I gotta ask you men.....give me your honest opinions.

I've been somewhat....starting something with a long friend of 4 years whose adored me from the start.
Now....we've only gone out a handfull of times and I knew something was up this weekend and let him be.

In the end....tells me; he can't get over being intimidated by me and doesn't think he will.

I have to really ask......can't you men get over that issue? What is it about me or a woman in general that is soooo intimidating that it would stop you from being with a great woman? Is it such a huge barrier that you just would rather not deal with at all and walk away?

I know answers...but perhaps there's that one on this forum that might give me some new insight looking at it in a different light.


And, no.....for those who don't know me; I won't change or reduce who I am or what I do to make a man feel more secure; so not an option.