I am f4cked, and its my own fault

[DSM4Life]

I agree on a certain point of view, but this is not always 100% true.

They say alcohol makes you do things which you just don't have the courage to do while sober...

BULLSHIT, it alterates your feelings and mood, putting yourself in a sort of unconsciousness that brings you to do something that actually you'd NEVER do.

Who choose to go out that night ?
Who choose to drink to the point where he was no longer able to handle himself ?

Who is at fault him or the alcohol ?

If i were to agree with you than i would have to also have to agree that the punishment for killing someone while drunk behind the wheel of a car should be reduced which i don't so i won't.

[ChuckLee]

I feel sorry because his girl is leaving and he can't do anything to avoid this.

I don't want to take his part, if this is what you think, I know that he's been a freakin asshole, as well as he knows.

It's only that I get pissed when I hear someone that was victim of some stupid drinks.
I did horrible things while drunk in the past, so I can understand what he feels.

But again, I'm absolutely not saying that he did well grabbing her throat.
If she was my sister? Well, he wouldn't be here writing right now I'm afraid...

^^^^^^^^^^

Who choose to go out that night ?
Who choose to drink to the point where he was no longer able to handle himself ?

Who is at fault him or the alcohol ?

If i were to agree with you than i would have to also have to agree that the punishment for killing someone while drunk behind the wheel of a car should be reduced which i don't so i won't.

Who ever said this??? Who ever said I agree with the fact that he was right with that behaviour???

If I'd ever see someone beating up her girlfriend I'd make him immediately regret on his actions...
Dude, I can't stand on this shit, as well as you, I just had a thought on how would have to be his mood right now...that's it

[G4R]

Look man, you messed up... BIG. You know you messed up, and it could and prob should be the end of your relationship. All you can do now is apologize (AND MEAN IT), ask for forgiveness, and let her make up her mind.

This is something neither of you will ever forget, just hope she can forgive you someday, and hopefully you have learned from your mistake.

[200byjune]

Who choose to go out that night ?
Who choose to drink to the point where he was no longer able to handle himself ?

Who is at fault him or the alcohol ?

If i were to agree with you than i would have to also have to agree that the punishment for killing someone while drunk behind the wheel of a car should be reduced which i don't so i won't.

maybe he was an alcoholic. i no when i get a strong buz i cant stop drinking its in the family. both my grandpas are. my dad my uncle most my family. im a very angry drunk. i cant control myself. when im buzzed and we run out of beer im fine and dont get out of control

[DSM4Life]

maybe he was an alcoholic. i no when i get a strong buz i cant stop drinking its in the family. both my grandpas are. my dad my uncle most my family. im a very angry drunk. i cant control myself. when im buzzed and we run out of beer im fine and dont get out of control

Your right and i don't know his entire background. All i know is what he told me and if i was in his shoes the last thing i would be doing is posting this on a message board. My first priority would be to contact the girl and try and resolve the problem.

Both of them are victims

That's where you and i disagree.

[ChuckLee]

Your right and i don't know his entire background. All i know is what he told me and if i was in his shoes the last thing i would be doing is posting this on a message board. My first priority would be to contact the girl and try and resolve the problem.

THIS IS THE FVKING POINT!!!!

[DSM4Life]

THIS IS THE FVKING POINT!!!!

I have no clue where you were trying to go with that.

[inky-e]

Quit drinking before you pay a hefty consequence.

[ChuckLee]

maybe he was an alcoholic. i no when i get a strong buz i cant stop drinking its in the family. both my grandpas are. my dad my uncle most my family. im a very angry drunk. i cant control myself. when im buzzed and we run out of beer im fine and dont get out of control

You have some serious probs dude...

[200byjune]

You have some serious probs dude...

why is that. i rarely drink. my uncle is in the hospital as we speak in a colbma from taking a whole bottle of tylonol pms. he was in liver failure and now is in adrenal failure because his kidneys are gone. hes been sedused for 1 week and they are waking him up tonight. hes still ganna be in the hospital for another 3 weeks though. and because of his past history of lcohilism they wouldnt give him a liver transpant wich is bullshit because if it was one of the nurses or doctors there family member would of gotton it right away. and whenever i go to a party i tell people there to cut me off when i seem like im getting drunk. i try my best to take control of my problems. i ont need therapy because i dont need to drink this site keeps me away and im not kidding

[ChuckLee]

why is that. i rarely drink. my uncle is in the hospital as we speak in a colbma from taking a whole bottle of tylonol pms. he was in liver failure and now is in adrenal failure because his kidneys are gone. hes been sedused for 1 week and they are waking him up tonight. hes still ganna be in the hospital for another 3 weeks though. and because of his past history of lcohilism they wouldnt give him a liver transpant wich is bullshit because if it was one of the nurses or doctors there family member would of gotton it right away. and whenever i go to a party i tell people there to cut me off when i seem like im getting drunk. i try my best to take control of my problems. i ont need therapy because i dont need to drink this site keeps me away and im not kidding

Glad to hear this.
This board gave me a lot so far. hard to tell but sometimes I really feel better while here.

That's why we become AR addicted! It's kinda "Lost" island

Btw, sorry for your uncle...