I Need Help Really Badly - Interesting Situation - Please Help Me Out?

[The_Question?]

well you know change isnt always a bad thing...i mean you want to change your productivity level so you wanted steroids...but you dont want to change where you are b/c its your "comfort zone"...i kno that..ive been there..youre scared of change and scared of what you will put your family through...been there done that....but your comfortable where you are and dont want to change that, but u want something better

fuk it bro..life isnt easy5 man..you sometimes have to make sacrifices to do whats best for your family..youre right..ppl in the city go out that way b/c its something that they dont experience everyday....but at the same time think of this...if someone can take their family on a get away to the country for a weekend..then they must have some type of change in their pockets rite....hell even if u have to leave for months at a time then do it...be a man and step up to the plate brother

oh and for some reason when i read your post i can hear the voice of jack handy (the guy from saturday night live who use to read the poems...lol) but thats jus my 2 cents..lol

Jack handy, huh?

So basically you're just being a dick to me because I am laying it on the line here and opening up a little...

Hey dude, if city living makes you an insensitive prick then please, keep me in the country...

First off, I don't WANT a change, I NEED a change, because the situation has been forced on me, it wasn't my choosing.

Second...

I don't want to live in the city because I am trying to avoid bringing my kids up in an environment where if they feel like they need to turn to people with problems, those people won't turn around and make them into some overblown p**ssy character like "Jack Handy" just to boost their inflated ego.

I want my kids to be willing to reach out for a hand from a fellow human if they feel they need it, and not have to worry about losers making them into f***ing T.V. characters.

I want my kids sensitive.

I want them to write poetry if they feel like it, and make great art of all kinds, and I want them to treat people like they are family no matter who they are, or where they are...

I want them kind.

I want them soft hearted.

Maybe you should ask yourself why you wouldn't?

Bitter much?

Look at this thread, I asked a question, and all you guys gave me a straight answer...awesome!

I asked for help and I received it.

I think you equate kindness and soft heartedness to weakness, and it is anything but that...research all of the great leaders in history, they had traits of both strength AND vulnerability, I want my boys to be leaders, and leaders are never afraid to open up and reach out for help when they need to.

A leader must be willing to recruit others to help them in their endevours, rather then working against themselves by working against other people...

Thanks for the advice though...

[Emilio_Rebenga]

Jack handy, huh?

So basically you're just being a dick to me because I am laying it on the line here and opening up a little...

Hey dude, if city living makes you an insensitive prick then please, keep me in the country...

First off, I don't WANT a change, I NEED a change, because the situation has been forced on me, it wasn't my choosing.

Second...

I don't want to live in the city because I am trying to avoid bringing my kids up in an environment where if they feel like they need to turn people with problems, those people won't turn around and make them into some overblown ***** character like "Jack Handy" just to boost their inflated ego.

I want my kids to be willing to reach out for a hand from a fellow human if they feel they need it, and not have to worry about losers making them into ****ing T.V. characters.

I want my kids sensitive.

I want them to write poetry if they feel like it, and make great art of all kinds, and I want them to treat people like they are family no matter who they are, or where they are...

I want them kind.

I want them soft hearted.

Maybe you should ask yourself this is such a bad character trait to you...bitter much?

I think you equate kindness and soft heartedness to weakness, and it is anything but that...research all of the great leaders in history, they had traits of both strength AND vulnerability, I want my boys to be leaders, and leaders are never afraid to open up and reach out for help when they need to.

A leader must be willing to recruit others to help them in their endevours, rather then working against themselves by working against other people...

Thanks for the advice though...

lighten up man...that was ment to be a joke...youre overly sensatitive...how about u read my other post..the one where i actually got serious...sheesh

you came on here looking for advice on your personal life...you got it..everyone out gave you a little piece of them..we all opened up a little to you a complete stranger including myself (we all laid something on the line)

well all have problems and things that we're going through..now seccuss is defined on how you deal with your problem...thats whats going to make you a winner...how wiill YOU deal with it

[The_Question?]

lighten up man...that was ment to be a joke...youre overly sensatitive...how about u read my other post..the one where i actually got serious...sheesh

you came on here looking for advice on your personal life...you got it..everyone out gave you a little piece of them..we all opened up a little to you a complete stranger including myself (we all laid something on the line)

well all have problems and things that we're going through..now seccuss is defined on how you deal with your problem...thats whats going to make you a winner...how wiill YOU deal with it

Hey, perhaps man...

If I sound overly serious it's probably because I am going through a hard time...C'mon, you can remember how it was right?

Think back to your time in NO after all of that stuff...I bet you weren't as laid back as you are right now about it...you know what I mean?

At the time it was probably pretty overwhelming, right?

Well that's sort of what I'm going through now, obviously not on that level, but probably the worst "trial" I've had to face, you know?

If anyone should understand that it should be you, having gone through the trials that you went through in the past..

Looking back it always seems like - "Okay cool, that was a hardship" - but when you're going through it, it seems like a big deal...

As far as how to deal with it?

Well that's what I'm trying to do here, right?

Maybe I am just too sensitive right now, but the Jack Handy thing seemed uncalled for...

With that said, I don't disagree with you...I think that I should ditch the idea of Juice and just see how it goes...I hope I can recover naturally, but it sucks not being able to control the body, you know?

If I thought anyone could understand the desire to push the body it would be you guys...

[Emilio_Rebenga]

Hey, perhaps man...

If I sound overly serious it's probably because I am going through a hard time...C'mon, you can remember how it was right?

Think back to your time in NO after all of that stuff...I bet you weren't as laid back as you are right now about it...you know what I mean?

At the time it was probably pretty overwhelming, right?

Well that's sort of what I'm going through now, obviously not on that level, but probably the worst "trial" I've had to face, you know?

If anyone should understand that it should be you, having gone through the trials that you went through in the past..

Looking back it always seems like - "Okay cool, that was a hardship" - but when you're going through it, it seems like a big deal...

As far as how to deal with it?

Well that's what I'm trying to do here, right?

Maybe I am just too sensitive right now, but the Jack Handy thing seemed uncalled for...

With that said, I don't disagree with you...I think that I should ditch the idea of Juice and just see how it goes...I hope I can recover naturally, but it sucks not being able to control the body, you know?

If I thought anyone could understand the desire to push the body it would be you guys...

the Jack Handy thing was deff not called for and as a man i step up and apologize for the cruel joke...i do remember what it was like...no phone, no running water, total khaos..ppl shooting, ppl dieing right in front of you..litteraly dropping dead..ppl looting..not knowing if your family is alive, no tv to see the news...yeah i remember that..and i understand you

you came here looking for advice and u got it...as a human i want to see you and your family do better..as i said...its all about how we deal with our problems that will determine the outcome..u took the easy way out too many times...isnt it time you looked into another option?


seriously though..i do wish u the best brother

[The_Question?]

the Jack Handy thing was deff not called for and as a man i step up and apologize for the cruel joke...i do remember what it was like...no phone, no running water, total khaos..ppl shooting, ppl dieing right in front of you..litteraly dropping dead..ppl looting..not knowing if your family is alive, no tv to see the news...yeah i remember that..and i understand you

you came here looking for advice and u got it...as a human i want to see you and your family do better..as i said...its all about how we deal with our problems that will determine the outcome..u took the easy way out too many times...isnt it time you looked into another option?


seriously though..i do wish u the best brother

lol...well it isn't THAT bad...

Wow, well how do you make losing a job and struggling in a new one a big deal in that light, right?

Thanks man, well I feel totally silly now for overreacting, you seem like a cool guy...I'm just strung out over this thing obviously and too self involved...

Maybe I just needed to be reminded that there are always worse things out there that others are suffering through...so where did you end up anyway?

Are you back in NO?

Shitty deal that was for sure...

[Emilio_Rebenga]

lol...well it isn't THAT bad...

Wow, well how do you make losing a job and struggling in a new one a big deal in that light, right?

Thanks man, well I feel totally silly now for overreacting, you seem like a cool guy...I'm just strung out over this thing obviously and too self involved...

Maybe I just needed to be reminded that there are always worse things out there that others are suffering through...so where did you end up anyway?

Are you back in NO?

Shitty deal that was for sure...

man i dont even know where to begin...if you wouldve lived 1 day you wouldve prob went crazy...not to mention my ex fiance was working at charity hospital...and with no electricity they had no way of gettin oxygen to the patients..they litterly had to breathe for them, ppl shooting at the hospital b/c now you have all your drug addicts running the streets with guns they got from lootin stores...and what place has drugs? u guessed it..the hospital!

Or take my brother..living on his roof for 4 days..water all the way to the 2nd floor of his house..he had to be rescued by a helicopter...he had no water no food and the heat at that time was crazy

or take me..i lost my house, car, fiance, saw ppl dropping dead...like i said man its all about how you deal with it..i couldve gave up and said fuk it..but i didnt..i fought for what i have and did what i had to do


to answer your question, yes i live in new orleans again...only to rebuild everything that i lost...u just cant give up man...you have to take it and deal with it...you have to beat your problem..dont let it beat you...

i guess this board did more than just serve u a question about gear