my best friend is a girl, and i never had that "sexual" attraction towards her, and she thinks that i dont see her like that, but for the last month maybe a little longer, i've been trying to "screw" her, which proves your theory. Another thing that i STRONGLY belive on and it has ALWAYS happened to me and the people i know, is that if you dont cheat on the girl you're with, she'll cheat on you. Proven by me and my friends and happens 100% of the time. I know it might sound weird but at least that's whats happened to me and a couple of my friends, EVEN with my baby's mom, the slut did it to me twice, but i never did, because i was actually thinking about my son and nothing else.