ya, at some point, you have to realize that the guys around you, lifting that same weight, are hella more jacked than you are.....and being realistic, take notice that since you are less jacked, your weights are going to have to be less.......and incorrectly doing some weight has no bearing on how big you are
I love these vids
here is one of my many personal fav's
http://youtube.com/watch?v=er5GBIg2s8k&feature=related