
Originally Posted by
MuscleInk
I wonder if any psychologists, sociologists, or scientists studying ecology and behavioral evolution have looked at the correlation between self esteem and promiscuity?!? I would expect a strong positive correlation - but not a perfect correlation.
Deciding to sleep with someone certainly contains an element of self esteem. If we are u comfortable with our body morphology, we'll be less engaging and may avoid social interactions with the opposite sex. Choosing who, when, and how often to copulate has likely more to do with cultural and national influences and the values one was raised with, more than physical attractiveness. Yes, of course, the hot, tight girl at the club will draw more attention to herself than a "normal" or obese girl and self esteem certainly contributes to one's level of comfort and confidence in "breaking the ice".
I don't worry much about the "wrapping". Oh heck yes, I'd take hot, augmented women over plain, simple women, but a meaningful relationship can only be achieved when you look past the physical attributes and deeper into who they are, their moral compass, intellect, and shared interests.