Dealing with people who ask for favors all the time

**cherrydrpepper** · 08-10-2010, 12:53 PM

How do you handle this? I have become proficient at screening my calls lately.

So far this year ive had 3 guys with no car get my number off my friend and start calling me almost every day asking for a ride. I don't know how to handle it; im not interested in driving them, I don't even know them. I have been without a car before and I was like the lance armstrong of scrubs, riding my schwinn here there and everywhere. But it seems like I was the exception as most of these mother****ers won't leave their lawn with an automobile to haul their ass.

**Stigmata101** · 08-10-2010, 01:01 PM

Is this a bad time to ask for $100.00 til payday

**cherrydrpepper** · 08-10-2010, 01:05 PM

Originally Posted by Stigmata101

Is this a bad time to ask for $100.00 til payday

**Knockout_Power** · 08-10-2010, 01:06 PM

I hit this point in my life about 3 years ago... anybody that I knew I couldnt rely on to do me a favor I chose not to associate with much unless they contacted me.. you lose touch with a lot of acquantances (not friends) but they are not really important anyways.

Nothing pissed me off more than asking someone who you have helped several times in the past and then hearing them make some excuse why they couldnt help you out. I dont give 2nd chances

**digismash** · 08-10-2010, 01:07 PM

I know how to handle it, dont answer

**calgarian** · 08-10-2010, 01:26 PM

Originally Posted by cherrydrpepper

How do you handle this? I have become proficient at screening my calls lately.

So far this year ive had 3 guys with no car get my number off my friend and start calling me almost every day asking for a ride. I don't know how to handle it; im not interested in driving them, I don't even know them. I have been without a car before and I was like the lance armstrong of scrubs, riding my schwinn here there and everywhere. But it seems like I was the exception as most of these mother****ers won't leave their lawn with an automobile to haul their ass.

is it a bad time to ask for 19 yrs old phone #??

**cherrydrpepper** · 08-10-2010, 01:31 PM

Originally Posted by calgarian

is it a bad time to ask for 19 yrs old phone #??

lolllllllllll

I was trying to think of something witty to text her today .. maybe some shit about lets go see toy story 3. I think instead im gonna wait a couple of days and ask her out again.

**calgarian** · 08-10-2010, 01:36 PM

Originally Posted by cherrydrpepper

lolllllllllll

I was trying to think of something witty to text her today .. maybe some shit about lets go see toy story 3. I think instead im gonna wait a couple of days and ask her out again.

i went to toy store to get something for my 4 yrs old and they have a new Barbie doll I think u should buy that and give her as a gift......

**MACHINE5150** · 08-10-2010, 01:37 PM

Originally Posted by cherrydrpepper

lolllllllllll

I was trying to think of something witty to text her today .. maybe some shit about lets go see toy story 3. I think instead im gonna wait a couple of days and ask her out again.

have you taken her out yet??? don't waste anytimes.. klids have short attention spans.. get moving with that

**Times Roman** · 08-10-2010, 01:47 PM

if you want to get rid of fleas, get some flea powder

**cherrydrpepper** · 08-10-2010, 01:52 PM

Originally Posted by MACHINE5150

have you taken her out yet??? don't waste anytimes.. klids have short attention spans.. get moving with that

I asked her out yesterday. She said she was tired and hanging out with her roommates. I believe her.

I can't decide if I should ask her out again tonight; Part of me thinks because shes young if I don't jump all over her she'll forget about me, but part of me thinks i should wait til like Thursday then ask her out again? I dunno? What do you guys think

**vanduhl** · 08-10-2010, 01:54 PM

Originally Posted by cherrydrpepper

I asked her out yesterday. She said she was tired and hanging out with her roommates. I believe her.

I can't decide if I should ask her out again tonight; Part of me thinks because shes young if I don't jump all over her she'll forget about me, but part of me thinks i should wait til like Thursday then ask her out again? I dunno? What do you guys think

be careful. i always play the. "2 excuses and she doesnt wanna"

i give it one ask...if its an excuse (real or fake) then one more ask....if its aother no (real or fake) i say "fukk it, theres plenty of pu$$y out there i dont care"

**Hazard** · 08-10-2010, 01:57 PM

Originally Posted by vanduhl

be careful. i always play the. "2 excuses and she doesnt wanna"

i give it one ask...if its an excuse (real or fake) then one more ask....if its aother no (real or fake) i say "fukk it, theres plenty of pu$$y out there i dont care"

This is how I am also..... I just got the 2nd excuse from mine so i'm not askin her again. If she wants to see me she can ask me.....

~Haz~

**cherrydrpepper** · 08-10-2010, 01:58 PM

Originally Posted by vanduhl

be careful. i always play the. "2 excuses and she doesnt wanna"

i give it one ask...if its an excuse (real or fake) then one more ask....if its aother no (real or fake) i say "fukk it, theres plenty of pu$$y out there i dont care"

sound logic

I think I will wait til tomorrow .. and.. invite her to this new club i heard about. I dunno I might go out tonight and try to hook up with someone new / get a number. I've been on fire lately. The last two times I sat down at the bar, a hot girl walked over and sat next to me. Its kind of like an Atta' Boy that I have been on top of my lifting and dieting game. Then again I am on clen right now and thats been helping. I'll be back on tonight I got to break out of here if anyone misses me

**vanduhl** · 08-10-2010, 02:00 PM

Originally Posted by cherrydrpepper

sound logic

I think I will wait til tomorrow .. and.. invite her to this new club i heard about. I dunno I might go out tonight and try to hook up with someone new / get a number. I've been on fire lately. The last two times I sat down at the bar, a hot girl walked over and sat next to me. Its kind of like an Atta' Boy that I have been on top of my lifting and dieting game. Then again I am on clen right now and thats been helping. I'll be back on tonight I got to break out of here if anyone misses me

yeah i had a period like this back around may/june when i was right in the middle of my cycle....i was on top of the world and it seemed like pu$$y was falling into my lap. its one of the best feelings ever.....good luck bro

**calgarian** · 08-10-2010, 02:04 PM

Originally Posted by cherrydrpepper

sound logic

I think I will wait til tomorrow .. and.. invite her to this new club i heard about. I dunno I might go out tonight and try to hook up with someone new / get a number. I've been on fire lately. The last two times I sat down at the bar, a hot girl walked over and sat next to me. Its kind of like an Atta' Boy that I have been on top of my lifting and dieting game. Then again I am on clen right now and thats been helping. I'll be back on tonight I got to break out of here if anyone misses me

she wont to go clubs with u....she doesnt have her fake ID and she is only 16....FYI

**cherrydrpepper** · 08-10-2010, 02:13 PM

Originally Posted by calgarian

she wont to go clubs with u....she doesnt have her fake ID and she is only 16....FYI

shes 19.. and the id part.. no comment. Thats all I can say about that. No Comment .

**calgarian** · 08-10-2010, 02:15 PM

Originally Posted by cherrydrpepper

shes 19.. and the id part.. no comment. Thats all I can say about that. No Comment .

we will understand if u disappear for 15 yrs or so......

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