
Originally Posted by
Nicotine
I was going to reply to him with a similar post.
I am a gay man. I can remember as a child knowing I was different - but had no label for it.
I've honestly have never had any sexual attraction to a female at any point.
Growing up and hiding it was horrible. Everywhere you turn you hear horrible jokes, harsh opinions, and even hate in the media. Everywhere I looked growing up hated me. So I "hid" it as a child/teen because I knew I was hated. I knew no one else and felt isolated. I hated who I was. I hated life.
Trust me. I can say honestly, if I could have just made a different choice and pursued a straight life, I definitely would have.
I couldn't do that to a woman or if I fathered kids, I'd be lying to them and then also harming them emotionally when everything fell apart down the road. Because it would have.
I also worry that how gays are portrayed in the media makes the majority of us look like deviants and Perverts or queens. (As they tend to do with many groups. Steroid users included)
I can respect his opinion that he doesn't agree with it. I just often find that most people's opinions are based on little to no real contact with someone like myself, and is from what the mainstream media throws out there.