
Originally Posted by
gbrice75
My friend, I'm at the *exact* same crossroad as you. Not too long ago, a friend (whose knowledge and opinion I value greatly) suggested I may have simply reached my 'genetic limit' (in response to my endless bitching about not being able to gain more muscle, bla bla bla, you've all heard it from me before). I didn't want to accept it. I mean, THIS? THIS is my genetic limit? I feel like I've barely gotten started. This can't be it!!!
Here's the deal though - and in this you and I are also similar: drugs aside (and possibly even with), we are never going to achieve that look that I know we both want. Simply, the guys who look that way have been training consistently since their mid-late teens. They've had decades to develop thick, dense muscle mass - we've only been at it consistently for a few years. That's nothing. I started in my early 30's, and to my knowledge, so did you. In terms of developing muscle, we are WELL beyond our best years.
I've recently come to accept the fact that I won't have the look I set out to achieve. If I had started much sooner, AND didn't spend years destroying my body (which makes this even that much more difficult) with horrible 'nutrition', laziness, etc., then it'd probably be a different story. I have no choice but to work with what I have now. I work hard, try to keep my diet on point, and that's all that I can do. Beyond that, it's in the hands of the powers that be.