Can't forget

[firmechicano831]

Just wondering if anyone has ever been with someone and then broke up with them for what ever reason but you don't seem to forget about them.
I had this girl that was about 5'8, gorgeous body, sexy legs, hips and face. Model material. She had the best body and face but I knew we weren't meant for each other because of our differences. When I see her or think about her I still feel like I love her. I can't get her off my mind because I know that if I had wanted to stay with her she would be my gf now. I guess it just hurts seeing her with someone else now.
Any here have the same problem where ur heart keeps going back to someone?

[MalibuD]

Ive had a simular problem, it seems like you dont want to be with them but you cant stand the thought of them being with someone else so you stay with them. It never gets better and the longer your with them the harder it is to let go. Better off letting them go as soon as you know shes not the one. Obviously you had your reason and your just second guessing your decision. If there was any doubt then it was the right decision!

[Kale]

Ive had a simular problem, it seems like you dont want to be with them but you cant stand the thought of them being with someone else so you stay with them. It never gets better and the longer your with them the harder it is to let go. Better off letting them go as soon as you know shes not the one. Obviously you had your reason and your just second guessing your decision. If there was any doubt then it was the right decision!

Wise words I would be a millionaire if I had dumpmed my first wife when I should have

[gst528i]

Ive had a simular problem, it seems like you dont want to be with them but you cant stand the thought of them being with someone else so you stay with them. It never gets better and the longer your with them the harder it is to let go. Better off letting them go as soon as you know shes not the one. Obviously you had your reason and your just second guessing your decision. If there was any doubt then it was the right decision!

Words to live by. i just realized this not too long ago. So simple yet makes so much sense and i didnt think of it when i needed to.

[firmechicano831]

LOL, So why did it take so long Kale?

[Kale]

LOL, So why did it take so long Kale?

Because I was a wimpy p ussy then !!!

[Voice of Reason]

It's called wanting what you can't have. You might have to kill her to get over this... (in your mind that is not physically.)

[sizerp]

Old flames die hard.

[calgarian]

the only girl really i am in real love with is now my wife...sorry guys...rest were just for making out...........

[sizerp]

the only girl really i am in real love with is now my wife...sorry guys...rest were just for making out...........

did she make you type that?

[calgarian]

did she make you type that?

I thought I turned off the cam feed....


Come here

[J-Dogg]

The way you talk of her.....almost sounds like lust.

I mean that you describe her physically. Have you jerked off yet today? lol.

I think of a different girl or ex every time I jerk it, so I feel you.

It's always painful to see them with someone else. What really helps is if the other guy is a douche bag, or like in my situation, my ex was with a girl not a guy.

I sounds "pigish" but a honestly, I feel like sex has to be very good in a relationship to keep a guy around. If it's not, that guy is going to always think about his ex, how much she used to like to have sex, or what she did. You have to feel comfortable with each other in bed or that guys temptations to wander just got 10 times worse.

[J-Dogg]

btw, there has to be a clinical or phycological name for this?

Wanting somthing you can't have, or not wanting someone to be with someone else?

Everyone knows how it works though. Best way to get back your ex, or to make her want you back, is to move on and not need her.

[Tigershark]

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[#47]

i hear what your sayin man, its been a while since i was with my ex but i still cant seem to forget about her..

[Amorphic]

ive been in love twice in my life. the first one i dont think about anymore since its been ages. the most recent one i do think about now and then. cant help but feel attracted to her or think about her sometimes but its not something i will be going back to so all you can do is move forward. enjoy the good memories and dont cling on to the past

[Swifto]

I've been in love once and still am. My GF split up with me 3 weeks ago and I was with her 10 months. No cheating, nothing. She said she doesnt feel the same anymore. We get on so well, but she is a lot older than me.

Its ****ing hard and I hate feeling like this.

[Swifto]

I've been in love once and still am. My GF split up with me 3 weeks ago and I was with her 10 months. No cheating, nothing. She said she doesnt feel the same anymore. We get on so well, but she is a lot older than me.

Its ****ing hard and I hate feeling like this.

Anyone got any sensible advice, I'm all ears.

[sizerp]

I've been in love once and still am. My GF split up with me 3 weeks ago and I was with her 10 months. No cheating, nothing. She said she doesnt feel the same anymore. We get on so well, but she is a lot older than me.

Its ****ing hard and I hate feeling like this.

Anyone got any sensible advice, I'm all ears.

Attachment is tough to deal with. When the girl is stuck in you, like a knife.

Just breathe. Listen to music, do something to release your energy. Lift, write, dance, talk to friends about it to get another perspective. Try to take your mind off it, and let time be the healing force.

Life will seem hazy when you're on the run. Just realize that loving the person would cost you everything, regardless of the fun.

Just breathe. It's all right. You know everything comes from within, even things you don't want credit for like the fact that you love the person still. You have to believe you're something even without that person, take a look back... you'll see.

Oh yeah, go talk to other people. Don't be a ghost.

[Swifto]

Attachment is tough to deal with. When the girl is stuck in you, like a knife.

Just breathe. Listen to music, do something to release your energy. Lift, write, dance, talk to friends about it to get another perspective. Try to take your mind off it, and let time be the healing force.

Life will seem hazy when you're on the run. Just realize that loving the person would cost you everything, regardless of the fun.

Just breathe. It's all right. You know everything comes from within, even things you don't want credit for like the fact that you love the person still. You have to believe you're something even without that person, take a look back... you'll see.

Oh yeah, go talk to other people. Don't be a ghost.

Thank ou very much, your 100% right.

I've been occupying myself, but stuff starts me off and I'm back to square one.

The thought of her being with someone else makes me so ****ing angry I cannot explain it.

Lifting is good and always has been.

[sizerp]

Thank ou very much, your 100% right.

I've been occupying myself, but stuff starts me off and I'm back to square one.

The thought of her being with someone else makes me so ****ing angry I cannot explain it.

Lifting is good and always has been.

Yeah that thought of another guy sucks, but you know what? You're better off without her m8. There's SOOOO many wonderful girls out there. What makes her so special anyway? I bet you there's 100% someone else you'll sync up with even more. Go find some fun snatch in the meanwhile

[firmechicano831]

Kale great advise. It's just that the sex wasn't that great to be honest, but her body, face, hair and legs where so smooth that it felt like silk. Besides she let me try anything on her when ever I wanted. What I do is that I hit the gym hard and since she;s on my friends list on myspace I hope the bitch see's my new pics this coming summer. LOL

[Prada]

Kale great advise. It's just that the sex wasn't that great to be honest, but her body, face, hair and legs where so smooth that it felt like silk. Besides she let me try anything on her when ever I wanted. What I do is that I hit the gym hard and since she;s on my friends list on myspace I hope the bitch see's my new pics this coming summer. LOL

Yup been there, super hot girls but either the sex was horrendous or their head was empty. To such an extent that people ask you if you're crazy to let her go but beauty can only take you so far for so long.

[LivingToBeBig]

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Yea I know what your going through, I swear this is a typical thing for guys, When I was with my ex i wasnt happy near the end of the relationship, I told my mates I might split with her so many times coz i wasnt finding myself attracted to her like when i met her, to the point where she was asking me for sex coz i wasnt botherd having it with her any more, we had been going out for 7 months and for a lot of that we pretty much lived together and saw her every day. As i was saying as the time went on and i was going off her, I wasnt treating her right, not really showing her much attention, when we went out i would be eying up every girl i saw. Eventualy she started to lose the feelings for me (as any girl would), we nearly split a few times and then one day she just ended it.

All of a sudden I was like WTF you cant splitt up with me, how fckin dare you..... I was raged.....then i carmed down and started the bargaining stage.... i should have shown her more attention, dont end it with me bla bla bla...... and any way she was like i just dont feel the same any more, which i caused through my actions, but i know it would never of worked long time any way, she deff was not the one, but even knowing that it still hard to let them go. Now its bout 4 weeks later i still think about her every day its so fckin annoying. I keep thinking of her with other guys and stuff, I have cut all connections with her coz i dont want to know what shes doing.

[firmechicano831]

Swifto if she still talks to u just give her some space but send her flowers at work saying thinking about u. Nothing big. Maybe put note on her car or something like that. Let her fly and if it comes back it's urs bro.

[Swifto]

Swifto if she still talks to u just give her some space but send her flowers at work saying thinking about u. Nothing big. Maybe put note on her car or something like that. Let her fly and if it comes back it's urs bro.

I need to let her go, then if she comes back, shes mine.

At the moment, being upset constantly and her seeing me down isnt working. She needs to see me happy and laughing etc...Doing well. Thats who she fell in love with at first, not the person she see's now.

I know what to do, but its hard to actually do it.

[firmechicano831]

Let me tell you from experience on a different relationship I had which is my current gf now. Same thing happend to me like what you're going through. But you know what! If you love something. Fight for it, don't let it slip it away.

[Swifto]

Let me tell you from experience on a different relationship I had which is my current gf now. Same thing happend to me like what you're going through. But you know what! If you love something. Fight for it, don't let it slip it away.

I'm not letting it slip, but this isnt working. I'm pushing here further away I think.

She gets anoyed when I ring her.

[OH REALLY]

i saw my wife the first day i met her she is a beutiful pain in the ass but i love her for that

[WOLFCRAFT]

Just wondering if anyone has ever been with someone and then broke up with them for what ever reason but you don't seem to forget about them.
I had this girl that was about 5'8, gorgeous body, sexy legs, hips and face. Model material. She had the best body and face but I knew we weren't meant for each other because of our differences. When I see her or think about her I still feel like I love her. I can't get her off my mind because I know that if I had wanted to stay with her she would be my gf now. I guess it just hurts seeing her with someone else now.
Any here have the same problem where ur heart keeps going back to someone?

It's probably just because she's so hot.
My ex-ex-girlfriend was totally gorgeous, and I still feel like I should be with her sometimes when I think about her. But you know what, NO I SHOULDN'T! THAT BITCH WAS CRAZY!!
I think it's just something in a guy's head where you feel like a hot girl is a prize. It'd be like having the sweetest car you'd ever want but you got rid of it cause it sucked to drive. You'd miss that car, but in reality it's not the car for you.

[Amorphic]

It's probably just because she's so hot.
My ex-ex-girlfriend was totally gorgeous, and I still feel like I should be with her sometimes when I think about her. But you know what, NO I SHOULDN'T! THAT BITCH WAS CRAZY!!
I think it's just something in a guy's head where you feel like a hot girl is a prize. It'd be like having the sweetest car you'd ever want but you got rid of it cause it sucked to drive. You'd miss that car, but in reality it's not the car for you.

i think this is a major problem for most guys when they are trying to get over someone, even on a subconsious level.

[firmechicano831]

You're right Wolfcraft. It was just the looks for me but I knew that our goals and differences were so great it wouldnt work out even if we tried.

[F4iGuy]

Your mind wants to remember the good times, not so much the bad. Have you noticed when you think of an ex you start thinking about all the fun shit you did? If you remembered the bad stuff it wouldn't be an issue...

[run_n_fool]

Your mind wants to remember the good times, not so much the bad. Have you noticed when you think of an ex you start thinking about all the fun shit you did? If you remembered the bad stuff it wouldn't be an issue...

I think that is completely true, and I am more or less happy with what I have now.

Having said that, there is one ex I do think of from time to time. Hot bod and always up for fun.

firmechicano831, post up some pics of your ex, that will help you get over her

[firmechicano831]

can you do that or will you get banned? If i post pic up of her?

[run_n_fool]

i'm new but i think it is ok as long as she is not naked. have you seen the cleavage thread? pretty sure the female form is well appreciated in these parts.

[Amorphic]

can you do that or will you get banned? If i post pic up of her?

i wouldnt bother. whats the need in posting up a pic of her?

[Swifto]

I keep seeing her out on nights out. I saw her last night and she just smiles and says hi. She looks like she is nervous,embaressed. and not sure.

I also saw her best friend who said she still loves me and there is still hope she will get back with me. She said its not over. She was a big influence when we got together as my ex wasnt sure.

She says she wants us to get back together and she thinks we will, but not yet.

She also says she gets upset and cries about it to her friends. She was upset yeasterday about me and her but I dont know what set her off.

I'm the first proper bf she had in about 8-9 years. All others were like 1-2 months. I was 10.

[firmechicano831]

Swifto this is what you can do. Just go get a card at a store that say I love you. Then put it on her car winshield at night. So when she gets up for work and she sees it, it will say. Just wanted to let you know that you're always in my heart and mind. The first thing I think about everyday I wake up. Then say I love u.
see what she says.

[Swifto]

Swifto this is what you can do. Just go get a card at a store that say I love you. Then put it on her car winshield at night. So when she gets up for work and she sees it, it will say. Just wanted to let you know that you're always in my heart and mind. The first thing I think about everyday I wake up. Then say I love u.
see what she says.

She'll think I'm ****ing mad if I do that. I put that I love her in her xmas card anyhow, but she hasnt got it yet.