What really grinds my gears Thread

[Phate]

This is what i was thinking had to be done. Did he crash and burn a few times?

yeah, the big thing is that guys seen to freeze up and go quiet because they can't think of what to say, but if you listen to what she's saying the girl will make it easy for you, just look for TOPIC WORDS, for example

you: how many more sets do you have?

her: oh idk, i'm kinda new to this(okay, she's new, you're obviously seasoned, you are the dominant figure right now)

you:i understand, this place can be intimidating at first, i know i felt like a fish out of water the first time i came in here(laughs and smiles), anyway, i've got to hurry and knock out this workout(setting a time constraint releases tension so you don't seem like a "lingerer"), but would you mind spotting me in a minute.

her: i would but i don't know how to spot

you: that's okay, i'll show you, it's easy, you weren't going to do some abs today were you?(girls are always down to do abs, don't ask me why lol)

her: yeah i was actually

you: perfect, let's grab a drink of water and i'll show you this killer exercise

obviously that conversation could have went in other directions, but do you see how i was using her original sentence to start a whole conversation? Now imagine if you had more time how many directions you could choose to take it, girls love to talk, let them dominate the conversation and they'll give you all the info you need

my man phate!!! the power may be to strong!! haha

good to see you too bro lol

[Kibble]

yeah, the big thing is that guys seen to freeze up and go quiet because they can't think of what to say, but if you listen to what she's saying the girl will make it easy for you, just look for TOPIC WORDS, for example

you: how many more sets do you have?

her: oh idk, i'm kinda new to this(okay, she's new, you're obviously seasoned, you are the dominant figure right now)

you:i understand, this place can be intimidating at first, i know i felt like a fish out of water the first time i came in here(laughs and smiles), anyway, i've got to hurry and knock out this workout(setting a time constraint releases tension so you don't seem like a "lingerer"), but would you mind spotting me in a minute.

her: i would but i don't know how to spot

you: that's okay, i'll show you, it's easy, you weren't going to do some abs today were you?(girls are always down to do abs, don't ask me why lol)

her: yeah i was actually

[B]you: perfect, let's grab a drink of water and i'll show you this killer exercise

obviously that conversation could have went in other directions, but do you see how i was using her original sentence to start a whole conversation? Now imagine if you had more time how many directions you could choose to take it, girls love to talk, let them dominate the conversation and they'll give you all the info you need



[B]good to see you too bro lol

Can you switch that with:

:Perfect. Let's grab a drink of whiskey and I will show you the full-nelson anal?"

Or would that be too hasty?

[smokeyd]

Can you switch that with:

:Perfect. Let's grab a drink of whiskey and I will show you the full-nelson anal?"

Or would that be too hasty?

HAHAHA

[Phate]

Can you switch that with:

:Perfect. Let's grab a drink of whiskey and I will show you the full-nelson anal?"

Or would that be too hasty?

actually i use something along those lines all the time, if you are going for numbers(which is super easy btw with a few tricks), then you need to find a common point of interest

for me, being in college, i try to find one of these commonalities
1) same class so i can get the number under the pretense of being study partners(got 5 numbers in the last 2 days with this one)

2) girl likes to party(just got done talking to a chick that loves to drink and party, so i set up a few keggers this weekend and i'm gonna be her beerpong partner(huge advantage)

3) lifting(slightly more difficult, but if you can get a chick to start working out with you then that alone will be sexually energizing, not to mention you get to put your hands on her constantly for "stabilization" and to "help adjust her form"

[bjpennnn]

Good shit here

actually i use something along those lines all the time, if you are going for numbers(which is super easy btw with a few tricks), then you need to find a common point of interest

for me, being in college, i try to find one of these commonalities
1) same class so i can get the number under the pretense of being study partners(got 5 numbers in the last 2 days with this one)

2) girl likes to party(just got done talking to a chick that loves to drink and party, so i set up a few keggers this weekend and i'm gonna be her beerpong partner(huge advantage)

3) lifting(slightly more difficult, but if you can get a chick to start working out with you then that alone will be sexually energizing, not to mention you get to put your hands on her constantly for "stabilization" and to "help adjust her form"

[Friend]

yeah, the big thing is that guys seen to freeze up and go quiet because they can't think of what to say, but if you listen to what she's saying the girl will make it easy for you, just look for TOPIC WORDS, for example

you: how many more sets do you have?

her: oh idk, i'm kinda new to this(okay, she's new, you're obviously seasoned, you are the dominant figure right now)

you:i understand, this place can be intimidating at first, i know i felt like a fish out of water the first time i came in here(laughs and smiles), anyway, i've got to hurry and knock out this workout(setting a time constraint releases tension so you don't seem like a "lingerer"), but would you mind spotting me in a minute.

her: i would but i don't know how to spot

you: that's okay, i'll show you, it's easy, you weren't going to do some abs today were you?(girls are always down to do abs, don't ask me why lol)

her: yeah i was actually

you: perfect, let's grab a drink of water and i'll show you this killer exercise

obviously that conversation could have went in other directions, but do you see how i was using her original sentence to start a whole conversation? Now imagine if you had more time how many directions you could choose to take it, girls love to talk, let them dominate the conversation and they'll give you all the info you need

I get what you're saying. And no doubt, practice makes perfect.