it's not working out with my gf, how to I get her to move out.

[JCFobsession]

At one time you loved her, what changed??

She seems like a very attractive young lady? Why u don't get along with her?

You say if she moves out will try and work it out? Why not sit down talk and get everything out?

See I'm a married man, wife and I talk if anything is ever bothering us.... We get along great, I'm 31 and she is 24...

I wish you luck JC and hope everything works out; with or without her

Hey thanks for the nice words bud.

I just feel I'm not ready to fully settle down.

We argue about living together stuff. And it has been 8 months of living together and many sit downs but just can't get on same page. It last a few days then back to same stuff.

Living together sucks cloths pilled up 4 ft tall. Bthroom always trashed. Never on clean mode.

I pay 85% of the bills and feel she should do more things to help out and clean. Or offer to help with bills sometimes.

It's dumb but we're geminis and man we bump heads over everything. Its not all her fault a lot of it is my fault cause things are not how I want them to be.

And I'm just not ready to settle down and maybe I'm not there in my life but I don't see myself saying or thinking I can marry this girl.

Congrats on your marriage and pulling that young lady! I feel when it works it works. When it doesn't it doesn't. Relationship shouldn't be more had then easy and more stress then good times. I know is take two to.make it work and know things will come up but mainly should be good times

[JCFobsession]

The realization that I'm not ready to settle down is clear to me!!

I'm 28 end of may. And maybe I haven't found my lobster or my two brains are not ready for that one woman commitment.

This is my FAULT. I cause issues in the relationship. We have once took a break for a month stopped talking she was out doing her thing and I felt all I wanted was her back. Well 9 months later and living together I'm.not sure I want it anymore.

Me not ready to settle.
Me not wanting to live together.

Us arguing pretty close to 3-4 days a week over dumb stuff.

Thanks for all the responses.

The good, the gay, the ridiculous, the stupid, the jackass, the bad, the really bro,
Cooommeennnnntttttssss

[JCFobsession]

Hi, again I wish you and her the best. It takes two to tangle. Two sides to a story and you know that. So it seem you might be calming. if so great. Now we all have come up with the funnies and the bull-crap advice as well as the solid truth. I hope you get out there, be as patient as you can and do Now what you need to do to protect yourself and your homestead.

I got married at age 28 and I look back, wow I was a just a kid. She was 34 and I feel she raised me since I was a kid. So you are young, be cool man and do the RIGHT THING for both of you. ...crazy mike

Thanks a lot crazy mike. Ha, now your all grown up and know lots.

I Appreciate the kind words!!

[crazy mike]

Thanks a lot crazy mike. Ha, now your all grown up and know lots.

I Appreciate the kind words!!

Ha, lol really. I have many years, and some...wisdom, but this crazy guy aint grown up yet. Well my wife and kids keep telling me to grow up, huh? ....crazy mike

[MiNNiE_MOUSE]

At one time you loved her, what changed??

She seems like a very attractive young lady? Why u don't get along with her?

You say if she moves out will try and work it out? Why not sit down talk and get everything out?

See I'm a married man, wife and I talk if anything is ever bothering us.... We get along great, I'm 31 and she is 24...

I wish you luck JC and hope everything works out; with or without her

Really. .........

[MiNNiE_MOUSE]

also for every dude that is tired of her shit, there is another dude that is willing to give her attention.. Most of the time that's all they want..

amen.........