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    Bitch

    My wife had me expelled from the premises tonight. I didn't do anything to her. But for some reason she felt that her life was in jeopardy and had a big black dude(cop) escort her home.

    I gave him some shit when he came in but he was a pretty good guy. My wife even told him about all the AAS i had but he wasn't concerned w/that. He just wanted me out of the house.

    He even drove me to a motel, where i am now, and told me to "straighten the **** up." hahaha....ok...

    Point is, i never thought i'd recommend a cop over a woman. But....

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    Wow... Sounds like a great way to end the day. Here's hoping there isn't more crap at the end of the tunnel.

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    Sorry to hear that bro.But you better find a new place to put your gear.Next time you may not be so lucky.

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    That sucks at least you see good in the situation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by songdog View Post
    Sorry to hear that bro.But you better find a new place to put your gear.Next time you may not be so lucky.
    The cop might take it for himself

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    sorry to hear pete! hope it works out man

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    wow. Sorry to hear this stpete. Which you were closer so I can take you out for a few beers. Hopefully all this gets behind you quickly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ElectraMaddox View Post
    The cop might take it for himself
    The cop, Mike, is on shit too.. I don't care about that. He was actually pretty cool. Gave me a ride to the motel and told me that he didn't care what my wife said. But as a public servant, he had to get me out of there. Fine. wife was pissed as she wanted me in jail! This is why i say, BITCH!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by austinite View Post
    wow. Sorry to hear this stpete. Which you were closer so I can take you out for a few beers. Hopefully all this gets behind you quickly.
    PM me your addy! Be there in a day or so!

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    Quote Originally Posted by stpete View Post
    The cop, Mike, is on shit too.. I don't care about that. He was actually pretty cool. Gave me a ride to the motel and told me that he didn't care what my wife said. But as a public servant, he had to get me out of there. Fine. wife was pissed as she wanted me in jail! This is why i say, BITCH!!
    I don't blame you. I hope it works out

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    emotionally unstable women can do some crazy stuff! been with a few of em..

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    Quote Originally Posted by --->>405<<--- View Post
    emotionally unstable women can do some crazy stuff! been with a few of em..
    Anyone emotionally unstable could

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    A cop named Mike on AAS...see you have a new BFF

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lunk1 View Post
    A cop named Mike on AAS...see you have a new BFF
    Out with the old in with the new! Bromance at its best.

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    Ouch, I kicked out the x wife. My house bitch, I ain't leaving. But, I understand. Situations like this can turn nasty quick.

    Good luck home slice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by < <Samson> > View Post
    Ouch, I kicked out the x wife. My house bitch, I ain't leaving. But, I understand. Situations like this can turn nasty quick.

    Good luck home slice.
    Seriously I'm scared of marriage

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    Sorry to hear man. I hope everything works out for you

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    Damn, that is a rough night. And tried to get you in trouble for AAS. It amazes me that a relationship can be so great in the beginning and devolve into the nightmares we get caught in.

    Keep your chin up man.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ElectraMaddox View Post
    Seriously I'm scared of marriage
    I am deeply emotionally scarred. My life turned miserable out of nowhere. I became very self destructive very quickly.

    Marriage in today's society is very tough. People change and bad shit happens. My life is so strange I can't even explain it to myself at times. Oh well

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    You have kids with here with her pete?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ElectraMaddox View Post
    Anyone emotionally unstable could
    sorry electra.. u are correct i was just speaking within the context of this thread

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    Ugh........that's f'd up!!!

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    that sucks

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    I've been married 34 yrs. It has been f**kin rough but we're still together. I've been taken out of the house and sent to different places, not just jail, huh...crazy me for real, but as long as no one gets hurt physically. I can tell you, you never want cross that bridge. I have to be very careful with the sides that f*cks with my temper.I'm doing good with that right now but have been way, way out there. So sorry Stpete. don't know ya yet but don't make any quick judgements.It usually is better if it all can be worked out without a split if you love one another. Nothing like a life long lover ..crazy mike

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    sounds like the marriage deteriorated rapidly.

    sorry to hear that mate. let me know if anything I can do?

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    Man that's big time poo

    I've been removed a few times by a certain ex before we split
    I saw her through rosé tinted glasses until it just suddenly hit me that she was unstable and not me lol
    Hope all ends well :-)

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    I dont get it, how can he kick you out if you have not done anything wrong even if your wife is in fear for her life?

    I ask because I have been there, done that. Wife TRIED to have me kicked out. Cops came and talked to both of us. I was very calm about everything and in the end they said she could leave if she wanted.

    I have actually had this sort of stuff happen a few times. When you know they are coming it's best to take a seat somewhere near the door so you can be seen and stay sitting and calm. They usually stand outside for a few minutes to listen and see what is happening. In my case they heard her going off about this and that and I just stayed calm. I know this is HARD to do but it's a must.

    Dont let them force you to leave either. Suggest/ask if they can take her somewhere or isnt it just as good if she goes since you are not doing anything wrong?

    I agree about the gear. From this point forward I would not be keeping it at the house or trusting her in any way.

    Is this something new or is she always a loose cannon? Could it be hormonal, menopause or something like that?

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    Quote Originally Posted by stpete View Post
    My wife had me expelled from the premises tonight. I didn't do anything to her. But for some reason she felt that her life was in jeopardy and had a big black dude(cop) escort her home.

    I gave him some shit when he came in but he was a pretty good guy. My wife even told him about all the AAS i had but he wasn't concerned w/that. He just wanted me out of the house.

    He even drove me to a motel, where i am now, and told me to "straighten the **** up." hahaha....ok...

    Point is, i never thought i'd recommend a cop over a woman. But....
    This story does not add up imo, im not saying your the bad guy in this situation stpete, it takes 2 to tango, and im sure there has to be a legitimate reason why she felt this way. There is no way she can played out as the bad person in this situation, nor can you be unless there are facts. If she is being a straight out cvnt than ditch her, but if she was i think you would of already left her by now, so i think u may have crossed the border on a occassion but all the details have not been unfolded.

    Hope it works out for u though mate.

    Also u said you gave the cop shit, are u running tren lol?
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    Quote Originally Posted by boz View Post
    This story does not add up imo, im not saying your the bad guy in this situation stpete, it takes 2 to tango, and im sure there has to be a legitimate reason why she felt this way. There is no way she can played out as the bad person in this situation, nor can you be unless there are facts. If she is being a straight out cvnt than ditch her, but if she was i think you would of already left her by now, so i think u may have crossed the border on a occassion but all the details have not been unfolded.

    Hope it works out for u though mate.

    Also u said you gave the cop shit, are u running tren lol?
    Yup that is typically how it works, but not 100% of the time. I know from experience. No I have not always been in the right or never did anything wrong but I have been there, done that when things have gone sideways for no apparent reason and there were extreme accusations made that could have cost me a lot including my job if I had not handled the situation right.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts View Post
    Yup that is typically how it works, but not 100% of the time. I know from experience. No I have not always been in the right or never did anything wrong but I have been there, done that when things have gone sideways for no apparent reason and there were extreme accusations made that could have cost me a lot including my job if I had not handled the situation right.
    I think you could write a book on your life experiences lov and it would be a world wide hit.

    Yes im gathering u kept yourself composed, cool headed and did not lose your shit. There is a saying he who angers u conquers u.

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    Quote Originally Posted by boz View Post

    I think you could write a book on your life experiences lov and it would be a world wide hit.

    Yes im gathering u kept yourself composed, cool headed and did not lose your shit. There is a saying he who angers u conquers u.
    You have no idea how many of my close friends have told me exactly that. And mostly that was only after the first wife. I'm on number 3 now lol

    Honestly there's a large chunk of my life when I was younger that does not seem like my life at all but more like remember in a movie I saw a long time ago

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    It's always best one one party leaves the residence. It diffuses the situation and allows the parties to calm down. It seems like the officer was doing his best to just calm things and avoid further damage being done to either party. Nobody wins in these situations.

    Agree with the above guys. Relocate your gear. You don't need her packing it up and delivering it to the PD at which time they'll have no recourse but to investigate further. Or throwing it away for that matter....

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    I'm sorry StPete. I don't have any advise like the other guys, just wanted to say that I hope today is a little better than yesterday. Good luck bro.

    BSV

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    When not in the moment like now, if I examine my motives before I do, or say anything it will turn out better. Wisdom huh...BS but since the night is gone and u kept your cool (good for u ) and no jail, then that's why I say think now with every move. I wish I did that, I've gone downtown too many F*ckin times. Try to keep those emotions in check. Your not alone we all have them but the success of it is how you handle, what you do with the emotions. I am just beginng at my age to start to do what I've just said. Be cool man and try to live in the moment. My best to ya guy and fellow training guy. ...crazy maybe mike

    Remember before you speak, "MOTIVE" ??
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    Sorry for Youre problems Pete hope everything works out ok.

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    Quote Originally Posted by stpete View Post
    My wife had me expelled from the premises tonight. I didn't do anything to her. But for some reason she felt that her life was in jeopardy and had a big black dude(cop) escort her home.

    I gave him some shit when he came in but he was a pretty good guy. My wife even told him about all the AAS i had but he wasn't concerned w/that. He just wanted me out of the house.

    He even drove me to a motel, where i am now, and told me to "straighten the **** up." hahaha....ok...

    Point is, i never thought i'd recommend a cop over a woman. But....
    Hey stpete. Sorry to hear about this. Life sucks sometimes and I wish you the best and that everything works out the way it should. Don't get down, and if you do, yoy can always sign in here for support. This is a good time for you to do some souls searching and hopefully you will get the answers you need. Good luck with all of this.

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    sorry bro, some good will come out of this! Im sure you'll keep your head on straight. your old enough to know that with women we could never win.. take some time to think things over and remember that you fell in love with her and still love this woman.. we ALL make mistakes, truth is that this incident could very well bring you closer ... with all due respect pete people dont usually spazz out for absolutely no reason, there always seems to be a reason even if its a small stupid one.. take care bro

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    Now I like this place. WE (us) all have a common thread and that what we talk about most all the time but it is so nice that we can all (most) get off our thrones , get real and help support one another in tough times. Good wishes come from some, hearts go out from some, and sound suggestions come from many.
    We like and take to heart some good suggestions you give us on here RE: wrk outs, schedules, diet and steroid knowledge and so we take to heart your circumstances and hope all will get better for you, whatever does come of your marriage. So with that we all try to give you our PEACE of mind. Remember always in this situation the day you decided to marry and who she was then...just remember to keep in perspective. Try to be cool and easy. So enough from this old ...crazy mike Off to train ~ ~
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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts View Post
    I dont get it, how can he kick you out if you have not done anything wrong even if your wife is in fear for her life?

    I ask because I have been there, done that. Wife TRIED to have me kicked out. Cops came and talked to both of us. I was very calm about everything and in the end they said she could leave if she wanted.

    I have actually had this sort of stuff happen a few times. When you know they are coming it's best to take a seat somewhere near the door so you can be seen and stay sitting and calm. They usually stand outside for a few minutes to listen and see what is happening. In my case they heard her going off about this and that and I just stayed calm. I know this is HARD to do but it's a must.

    Dont let them force you to leave either. Suggest/ask if they can take her somewhere or isnt it just as good if she goes since you are not doing anything wrong?

    I agree about the gear. From this point forward I would not be keeping it at the house or trusting her in any way.

    Is this something new or is she always a loose cannon? Could it be hormonal, menopause or something like that?
    Apparently, a woman just has to request help. Not really sure how it works,bro. I just know the cop told me to leave. He followed me into my bedroom and watched me change my clothes as my wife was screaming about all the shit i have in my closet. He wasn't concerned about that no more than i care about people's names on here. The guy didn't care. He just watched me and escorted me out. He even told me to not forget my phone. I'm still paying 120 per night for this motel. haha....

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    Quote Originally Posted by stpete View Post
    Apparently, a woman just has to request help. Not really sure how it works,bro. I just know the cop told me to leave. He followed me into my bedroom and watched me change my clothes as my wife was screaming about all the shit i have in my closet. He wasn't concerned about that no more than i care about people's names on here. The guy didn't care. He just watched me and escorted me out. He even told me to not forget my phone. I'm still paying 120 per night for this motel. haha....

    hhmmmmmmm.... you sure that wasn't DSM?

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