Can't forget

[sizerp]

I've been in love once and still am. My GF split up with me 3 weeks ago and I was with her 10 months. No cheating, nothing. She said she doesnt feel the same anymore. We get on so well, but she is a lot older than me.

Its ****ing hard and I hate feeling like this.

Anyone got any sensible advice, I'm all ears.

Attachment is tough to deal with. When the girl is stuck in you, like a knife.

Just breathe. Listen to music, do something to release your energy. Lift, write, dance, talk to friends about it to get another perspective. Try to take your mind off it, and let time be the healing force.

Life will seem hazy when you're on the run. Just realize that loving the person would cost you everything, regardless of the fun.

Just breathe. It's all right. You know everything comes from within, even things you don't want credit for like the fact that you love the person still. You have to believe you're something even without that person, take a look back... you'll see.

Oh yeah, go talk to other people. Don't be a ghost.

[Swifto]

Attachment is tough to deal with. When the girl is stuck in you, like a knife.

Just breathe. Listen to music, do something to release your energy. Lift, write, dance, talk to friends about it to get another perspective. Try to take your mind off it, and let time be the healing force.

Life will seem hazy when you're on the run. Just realize that loving the person would cost you everything, regardless of the fun.

Just breathe. It's all right. You know everything comes from within, even things you don't want credit for like the fact that you love the person still. You have to believe you're something even without that person, take a look back... you'll see.

Oh yeah, go talk to other people. Don't be a ghost.

Thank ou very much, your 100% right.

I've been occupying myself, but stuff starts me off and I'm back to square one.

The thought of her being with someone else makes me so ****ing angry I cannot explain it.

Lifting is good and always has been.

[sizerp]

Thank ou very much, your 100% right.

I've been occupying myself, but stuff starts me off and I'm back to square one.

The thought of her being with someone else makes me so ****ing angry I cannot explain it.

Lifting is good and always has been.

Yeah that thought of another guy sucks, but you know what? You're better off without her m8. There's SOOOO many wonderful girls out there. What makes her so special anyway? I bet you there's 100% someone else you'll sync up with even more. Go find some fun snatch in the meanwhile

[Amorphic]

Yeah that thought of another guy sucks, but you know what? You're better off without her m8. There's SOOOO many wonderful girls out there. What makes her so special anyway? I bet you there's 100% someone else you'll sync up with even more. Go find some fun snatch in the meanwhile

good advice bro

[Swifto]

Yeah that thought of another guy sucks, but you know what? You're better off without her m8. There's SOOOO many wonderful girls out there. What makes her so special anyway? I bet you there's 100% someone else you'll sync up with even more. Go find some fun snatch in the meanwhile

Your exactly right mate. But its hard to realise that isnt it. I will, but its not going to happen overnight. As my dad said, "**** her, there's plenty more fish in the sea son!".

[sizerp]

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Yea I know what your going through, I swear this is a typical thing for guys, When I was with my ex i wasnt happy near the end of the relationship, I told my mates I might split with her so many times coz i wasnt finding myself attracted to her like when i met her, to the point where she was asking me for sex coz i wasnt botherd having it with her any more, we had been going out for 7 months and for a lot of that we pretty much lived together and saw her every day. As i was saying as the time went on and i was going off her, I wasnt treating her right, not really showing her much attention, when we went out i would be eying up every girl i saw. Eventualy she started to lose the feelings for me (as any girl would), we nearly split a few times and then one day she just ended it.

All of a sudden I was like WTF you cant splitt up with me, how fckin dare you..... I was raged.....then i carmed down and started the bargaining stage.... i should have shown her more attention, dont end it with me bla bla bla...... and any way she was like i just dont feel the same any more, which i caused through my actions, but i know it would never of worked long time any way, she deff was not the one, but even knowing that it still hard to let them go. Now its bout 4 weeks later i still think about her every day its so fckin annoying. I keep thinking of her with other guys and stuff, I have cut all connections with her coz i dont want to know what shes doing.

Your exactly right mate. But its hard to realise that isnt it. I will, but its not going to happen overnight. As my dad said, "**** her, there's plenty more fish in the sea son!".

Yeah -- gotta almost take it one day at a time. Flames die hard.

[Swifto]

Yeah that thought of another guy sucks, but you know what? You're better off without her m8. There's SOOOO many wonderful girls out there. What makes her so special anyway? I bet you there's 100% someone else you'll sync up with even more. Go find some fun snatch in the meanwhile

She finished it because I'm younger (less mature) and other things which I cannot mention here. But I think we can work it out, but is that me just clinging onto her or should I let her go as she wasnt happy with the way things were. She was happy, but she was never 100% on me and her, she claims.

We didnt argue alot and got on very well, we are very alike.

I havent just lost a gf, but a best mate too, thats what hurts.

She says I cannot keep ringing her and go cold turkey to make this easier, but thats making things easier for her isnt it?

Cant believe I'm asking advice on the ****ing internet about an ex gf, WTF! Dont give a shit though, more opinoins are better...

[sizerp]

Shes everything I've ever wanted in a woman. Brunette, gorgeous, no too tall, intelligent, caring, sensitve etc...She ticks every box I've ever thought of, thats why this is so hard.

She finished it because I'm younger (less mature) and other things which I cannot mention here. But I think we can work it out, but is that me just clinging onto her or should I let her go as she wasnt happy with the way things were. She was happy, but she was never 100% on me and her, she claims.

We didnt argue alot and got on very well, we are very alike.

I havent just lost a gf, but a best mate too, thats what hurts.

She says I cannot keep ringing her and go cold turkey to make this easier, but thats making things easier for her isnt it?

Cant believe I'm asking advice on the ****ing internet about an ex gf, WTF! Dont give a shit though, more opinoins are better...

I have been there bro. It's tough to let go, but you gotta. If she doesn't dig on you, there's not much you can do, and honestly there's other better ones out there that will give you the love you deserve, like I've said before.

If you cling onto her, and keep giving her attention, it's going to hurt more than ever because either way she'll not be with you. It's the worst feeling ever to love someone and not have them love you back I know.

I think that what got to me most was the fact that, the last girl I felt for, didn't feel for me... aka she wasn't ready for a relationship and wasn't over her EX yet. It sucks cause usually I am the one bashing chicks and breaking hearts. This one time I actually opened myself up, it wasn't reciprocated.

Do stuff to take your mind off, hard as it sounds, go talk to other girls. Get a hooker, anything.