girl i would have same response as abstract unless you were in front of me somthing else would have been done.
But anyway enough of these girls going back and forth... back the the thread. ill give you a good piece of advice bro.... dont ask for advice from others do what u think is right!
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Well if you brought up her issues in a message forum typing how she is insecure and such, that is insulting her. If you bring up an issue what do you expect to happen? If you were sitting in front of me discussing it, I would tell you exactly what I thought. If you dont like the answer, dont ask the question.
If you think you look fat in a dress, dont ask someone if you look fat in the dress. If you think you look fat then you probably are. Plain and simple
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jkmpcu.....
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I'ts the clomid...He's moody.
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