
Originally Posted by
lovbyts
I dont get it, how can he kick you out if you have not done anything wrong even if your wife is in fear for her life?
I ask because I have been there, done that. Wife TRIED to have me kicked out. Cops came and talked to both of us. I was very calm about everything and in the end they said she could leave if she wanted.
I have actually had this sort of stuff happen a few times. When you know they are coming it's best to take a seat somewhere near the door so you can be seen and stay sitting and calm. They usually stand outside for a few minutes to listen and see what is happening. In my case they heard her going off about this and that and I just stayed calm. I know this is HARD to do but it's a must.
Dont let them force you to leave either. Suggest/ask if they can take her somewhere or isnt it just as good if she goes since you are not doing anything wrong?
I agree about the gear. From this point forward I would not be keeping it at the house or trusting her in any way.
Is this something new or is she always a loose cannon? Could it be hormonal, menopause or something like that?