Breaking Point Rant !!

**SMAN12b** · 09-26-2006, 05:45 PM

And WELCOME TO PAGE 5

**DSM4Life** · 09-26-2006, 05:45 PM

I will lay down my post for you.

Ok , i guess my post did nothing

Edit

nice we did make it !

**SMAN12b** · 09-27-2006, 01:26 AM

AWWW dont' feel blue DSM4Life, I couldnt have made it this far without you little buddy....don't make me start a thread for BO to post in all about how you feel about getting us to page five......lolololol

much appreciated pal

**DSM4Life** · 09-28-2006, 04:30 PM

Still feeling blue ?

http://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/Press.../02_10_05.html

**Bojangles69** · 09-28-2006, 04:37 PM

hmm, im just not seeing a page 6 here..

**DSM4Life** · 09-28-2006, 04:39 PM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

hmm, im just not seeing a page 6 here..

Bo where are you in NJ? i work in SJ in Mt. Laurel and Princeton area.

**SMAN12b** · 09-28-2006, 04:44 PM

OK well its been TWO weeks as of today almost down to the minute that I got the phone call.

I have NOT made any type of contact with her whatsoever and I have not heard a word from her at all

I know BO will say this is all a good thing, but I cant help but still feel a little BLUE over that fact that it was that easy for her to say all those things and then just go about her life like I didn't exsist. She is back with HIM, and I am bitter and cold hearted to the 4-5 woman in my life that all want something more than I can give them now because I am still in pain!!
It has gotten a little better, but I would be lying if I said I still don't think about it a little every day

OK, lets go for page 6

**DSM4Life** · 09-28-2006, 04:54 PM

Originally Posted by SMAN12B

OK well its been TWO weeks as of today almost down to the minute that I got the phone call.

I have NOT made any type of contact with her whatsoever and I have not heard a word from her at all

I know BO will say this is all a good thing, but I cant help but still feel a little BLUE over that fact that it was that easy for her to say all those things and then just go about her life like I didn't exsist. She is back with HIM, and I am bitter and cold hearted to the 4-5 woman in my life that all want something more than I can give them now because I am still in pain!!
It has gotten a little better, but I would be lying if I said I still don't think about it a little every day

OK, lets go for page 6

Come on man , we all know you are still going to think of her which is natural. As long as your emtions are no longer effecting your daily routines and health then i would say you are doing fine.

I might be seeing my girl this weekend which is going to be odd but i do miss her . We have both agreed to try and work it out as friends which i am more then happy to give a shot. I love this girl to death but i understand that i can't be with her. I have shed so many tears over it that i am honestly done. The switch has finally flipped in my head that said "Get a hold of yourself you f----ing idot." And that is just what i did. She is no longer "mine" which is sad but i still have her in my life which is cool. I have already gotten myself to go out with other chicks and have some fun which helps me realize even more its over. Once i found myself looking for other girls again i knew i have moved on eventhough this girl will always have a place in my heart.

Time for the gym
later

**Mizfit** · 09-28-2006, 05:00 PM

move on boys..

**SMAN12b** · 09-28-2006, 05:46 PM

Originally Posted by Mizfit

move on boys..

Damnnnn now why didin't I think of that???....LOLOL Thanks MIZ, I guess we all can't be as cold-hearted as you are. Can you tell us how you do it so easy then maybe we wont' have to go through this crap........

but then the women we are cold-hearted with, will find some message board and whine about US all day long......so its just one vicious cycle and I don't mean anabolic cycle...>>HAHAHAHAHA

**DSM4Life** · 09-28-2006, 07:03 PM

Originally Posted by Mizfit

move on boys..

i am moved , just was bored before the gym

**SMAN12b** · 09-28-2006, 07:06 PM

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

i am moved , just was bored before the gym

Good Luck this weekend with your girl. I hope you guys can be happy with whatever you decide to do.....

**DSM4Life** · 09-28-2006, 07:22 PM

Originally Posted by SMAN12B

Good Luck this weekend with your girl. I hope you guys can be happy with whatever you decide to do.....

Thanks, i should be fine. I am going out with some chick tonight to help me get over it all

**SMAN12b** · 09-28-2006, 07:26 PM

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

Thanks, i should be fine. I am going out with some chick tonight to help me get over it all

Have fun with that....lolol
I will get to that point soon I hope.....lolol

**DSM4Life** · 09-28-2006, 07:29 PM

Originally Posted by SMAN12B

Have fun with that....lolol
I will get to that point soon I hope.....lolol

All in due time my man. Like i said before i can only get upset so many times over the same topic. It gets old after a while. We are going to a bar so maybe i will drink a beer or two even though i dont want to. Might work out better in the end though

**Bojangles69** · 09-29-2006, 11:47 AM

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

Bo where are you in NJ? i work in SJ in Mt. Laurel and Princeton area.

Yeh more central jerzey. Monmouth County area. Good to see some jerzey folk in here. There is WAYY to many people in this state. We have to start kicking them out.

**Bojangles69** · 09-29-2006, 12:04 PM

Originally Posted by SMAN12B

OK well its been TWO weeks as of today almost down to the minute that I got the phone call.

I have NOT made any type of contact with her whatsoever and I have not heard a word from her at all

I know BO will say this is all a good thing, but I cant help but still feel a little BLUE over that fact that it was that easy for her to say all those things and then just go about her life like I didn't exsist. She is back with HIM, and I am bitter and cold hearted to the 4-5 woman in my life that all want something more than I can give them now because I am still in pain!!
It has gotten a little better, but I would be lying if I said I still don't think about it a little every day

OK, lets go for page 6

Dude I was with a girl for 3 MONTHS. And Its been like a year and I still think about her almost everday. But its more like her name just pops into my head out of the blue and i make the concious decision just not to go there anymore.
You'll prob think about her for a few months. And what will happen is as you associated good things (emotion/memories) with her, you'll just start associating bad things with her. Like little things you couldnt see about her and probaly still can't. Thats why they say love is blind. Lust is blind too. People dont choose when to feel attraction and when to stop feeling it.

And the truth is you'll associate her with the pain she put you through AFTER you parted from her. What your feeling now, the worse it is, its actually better in a way. Because the emotions you feel now that are part of YOUR identity and YOUR emotions will literally jump off you one day and ATTACH themselves to her. And everytime you think of her you will be in a state of absolute conviction. You will KNOW FEEL and REALIZE, completely convinced of it, that she serves no purpose to be occupying space in your mind anymore.

This is why the only way you get over someone is by going through these emotions, because the emotions you feel are actually lost in a way. Its this negative energy that has no direction. So it kinda just floats around your head aimlessly. And one day your mind finds a home for them. They will take her name (w/e it is) and in your mind a little data bank will be created with her name on it. And you mind will take all these emotions and compress them (much like a zip file) and put them in this little box.

And what happens in the future is at any random moment (usually when you have a clear head) maybe when your driving and just admiring the view, the name will pop into your head again, but your mind created that home for it, it knows what will happen if it digs underneath the name, all the negative energy stored away for eternity. That negative energy over time converts into intellect believe it or not. And your mind will no longer have any emotion connected to the name. Thats ultimately all it will become, just a few letters, and thats the meaning it will have to you. That is life, that is how the human mind works, you'll be fine. Just be patient and have more faith in your mind, it knows exactly what its doing.

**SMAN12b** · 09-29-2006, 12:13 PM

I agree with you BO. It is already starting to happen, just not as quickly as I would like and I beat myself up for giving it more power over my thoughts than it shoudl have. I am starting to REALIZE that it was all just in my head, and the facts are the facts. She could not have felt the things she told me, at least not as strongly as she said or she wouldn't be able to just put me out of her life the way she did. So, I realize she WASN'T "the one" and if not, then it is good that it is over now instead of years of building memories adn then having to go through this.
But YES, I do think of her every day, almost every hour...and I know it is just part of the process to get to the points you mentioned. Just sucks that thigns the we all seem to want, are so hard to have and hang onto in this world of ours.
Have a great weekend. hope your feeling better!!

**Bojangles69** · 09-29-2006, 12:30 PM

Originally Posted by SMAN12B

I agree with you BO. It is already starting to happen, just not as quickly as I would like and I beat myself up for giving it more power over my thoughts than it shoudl have. I am starting to REALIZE that it was all just in my head, and the facts are the facts. She could not have felt the things she told me, at least not as strongly as she said or she wouldn't be able to just put me out of her life the way she did. So, I realize she WASN'T "the one" and if not, then it is good that it is over now instead of years of building memories adn then having to go through this.
But YES, I do think of her every day, almost every hour...and I know it is just part of the process to get to the points you mentioned. Just sucks that thigns the we all seem to want, are so hard to have and hang onto in this world of ours.
Have a great weekend. hope your feeling better!!

I will bro, you too. Just remember, DONT try to not think about her. I saw some ignorant ass comments with people saying just get over it or move on or some shit. Do they really think thats not the first fvcking thing everyone tries when goin through this shit?
The more you TRY to forget her, the more power you ultimately wind up giving her. Dont try to remember her though, just have faith in your mind. It is nature, and fighting your thoughts sometime are like trying to prevent a season from happening. But the seasons always know when to start and when to end. So just have faith. It WILL come to an end.

And yeh I had that little problem with girls saying "i love you" or w/e in the first month and me actually believing it. Now when a girl says it its an instant red flag. And chances are I'll become really confrontational with her and kick her ass out for being a jackass. Like "love", your an idiot. You obviously dont know wtf love is. And i can't be with someone like you (unless they're really hot than i just take it for what it is and play along

) But hey, at least ill be teaching them what love is when i tell them im sick of thier ass and they suck in bed. Than next time they'll think twice about what love really is and whether or not its logical to tell someone that shit on the second date.

Later bro.

**DSM4Life** · 09-29-2006, 03:45 PM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

Yeh more central jerzey. Monmouth County area. Good to see some jerzey folk in here. There is WAYY to many people in this state. We have to start kicking them out.

I don't live in NJ i work there. I hate NJ ! The cops are F**** @$$holes

**SMAN12b** · 09-29-2006, 04:04 PM

I worked in Morris County, Flanders NJ for about 9 months

**SMAN12b** · 10-01-2006, 06:47 PM

How many more posts do we need here to make page 6?

I am sure someone has some relationship issues this weekend

**Bojangles69** · 10-02-2006, 12:12 AM

hmm..
5x40=200

200-183=17

17 left!!! according to my calcumations..

**Bojangles69** · 10-02-2006, 12:15 AM

...wait no, i think its actually 16

**Bojangles69** · 10-02-2006, 12:15 AM

damnit, 15 is what i mean lol

**SMAN12b** · 10-02-2006, 03:15 AM

well maybe you solved everyone's problem already and we will never get to page 6! Damnn why do you have to be so good BO??...lol

**SMAN12b** · 10-02-2006, 03:21 AM

OK, so it is a healthy thing that I just deleted every email I ever sent to or received from her and finally deleted her numbers from my phone..not that I used them, but was hanging on to them just in case,but now they are gone!!

Is that a step in the right direction??

**IronFreakX** · 10-02-2006, 03:22 AM

Yes Yes Yes!!!! I Am So Close To Being Drunk !!!!! Yes!

**SMAN12b** · 10-02-2006, 03:25 AM

why are you so close to being drunk? and what are you saying yes too?

**IronFreakX** · 10-02-2006, 03:29 AM

False alarm, not drunk, not getting drunk, going to work in 20 mins,..fack Im not drunk this sucks......

I drank fvcking 12 glasses of rum and coke, goddamn fvcking alcohol tolerance...BLAH

**SMAN12b** · 10-02-2006, 03:31 AM

You wanted to go to work drunk??

**IronFreakX** · 10-02-2006, 03:32 AM

I always do, its more fun......Ill probably get a 4 pack at work but I like to keep em as a refresher every 2-3 hours to maintain.

Blah...Ill just take some in a coffee cup, all full of rum

**IronFreakX** · 10-02-2006, 03:34 AM

Better get another cup full of bailey's as my coffee creamer

**SMAN12b** · 10-02-2006, 10:45 AM

Originally Posted by IronFreakX

Better get another cup full of bailey's as my coffee creamer

Why are you whoring up my relationship thread??

Where is BO when I need him.....lolol

**Mizfit** · 10-02-2006, 02:47 PM

Originally Posted by SMAN12B

OK, so it is a healthy thing that I just deleted every email I ever sent to or received from her and finally deleted her numbers from my phone..not that I used them, but was hanging on to them just in case,but now they are gone!!

Is that a step in the right direction??

Yes now move and change ur number

**SMAN12b** · 10-02-2006, 02:59 PM

Originally Posted by Mizfit

Yes now move and change ur number

Can I move in with you ????

I really don't think I will be hearing from her to be honest. It's been over two weeks, and the longer it goes the more power I gain back. She is losing the hold she had on my heart. Can't say I wouldn't talk to her, but I don't think I would allow myself to believe anything she may say. I have a hard time just turning my back on people, but I won't set myself up to get stabbed a third time by her anyway!!

**DSM4Life** · 10-02-2006, 04:12 PM

While we are all still dwelling.

I met with the women this sunday. We went out shopping and got dinner afterwards. She was paying for the dinner and brought it up to celebrate my passing of a union test i just took. Things went pretty well. The only time it got a little emotional was when we said goodnight. I was driving her car because her driving is horrible

Well i got out of the car got my bags and she said she had a good time. She gave me a hug and i gave her a big one back. I guess she could just tell i was still feeling the effects of it all and said , i know its hard but it will get better. She can still see right through me

. I just nobbed and said goodnight. So with some new cloths and free food, i had to say it was a good night.

**SMAN12b** · 10-02-2006, 04:21 PM

Well it sounds like you had a productive night!! Maybe over time it won't feel so akward and the friendship will just take over!!

Congrats

**SMAN12b** · 10-02-2006, 04:23 PM

Come on MIZFIT, I see you lurking down there. You must have a comment. only two more posts until page 6

YOU CAN DO IT !!!

**Mizfit** · 10-02-2006, 07:21 PM

Originally Posted by SMAN12B

Come on MIZFIT, I see you lurking down there. You must have a comment. only two more posts until page 6

YOU CAN DO IT !!!

wasn't here had to go get my sis from airport

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