Wife turn me into the commander for steroids now what?

[Consistency]

Yes, this is true. if you ask for help BEFORE you get turned in or busted you would be good. Not after someone already turned you in.

If you get tested and pop, you will be treated like any other drug pop. Probably a NJP with 45/45. Just hope they don't ask for a Court Marshall...

It sucks but this is the truth

they have been kicking guys out of the Marines here in my unit for a first time drug pop, no NJP or anything, but then again it is the Reserves

[Dizz28]

I've heard of some active duty commands doing the same thing, just give you your DD214 and your out...no NJP no Court Marshall

Maybe to save the government money? Or maybe they just don't have the time to be dealing with that stuff..who knows

In any case, Lawyer up. Don't say anything. Get a civillian lawyer, they will have your best interest in mind...unlike military lawyers who will just tell you to plead guilty

[KeepingItBalanced]

they have been kicking guys out of the Marines here in my unit for a first time drug pop, no NJP or anything, but then again it is the Reserves

Army is so hard hit for people they hardly discharge it seems. We had a goof ball right before my last deployment that had a lengthy list of charges on him just days before we deployed.... We are talking felonies here. He still went with us, got UCMJ, was the CSMs bitch the entire deployment and when he got back he still had to face criminal charges. Additionally, if I'm not mistaken he got in trouble about a year after we got back for something else...and they still didn't court martial him.