It def can work and it seems like there rules and boundaries work for them.Originally Posted by wmaousley
It def can work and it seems like there rules and boundaries work for them.Originally Posted by wmaousley
Maybe bring another man into the threesome...
That's what I said. Only fair, right?Originally Posted by GirlyGymRat
Or do a foursome...Originally Posted by Buster Brown
Theres that photo again! Stop boasting!:-)
so good to see the pic again! which one was your favorite (and why)?
Who took the pic. A five some...Originally Posted by lovbyts
Well that's another option. LoLOriginally Posted by lovbyts
No men. She brought this to the table. I agreed to it but didn't ask for it.Originally Posted by Buster Brown
Yes that's what we are working on also. We took a break from the other chick for a week or two. Seeing her this Thursday.Originally Posted by Buster Brown
Not a option.Originally Posted by GirlyGymRat
This has been talked about. But 3 girls and me. Sorry man is not an option.Originally Posted by GirlyGymRat
Taking a break was a good option. Maybe u can implement some slight mods like not doing much with other woman and letting the girls focus on each other. You focus on the wife.Originally Posted by Iceberg
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Yep. Wife did get jelly and so did the other chick. So I'm walking a tight rope here. The girl and I had a weird connection. We got along too well. Even when not having sex.
I always hear this same line. Let the girls focus on each other.
Since when did 3somes become all about what the woman of the couple wants? Any woman who gets into a 3some with the selfish intention on being the only one allowed to play. That's pure Ludacris.
It's about both enjoying the company of another.
Sure I'll sit back and enjoy a show. But I expect the same in return.
Why should the wife get her cake and eat it too?
You didn't read the entire thread!?! OP is doing this for his wife. Seems he is arranging with other woman. I don't disagree with you. He's the one who backed off bc the third person was causing relationship issues. Imagine that!Originally Posted by DB1982
Yup, my 1st wife was the same way. She liked to play with other women but had no interest in bringing another guy into it.
I had a little secret weapon, truth serum that worked with her. When she was asleep I could get here to tell me anything. I would start slow, talking to her and soon enough she would be talking almost like she was wide awake. I found it quite usefull when she would tell me where she had money stashed or other little secrets. lol She would get pissed off and ask me how I knew this or that. I also use to control her dreams, I could make her dream most anything by planting suggestions and manipulating the dream as we went. lol
I asked her about guys several times when she was asleep, this guy or that or guys in general and also different girls. It was very useful little trick to find out anything I wanted to know and it was all good as far as the girls went. I would not have gone along with it if there was a guy involved. Call me selfish but that's just me and she was 100% fine with it also.
I agree. But when jealousy starts I think it's better to let that person feel like they have control of the situation. So this week we all are supposed to hang out. I may just work late that Day and let them 2 go out. They need to talk anyway shït got real too fast. I think it ended up being more than just sex for everyone involved.Originally Posted by DB1982
I think this is the biggest part of the problem honestly. I believe that the threesome turned into a 3 way relationship. The third should of never had a reason to get jealous because there should of never been a strong emotional connection.
I honestly think a one night stand you pick up at a bar or even a high quality escort would be a better choice. That takes the emotional connection out of it.
Your wife has every right to be jealous of you have developed a strong connection with this chick. Emotional and mental connections are always more threatening than a purely physical one. I say cut 100% of all ties with third and discuss with your wife that you think it would be best.
More then just sex for you and the chic? Why are u having private convo with the chic?Originally Posted by Iceberg
Trying to imagine how this convo between the wife and chic would go......
We don't talk on phone at all. And texting is in group messaging.Originally Posted by GirlyGymRat
That sounds good. But then std come into play. All 3 of us were tested at same time so there could be no worries of not being able to fully enjoy this.Originally Posted by Brett N
I'm not into escorts or one night stands. Too worried about stds
So u talk to the chic face to face without the wife present?Originally Posted by Iceberg
Nope. Never seen her without wife. I am trying to make wife as secure as possible.Originally Posted by GirlyGymRat
Might have to find another chic?!?Originally Posted by Iceberg
Looking that way. I'll know for sure after Thursday. I'm not talking to her. It's just her and wife trying to figure all this out. Good thing is no one is mad or fighting. Communication is going pretty good.Originally Posted by GirlyGymRat
Curious. How did you meet this chica?
Yup it's easy for things to get messy. Personally I made it a point to find little things to talk negative or complain about the other girl to help ease the wifes insecurities and show I was not interested in her other than our play and of course complemented the wife.
haha reminds me of one little toy we had, 19, short blonde hair, cute and nice body but a ditz. She was actually a room mate for a short time but I didnt like her smoking and she was a slob. A buddy of mine hooked up with her one evening and I warned him she was a squirter, well not a really but EXTREMELY wet/messy and we had to use several towels when we played and had actual intercourse. She had said she never got that way before. Well it turns out my buddy said the same thing, she never got that all that wet when he was with her.I just left it at that, didnt want to make him feel bad.
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Hahahaha too funny. Yep I am deff trying to stay away for a lil. It will just be them 2 together for next 2 weeks or soOriginally Posted by lovbyts
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