So I just started at a new job like 4 months ago and I have now hooked up with a diamond piece that works there. She is a 9 out of 10 on my scoreboard and I'm usually really picky. She's 5'8 with sexy legs and almost a six pack. Big ass and a beautiful face. The only problem is that she wants me to be her bf although she just found out I have a gf. We've had sex about 20times already and she always wants me to take her out and wants to come over and stay at my house. The only thing that holds me back is that sometimes she gets to be a control freak when i don't call her back and don't go out with her. She told me she's already slept with 10 guys so I'm thinking this girls a hoe even though shes hot. She told me last night that she wasn't going to hang with me anymore if I didn't give her the attention she needs. I'm thinking to my self, I dont give my real girlfriend, mom or friends the attention they need and what makes u special.
My girlfriend is not a cute as her but she has the brains and gets paid well, our relationship has gone down significately so I'm not sure if she's the one although we've been together since high school which is now 9 years. Were not married or live together. I'm thinking about dumping them both or just keeping one. What should I do?