Just not the right person for you then..... we've talked before about stuff like this. I guess it really depends on why he's intimidated.....
If he's intimidated by your body type, work ethic, and/or lifestyle - he's not the right guy for you.
If he's intimidated because he thinks you're beautiful, witty, and/or intelligent - he can probably get over it with time.
A guy who is a "5" per se may feel very very uncomfortable around a female who is a "9" or a "10" - It's awkward for him. It can be a self esteem issue..... he may lack the social skills to hold a conversation..... who knows. Either way though..... if he's admitting that he wont get over being intimidated by you then he may not be the right guy for you.
chin up kawi
~Haz~