
Originally Posted by
Phate
yeah, the big thing is that guys seen to freeze up and go quiet because they can't think of what to say, but if you listen to what she's saying the girl will make it easy for you, just look for TOPIC WORDS, for example
you: how many more sets do you have?
her: oh idk, i'm kinda new to this(okay, she's new, you're obviously seasoned, you are the dominant figure right now)
you:i understand, this place can be intimidating at first, i know i felt like a fish out of water the first time i came in here(laughs and smiles), anyway, i've got to hurry and knock out this workout(setting a time constraint releases tension so you don't seem like a "lingerer"), but would you mind spotting me in a minute.
her: i would but i don't know how to spot
you: that's okay, i'll show you, it's easy, you weren't going to do some abs today were you?(girls are always down to do abs, don't ask me why lol)
her: yeah i was actually
[B]you: perfect, let's grab a drink of water and i'll show you this killer exercise
obviously that conversation could have went in other directions, but do you see how i was using her original sentence to start a whole conversation? Now imagine if you had more time how many directions you could choose to take it, girls love to talk, let them dominate the conversation and they'll give you all the info you need
[B]good to see you too bro lol