Well first I would like to say hello to everyone and make it known that I have lurked this forum before. I appreciated the helpful people on this site and decided to join. My current age is 24 and I am 5'11" , 200 lbs. I have been training on and off for about 5 years now. I started as an overweight kid in high school that became very skinny my senior year. I then neither liked the way i looked fat nor skinny. I don't want to be a huge bodybuilder, but I would like to be confident and look good. I have been pretty knowledgeable about workout routines and my diet but the hard part is just sticking to it. Right now, I am at my heaviest I have ever been and hating it. I can't fit into clothes like I would like to and feel nasty. Just a few years back, about 2-3, I was looking my best at about 185 lbs. I was hitting the gym everyday, eating well, and liking what I was doing. As the story goes, I hit the "real world" with getting my own place and getting hit with tons of bills. Along with that came pressure, stress and just recently a death in the family that still has me depressed. I am looking to change my life back around and get on track. I have started working out again about 3 days ago. I have been doing cardio as in running, biking, jump roping, and pushups. My diet is basically as good as I can make due with the food I have at home. I stay away from junk foods, and sodas. I mostly stick with 100% juices, tons of water, boiled eggs, oatmeal, turkey deli meat, chicken, fish, steak, wheat bread, natural almonds, yogurt, and fruit. My question is this. I have people that argue to just cut down and do cardio and others that say I will lose muscle and I should at least work out and do cardio to ge tthe best results. My plans are to look as best I can without the use of steroids for now. I think I need to lose 10 lbs of fat. My other fear with using things such as winny is in my family there is history of gyno. I have a little bit now but i think with working out and dieting, it will go back to how i was 2 years ago. So guys, please help me go in the right direction.